Dev my boy you need help !! - Page 4

Originally posted by: dlavanya

well it is simple...when he didnt know what is love or experienced it -- he wanted to know from person who fell in love once...

now that he experienced it ,,,, he wants baaar baaar 😆

Very true ...but that baaar baaar ...not any woman...he needs it from the queen of his heart...his SONA...which is going to be a challenge ...because she is no mood for his silly tantrums...She already has a kid ...so she would expect him to Behave a lil more wise...initially in their marriage he was her kid I would say...he was emotionally weak like a toddler...

Doesnt this happen in real life too...when we become a mother...our child takes the first place in life and husband is pushed to the back seat...and most men complain abt this too...😆

He needs to know abt Soha...😉

Dont want to predict too much into the future as the CV team can take it on a EK serial path too...That time I dont want to feel bad...so just limiting my comment to Dev and Sona...dont want to bring in that girl in the hotel ...which looks like a third angle that is going to go ugly.

What a post👏👏! You have understood the web of relationships so well..

Originally posted by: rahulvats12

I think he is with that girl for only emotional support because he no one have in his life.

Also, his relation with.that girl is quite clear by looking yesterday episode,

He is not feeling good and feeling irrirated when that girl grab.him from behind...u can see that he was not comfortable with her...I don't think he has done or share any physical relation with her.

He never said I love u to her because looking that girl reaction, it looks like she is one who said love u to him first time.

Don't know but I don't think she really love him.

They meet just 15 days back, and in 15 days, dev never share any feelings with her, never have share physical relation, never said love u to her, also not feel comfortable with her...all things am saying on basis of yesterday episode and dev's body language with that girl...then how that girl fall in love with her ?

I don't think in 15 days, she understood dev even little bit...

Am sure,she have other thing in her mind.

Exactly for the girl she is "Dev Dixit"s girl friend. She doesnt know he has sold his company...and again regarding physical relationship...he is a one woman man...but his emotional state is very weak ...under the influence of alcohol...he looks at her and see Sona and remembers her words...in that dark moment he could imagine her to be Sona and slip away to have sex with her...

Later this lady could claim he cheated her ...money , wine and woman is a dangerous cocktail that men should stay away from.
From the look of it ...I hate to say but makers are going the EK way...😡

Originally posted by: preethik

Wonderful analysis! I do pity dev. He's all screwed up in his head & has no one to talk to. Men are emotionally weak & they do sink into an abyss when a life changing event happens! Lot of men.

The point is where do they go from here. Sona knows he has other ladies in his life, ish blames sona, mamaji is as usual a mute spectator etc. if in 7 years there has been no growth or introspection by the characters what is going to propel them to to so? Suhana, is she the key to solving all the problems?only the cvs can answer that.

Yes CVs can answer that ...and I hope they dont take the EKs route...

I did say Soha will be able to heal Dev ...but how...I think Soha will be able to bridge the gap betwn her parents by not being prejudiced while judging each of their acts . Actual healing of Dev can happen ONLY with SONA...she is his cure...hopefully Soha will be able to make Sona and Dev understand each other...Kids know to probe or ask apt questions that will make us think of things/situations . And I hope and pray that she asks questions to her parents...

Lovely post.awesome write up.i am looking forward to the story where both sona and Soha heal dev's broken heart and become his support system

Originally posted by: randomramblings

wonderfully articulated. Its like you have penned my exact thoughts. Dev is a broken soul and only Sona is the healer. unfortunately sona does not realise this as she is caught up in her own web of emotions .

hopefully soha will become the catalyst, but ultimately it will be only Sona who will breathe life in him.

i will not use the word bring back to life here because dev never really had a life to start with.

@ BOLD..Exactly... I really hope so...I want them to understand each other...I want them to reunite..and want them to be a family ...I want Soha to have both her parents with her...😭

Originally posted by: visvin2

Lovely post.awesome write up.i am looking forward to the story where both sona and Soha heal dev's broken heart and become his support system

Thank you and I really hope Sona and Soha can heal him...he needs help...and seeing her after so many years was like a rude yet a pleasant awakening for him...

I hope with all my heart that CVs wont take this serial into an EK route by showing him having one night stand with the lady and she becoming pregnant with his child and his mom being crazy to become grandmother will force him to marry the girl on the grounds of social ethics and norms...once married he gets to know Soha is his daughter...this is how most of her serials are which never happens in the real world...

So I am hoping our CVs wont go on that track...will keep in mind the character of Dev is "ONE WOMAN MAN" and that will not be tampered !!

But you know how unpredictable these CVs are ...so not going to get emotionally involved ( how easy to say...still struggling to come out season 1 's jhatka 😭) and feel bad...

Often people caught up in such mental turmoil loose sense of right and wrong , so what to analyse his actions. He needs help and the helping hand he will most likely accept is Sona who herself is caught in her inner turmoil. We in medicine call acceptance the first step to cure but he is still not accepting . For how long can he carry like that he is gonna tire both mentally and physically . He dosenot have support system and only support he had he has managed to alienate.