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Posted: 9 years ago
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Is it just me or did anyone get confused with Sona's behavior today .She is aware of Ishwari's tantrum at the same time she doesn't realise it's because of their relationship. So was Sona expecting Dev to talk to his mom when Ishwari is not in a good mood.Was that a good time to talk to Ishwari about them .Is she the same Sona who has immense patience and maturity to understand the situation.
Secondly,don't you think she is suffering today because of her communication issue ...she hasn't communicated to Dev about RR or Ishwari''s change in behavior ..I can still understand her apprehensions but she could have shared with Dev about her mom coming to know about them ...isn't it unfair to expect Dev to understand her problems when she doesn't share anything with him...

This is where I feel Dev scores a brownie point..he is someone who doesn't hesitate to share his problems,feelings with her which makes easy for Sona to understand him ...

I know I am the minority here but somehow I could not relate to her atitude today.She is suspecting his love for her when someone is begging you to give some time for a valid reason...this whole situation would have made sense if she had known the reason behind Ishwari's changed behavior .

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Posted: 9 years ago
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I agree. While I have always loved Sonakshi's mature, balanced & sensible characterization, her constant doubts if Dev is really sure about her & ranting at Dev seemed very irrational & so out of character. Yes, she has some valid concerns but since when did she get so jumpy that when Dev says there's a crisis in his family, she takes off on him & says What about my family? Bad timing, Sona. Since when did this become a "Tu-Tu Mai-Mai" thing? I felt the Don't take me for granted was a little OTT, given the situation they were in. I sympathize with both Dev & Sona, they both are also learning the meaning of what true love, support & being there for each other means. It's only a question of time, they will soon realize what & how much they mean to each other.


I sincerely hope the CVs are merely trying to show that everyone has their weak, bad moments & have emotional outbursts, just as a means of getting the frustration & disappointment out of our system. Sona was distressed, just like Dev & Ishwari.

P.S: This is my 1st post here as I am a passive forummer. I've just penned down my POV 'coz I feel equally for both Dev & Sona. They both are in the same boat, so to speak! Love DevAkshi.

Thanks for reading!

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Posted: 9 years ago
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No No you are not in minority..😃

Main Hoon Na..

Well honestly the situation is very much similar to Neha- Ranveer - Dev- Sona marriage decision problem. Like Sona said no one is prefect. So even Sona and Dev both are right and wrong in this situations..

Let me explain this: 😆😆




In short no one is right nor wrong.🤪Or whether I am too confused to analyses anything 🤔
P.S.As per public demand who wants to know - How my balance sheet analysis essay This is Short verison😉😆



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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: CXYZ

I agree. While I have always loved Sonakshi's mature, balanced & sensible characterization, her constant doubts if Dev is really sure about her & ranting at Dev seemed very irrational & so out of character. Yes, she has some valid concerns but since when did she get so jumpy that when Dev says there's a crisis in his family, she takes off on him & says What about my family? Bad timing, Sona. Since when did this become a "Tu-Tu Mai-Mai" thing? I felt the Don't take me for granted was a little OTT, given the situation they were in. I sympathize with both Dev & Sona, they both are also learning the meaning of what true love, support & being there for each other means. It's only a question of time, they will soon realize what & how much they mean to each other.



I sincerely hope the CVs are merely trying to show that everyone has their weak, bad moments & have emotional outbursts, just as a means of getting the frustration & disappointment out of our system. Sona was distressed, just like Dev & Ishwari.

P.S: This is my 1st post here as I am a passive forummer. I've just penned down my POV 'coz I feel equally for both Dev & Sona. They both are in the same boat, so to speak! Love DevAkshi.

Thanks for reading!



Nice post ..you have made some very valid points here ..I also hope Cv are trying to show that every character in the show have their own weakness and can get selfish at time's instead of showing perfect people as leads. ..this what makes the show interesting

Glad to see your opinion ..I hope we will get to read your PoV more often ...
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Originally posted by: mayu1982

No No you are not in minority..😃

Main Hoon Na..

Well honestly the situation is very much similar to Neha- Ranveer - Dev- Sona marriage decision problem. Like Sona said no one is prefect. So even Sona and Dev both are right and wrong in this situations..

Let me explain this: 😆😆




In short no one is right nor wrong.🤪Or whether I am too confused to analyses anything 🤔
P.S.As per public demand who wants to know - How my balance sheet analysis essay This is Short verison😉😆


Aww mayu glad to see your POV ...🤗.As always great analysis ...I love your balance sheet analysis ...so unique and diffwtent ...I guess the inspiration behind this is our Dev babu...😉
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: yyy

Nice post ..you have made some very valid points here ..I also hope Cv are trying to show that every character in the show have their own weakness and can get selfish at time's instead of showing perfect people as leads. ..this what makes the show interesting[/DIV]

Glad to see your opinion ..I hope we will get to read your PoV more often ...
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Thx for the encouraging words :-) Your post struck a chord in me and compelled a passive forummer like me to respond ;-) Am now suitably encouraged to post my POVs as and when I have something appropriate & meaningful to share. Thanks again!

