Ye Saumya is selfish not for herself but for Harman
N she is not really wrong because she knows how much Harman loves his family n don't want him to choose her over his family.. She knows the importance of mother's love n when u don't have that.. Don't want to say anything abt Preeto love for Harman but Harman surely loves Preeto n harak very very much
Also she feels maybe all this will give him pain now but in long run he will have a better life without her as she cannot complete him n his family
Saumya has inferiority complex which is so obvious because even nimmi didn't let her grow out of it n always said Harman deserves better life which is not possible with saumya
N now Preeto
It's not always easy to sacrifice for ur love...saumya trying to make Harman move on is her sacrifice... But how Harman makes her realize her value n give her the rights to be his wife in front of his family n then once saumya comes out if this guilt n complex she will be the strongest to fight for her love n to be with Harman