Iyea Ranveer ka keya chakkar hai ?

Originally posted by: Tipsy11

That's I want to know as well, something
Is definitely wrong

Originally posted by: rose2015

I felt so bad for Ananya today. She shouldn't go through with this engagement.

She deserves someone who will accept her the way she is.

He put a requirement that she has to lose weight before they get married because he wants a slim wife. That broke Ananya's heart. I hate the way Varsha is forcing this engagement down her throat. It is so wrong. Criticizing a woman about her weight is so demeaning. She should have beaten him with a stick and said get lost.

Originally posted by: rose2015

I agree it is good to be fit and healthy but it shouldn't be done by pressure of someone else. It has to come from one owns heart then only she will be successful.

If mother keeps taunting daughter and putting pressurethat is wrong. But if Varsha explains with love that I am saying so that tomorrow you don't have any health problem then that is another thing. (instead of saying no one will marry you) It is about educating about benefits of eating good food and why exercise is important. In this kind of pressure girls starve themselves and we have issues of anorexia and bulimia.

As a mom of a daughter myself I couldn't let my daughter feel humiliated like that.

We teach by example. If they see us taking care of our health then kids will do the same.

I go to a gym and my daughter does an activity which is fun for her because I have always taught her to eat well and to take care of herself. It is a lifestyle whereas in Varshas home they are always eating food and having samosas and making mithai.

But this is such a sensitive subject that I hope they handle it well.

I bet if Dadi or Akshara explains to her with her kind words she will understand.

Main thing is acceptance of each other because a guy can also have weight issues not only women and often that is overlooked. My intuition tells me this guy will put other conditions in the future because if he is trying to show I will only accept you if you lose weight then tomorrow he may say something else like I won't allow you to work or pursue your dreams. Or he can say I won't allow you to meet your family after marriage. It is about control over someones actions and free will. From a parents view I would have these concerns.

I hope a lesson is there also for parents. That they should not rush their kids to get married but wait for the right person. It is a big step and if a mistake is made whole life the kids will suffer. As a society this attitude needs to change. Women should not be forced by family to do something that they are not ready for. At the end it is the girl that suffers. In this day and age it is very important for women to be educated and stand on their feet because there is no guarantee that marriage will last a lifetime. A women may find herself in a position where she has to support her kids alone and she should be financially be capable of doing that.

Originally posted by: -Maahii-

I completely agree - Varsha is ruining both the bride and groom's lives by forcing this marriage to happen. In the end, now that Ananya feels saddled by the conditionality of it, she won't be happy in the relationship and hence the relation will never bloom.

Varsha has lost it - she is even forcing her daughter to get engaged without the father!! Even after the poor girl cries and tries to object, she doesn't seem to care. All she cares about is "proving" that she can find her daughter a "good" groom.