Every test in our life makes us Bitter or Better.
Every problem comes to make us or break us.
Choice is our's whether we become Victim or Victor.
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Its indeed tough times for Kabir Ananya not only as a couple but as individuals too, they not only have to handle their present but have to come terms with past too, it wud depend on either of them...whether they let these tough times break them or emerge out as winner...whether as individual or as a couple that their fate & destiny will decide...But as of now, its overall tough times...
For Ananya it gonna be tough times, both as a daughter & as a fianc(or ex-fiance) whatever she decides her relationship status with Kabir...she will need to be strong enough to get justice to her father...without being emotional.
Even for Kabir, its gonna be equally difficult to make a girl understand his perspective, his side of story what all he went through...specially to a daughter who lost her father & he happens to be an eye witness...coz as a daughter she wud always have that lingering expectation from Kabir that if he was present there,
** why exactly he didn't do anything to save her father...
** why didn't he put up enough efforts to bring the murders get caught...
** he was a reporter, why all along he didn't do anything to expose any of the murders...
** for that matter why all these years he hidden the fact that "Sudhir Kashyap is dead/murdered"...if not anything else,
** as a reporter, being a journalist he should have atleast reported his death.
but for that girl will need to go beyond the thought that "Kabir hid truth" she will need to realise that most important fact is to find biggest answer "why, Kabir hid the truth" this will only happen When the girl realises the questions that needed to be answered only by Kabir, & for that she will need to give chance to man to atleast open his mouth...& to find answers she will need to ask questions from man "mujhse jude sawaal mujhse poocho" dont jump to conclusion on every given opportunity & make your own assumptions...during promotion case too, Ananya thought same...& now repeating same 😕😕
Kabir needs to have convincing answers to daughter's every question & he will need to really go through a lot, to make Ananya understand his point of view, his inability to bring justice to Sudhir Kashyap...to make her understand that he had not been wrong, Hope Mr. Sharma has his answers & reasons ready...also Kabir will have tough time making Ananya, the girlfriend, a fiance understand, what he gonna go through if at this stage, the most important relationship in his life backs off as a support system...
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It was good to see Kabir at news desk...(fangirl was happy as wished to see him in newsroom) didn't knew someone was noting down the wishlist...wud have wished something else...jokes apart, Shreya's face was worth watching seeing Tarini with Kabir...wonder if somewhere it scared her, that she has to not only deal with ...but Tarini too...Shreya may be successful to drift Ananya apart as Shreya got her "kamzor kadi" she was looking for, but Tarini...she is experienced like Kabir, & she too knows Shreya in & out so breaking her & drift her apart from Kabir wud also be a tough job to do...Glad to see Tarini royally ignoring Shreya...😆😆😆wonder what angered Shreya more...Kabir settling down with Ananya or seeing Tarini still with Kabir...
Glad to know, Kabir was almost about to follow fangirl's advice to reveal truth himself...but guess his bad, that he didn't got a chance to do that...instead got a nice tight slap from his fiance...felt bad for my hero...second time after promo, that time he deserved it...but this time *sigh* atleast he deserved one chance to explain himself.
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I don't know if I should be happy or sad, Ananya reacted in same manner as expected...she too joins the list of hero's female leads who just need a split of second to misunderstand him...& will not give him even a moment to explain himself...my poor hero...🤗
Overall Ananya's reaction & her walking out on Kabir didn't came as a shocking surprise, as I was prepared for it...but "karara slap" was indeed a shocking surprise...ðŸ˜& I literally needed to be so strong as a fangirl to just sit throughout the show after that...A big thank you for CVs that you didn't made the whole sequence a melodramatic...it was just blink & you miss...if it wud have been dragged fangirl wud have just switched off the TV...
