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Soapoperasrfun

@Soapoperasrfun

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Posted: 9 years ago

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Women are strong. It is not a debate. It is a fact. It is a statement. Their will power, inner strength, determination, etc are unmatched. To their credit, off late, Tele is portraying a lot of such women. 👏

Sonakshi has been shown to be someone with a lot of self respect. She has dealt with and handled her circumstances and situations well. She fell in love, hopelessly in love. She put her love above everything, including the one thing that mattered to her the most - her self respect. And now, she has been left shattered.

I am not on board with the idea that Dev is completely wrong here, not because I think he has caused any less damage, but because every one of his actions has been taken when he has been emotionally disturbed. He has never been shown to be a man who has any emotional control over himself, and I don't blame him, because who was he to learn from? Look at who brought him up....I won't judge his actions now because it will be unfair to judge anyone when they are under sich emotional stress.

In every situation that you have quoted, Dev has repented for his actions and tried to set things right. I am sure he will even in this case. But, this time, his fault is very big, so he will have to move mountains to win her over, and he will.

The terms have to be equal. Like Sona said in a recent episode, Dev cannot take her for granted. He has to start respecting her as his equal. Till then, Sona cannot come back, she should not come back and she will not come back.

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mayu1982

@mayu1982

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Posted: 9 years ago

#42

Originally posted by: Silambu

Agree but I still want a happy ending ...not just at the end..but want a marriage track in between before the show ends.

One more request Mayu - I dont want Dev to keep going to his shrink mother and lay his head on her lap... I dont see her counselling him well..you know...so this has to stop too. I rather he go and bang his head on the wall for letting Sona go...that's more reasonable and logical...😆

Hahha mani my feelings for DEvakshi demands this track - marriage and happy ending but my logical mind said Sonakshi may be don't deserve DEV at all .

Btw your demand For DEV character will never fulfil unfornatunately. BUT wall is better option than Mental Mata .

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Silambu

@Silambu

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Posted: 9 years ago

#43

Originally posted by: mayu1982

Hahha mani my feelings for DEvakshi demands this track - marriage and happy ending but my logical mind said Sonakshi may be don't deserve DEV at all .

Btw your demand For DEV character will never fulfil unfornatunately. BUT wall is better option than Mental Mata .

I believe in happy endings.😃 The story is about the trio. Story needs twist and turn.There's alot of repair work to be done for all each of the characters. It willl be done and every one will emerge as winners with Devakshi reunited and face challenges together. I believe in faith and miracles and most of all 2nd chances! The separation track will see a new Dev fighting and Winning Sona back...for sure it wont be easy...but that's what this is show is all about. World Peace !

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mayu1982

@mayu1982

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Posted: 9 years ago

#44

Originally posted by: yyy
Nice post Mayu and glad to see your post after a long time ...agree with you on few points but I have a different view on the whole issue especially concerning Dev...my post may sound like I am defending Dev's every action but thats not the case .I want to highlight few things which is being missed as some are still in the shock after breakup scenes .

Regarding job , its true Dev controlled her life by forcing her to work for him but the second time when she joined back it was Sona's decision to continue working for Dev and he did not force her.Somewhere he realised his mistake of snatching her job hence second time he gave her a choice.

Now coming to the termination when you get romantically involved with your boss/employee it's impossible to maintain professionalism .I don't think Sona could have served notice period as it would be impossible for her so the best thing would be to leave the job immediately .I have a feeling Dev will make sure her dues are settled which is her right not any kind of favour .He might help her to get a new job.I know that move will be critized by many .Again I'm not saying Dev did the right thing all I'm trying to say is this is best for both Sona n Dev to stop working with eachim other .

I don't think Dev is in a state of mind to think the consequences of asking Sona not to work for him.He is being a boyfriend more than a boss who is busy breaking up with her .

Do you really think Dev has done some unforgivable crime ? He deserves a chance ...he must realise Ishwari's real issue and Sona''s worth .This separation will help and at the same time it will teach both Sona and Dev to trust their love and stand by each other during tough times .Life is not a bed of roses there will be ups and down and every couple must realise this.This is a testing period for both Sona and Dev and they will emerge stronger after this .Dev will realise that Sona is as important to him as his mother and he cannot live without her

I want to see a female lead different from the ones we see who is strong enough to stand by her love and ready to go against society norms .I wish they send a strong message that marriage is not the solution for all the problems and a single women can be happy and successful .

Superb pos NITU
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It is always pleasure to interact with you . YOu always bring some nice points and different point of view in limelight .

Well I agree with you Sona comes to Dixit house ( second time ) willingly and not forcefully . See DEV and his mental Mata miscommunication results in separation of Sonakshi . That too DEV announced the verdict and in fact she was not at all involved in decision making process .

Agreed with you It is impossible for Sonakshi to continue the job. Sonakshi would have herself resigned from the post . Honestly I had desire that it was Sonakshi who kicked the job. am not happy with the entire execution of the job Nikalo scene .

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The statement of yours which touched my soul was marriage is not solution of all problem and single women can be happy and successful 👏 👏

Hugs to you for saying this

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@randomramblings

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Posted: 9 years ago

#45

Originally posted by: mayu1982

Interesting POV . totally agree with you, between Dev and Sona, the barriers of being the employee and employer are totally blurred. They hardly share that relation anymore.
while dev needs to realize that he cannot live without sona, sona too needs to have "FAITH" in their relationship

when dev was hesitant to come clean with his mother about their relationship all she did was doubt his love. when Bijoy told her that Ishwari does not approve of her relationship. The first thought that crosses her mind is a breakup.

Whether you marry the person you love or love the person whom you get married to - the essential quality for your relationship to be successful is "FAITH" and "TRUST" in your relationship.you need to believe that your relation is strong and can withstand any on coming storms. if you tend to waver at the very on set of breeze how will you face the gales???

"I wish they send a strong message that marriage is not the solution for all the problems and a single women can be happy and successful ." i think you are deviating from the storyline of our show here. Its not about marriage being a solution or not but more about the qualities that an individual needs to have to be "MARRIED" and to "REMAIN MARRIED"

Allow me to explain, to be married all you need is to love the person, to remain married, you need "ACCEPTANCE". you need to accept your spouse with all their flaws and yet learn to respect them .both of you dont need to lose your self identity to become one.

a married couple need to be like a grafted plant , it still retains the traits of both the parent plants while it has a unique identity of its own

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rasika_DS

@rasika_DS

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Posted: 9 years ago

#46

Brilliant post Mayu👏

Dev and Sonakshi can get back but not at the cost of her self-respect for sure. I don't want the 2nd and 3rd promo to come alive just like that. There has to be a strong redemption/repentance from Dev's side and he has to prove his worth.

Like you said even I don't mind if the show goes by Queen's way. People like Dev has to understand that they can't treat a girl like a puppet and make her dance on their tunes/wishes.

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