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Well when a guy speaks about his mother or family it seems like a genuine concern. But If the girl speaks about the mother (not so positive thing) it seems like she is complaining. Trust me If sona would have done that, some forumwasis might have also felt and said so. Same holds true for the guy If he speaks anything about girl's family or mother, girl would think the same way (general statement, not related to the show). And more importantly being an understanding one sona would always try to understand Ishwari and Dev's bond, try strengthening it not weaken or create a barrier between them. GF/Wife complaining about mom, not considered good, how so true the voice might be.

Dev did say wrong when he said If Sona said something which made Ishwari go nuts and behave in this way. Its similar to the situation when he talked about Neha and Ranveer not being compatible due to difference in status. Sona too got angry because that's what any person would have thought what she did. It really doesn't matter what he was trying to say in reality.

On top of that Sona was being humiliated and called a baharwali all the time by Ishwari did hurt her. She was loosing the confidence If she would ever be able to maintain the relationship. Along with all this her family wanting to know about her, added the extra fuel to her already indecisive mode.

She did right. Dev would have never understood Ishwari and Ishwari would have had ended up in the hospital and then who knows she might have also emotionally blackmailed Dev for not getting involved with Sona. We know she could do that. So what happened was good for now. As Sona said, no time is perfect, so to think this too was or was not the perfect time. But what needed to be done just has to be done.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Nice post..I felt the don't take me for granted was a bit thrown early as she needs this stern Ness to drive him nuts during the final decision moment..but as another pointed out sonakshi s insecurity has grown leaps and bounds coz f the fever fiasco.. She knows him for some time and also the fact that he was so late to realise his real feelings for her..cud have listened him out in the first place..
And her questioning the future f relationship too seemed too early, such questions come only if ur courtship keeps on getting stagnant over years..this s just the beginning and both are still getting acclimatised to each other..cv s rushing to the separation phase..

Hope the give these two a moment of togetherness before the bitter separation

Liked Asha s uncertainty factor..had they been shown too progressive then it would have been worse..

Ish aunty S really a progressive mom..2 instances
1 neha loves Ranveer..without batting an eyelid she approves
2. Girls once enter kitchen get interlocked with choola.. Waah

But for her son none of these laws apply. Aunty ki mahima apaaarr
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: yyy


Aww mayu glad to see your POV ...🤗.As always great analysis ...I love your balance sheet analysis ...so unique and diffwtent ...I guess the inspiration behind this is our Dev babu...😉




Awww thank you so much Nitu

Yes defintiely Dev babu plays an important role in my virtual life😆

Woh bass toh theek hai- atleast mera comment toh"like" kar😆😳

am also very demanding like Dev.. Haq hai mera type😉
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: mena_k

Well when a guy speaks about his mother or family it seems like a genuine concern. But If the girl speaks about the mother (not so positive thing) it seems like she is complaining. Trust me If sona would have done that, some forumwasis might have also felt and said so. Same holds true for the guy If he speaks anything about girl's family or mother, girl would think the same way (general statement, not related to the show). And more importantly being an understanding one sona would always try to understand Ishwari and Dev's bond, try strengthening it not weaken or create a barrier between them. GF/Wife complaining about mom, not considered good, how so true the voice might be.

Dev did say wrong when he said If Sona said something which made Ishwari go nuts and behave in this way. Its similar to the situation when he talked about Neha and Ranveer not being compatible due to difference in status. Sona too got angry because that's what any person would have thought what she did. It really doesn't matter what he was trying to say in reality.

On top of that Sona was being humiliated and called a baharwali all the time by Ishwari did hurt her. She was loosing the confidence If she would ever be able to maintain the relationship. Along with all this her family wanting to know about her, added the extra fuel to her already indecisive mode.

She did right. Dev would have never understood Ishwari and Ishwari would have had ended up in the hospital and then who knows she might have also emotionally blackmailed Dev for not getting involved with Sona. We know she could do that. So what happened was good for now. As Sona said, no time is perfect, so to think this too was or was not the perfect time. But what needed to be done just has to be done.

I agree with you. There is no such thing as perfect time, what if the perfect time or moment never comes? With an overdramatic mother like Ishwari who makes a mountain out of molehill there is high chances of loosing the perfect moment. So whatever Sona did she did it right.

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