Not being biased as a fangirl, but I really wonder if slap was really required, Ananya cud have simply walked out on Kabir, or just simply throw off the engagement ring back to him ...that wud have been much more than the slap...anyways can understand Ananya as a daughter & her reaction was justified...it had been too emotional moment for her to see her fianc agreeing to the fact that he had witnessed her dad's murder...(hopefully, this puts end to speculation that Sudhir Kashyap is alive😆😆) & its been like shattering trust not only on her fianc Kabir, but it broke her trust on "The Kabir Sharma" whom she has hero worshipped all these years...& idolized him all through...& looked upto him as an inspiration, a person who always goes to fight for truth till the end, without giving up.
All her anger, her slapping & loosing trust on Kabir can be justified & understood...coz no matter how big reason Kabir has for hiding the truth, he did a mistake of hiding truth from Ananya & from whole Kashyap family...he deserves anger from their perspective...if he cud be man enough to confess everything about his past to Ananya ...& have seen her accepting him & his love with open & big heart, accepting him with all his flaws & weaknesses, Kabir should have taken the risk to tell her about Sudhir Kashyap & his involvement in the whole situation too... Atleast he wud have been saved from slap...😛
The boyfriend in him wanted to see his girlfriend's "gussewala avatar" ab bhugto Mr. Sharma, dats why we say ...always be careful what you wish for!!!
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But everything said & done, overall Ananya's reaction have been a little impulsive one, I hope she read the email correctly, kahin galat toh nahi padh liya🤣 that Kabir murdered sudhir...😆😆 instead of "Kabir witnessed Sudhir's murder"...jokes apart, I know, Ananya wud not give in so soon a chance to Kabir to explain himself she might take this whole week or may be coming next week too, (fangirl not keeping any expectation from Ananya) but I really hope in all her anger...& in this emotional moment she remembers an important fact she learnt from her hero, her idol""har kahani do pehlu hote hai"...I know I am being too hopeful from Ananya, but still I really hope that when her anger calms down, with a cool mind she reflects upon her reaction, her outburst & realizes that she didn't gave a chance to Kabir to complete what he wanted to confess, she just heard his "Yes" & reacted...
Ananya was quick enough to pass the judgement "aap joothe ho" ...but did she asked a second question "aapne pehle kyun nahi bataya...ya ab tak kyun nahi bataya tha.." agreed at that moment she was too emotional as a daughter, the truth revelation had broken her...but I really hope girl do ponders over to giving a chance to Kabir, if not to Kabir Sharma who witnessed her dad's murder...but a chance to Kabir, who just days back was ready to sacrifice his own life with her, for her...afterall "jaan lene se zyada, jaan bachana badi breaking news banti hai" 😛😳...& I really hope Ananya thinks about whole matter with cool mind, to find the reason behind Kabir hiding truth & realizes logically Kabir wudn't gain anything hiding truth but he feared revealing truth he will loose most important person of his life...
Very frankly, personally I don't care how much time these two take to patch up...😕😕 but this time I want a self realization coming from Ananya herself...not because any Ronnie forces her to listen to Kabir, or Mrs. Kashyap requests her to listen out to Kabir...Even for that matter, I wont even like to see Kabir to follow his romantic promise "main hi manata rahunga" ...romantically it sounds good, but in such serious matters like this girl should needs to realize this herself...when everytime two of them fight, why a third person had to jump in & patch them up...being a couple, they should sort out their differences themselves...Why they always need a third person's push to communicate with each other...they should give a chance to other from your own self...Today's its about Sudhir Kashyap, just a "email" brought their relationship at this tomorrow...in future it can be something much bigger...agreed, Kabir's "yes" was what hurted Ananya more...but she didn't even questioned "why?" that why truth was hidden from her...why Kabir didn't revealed it back when he revealed about Sudhir's sucide...or even when he revealed everything from his past...if he has hidden there must be a "reason" behind it...which more important to know.
Though I am not expecting an apology from Ananya, as she is not kind of girl who will say "sorry" to Kabir for slapping him or over reacting...but still, if she apologizes...fangirl in me wud be happy... & wud be happiest if Ananya atleast gives one chance to Kabir to give his side of story...😒 & I wanna see Ananya's reaction when she comes to know that in whole Sudhir Kashyap fiasco, Kabir & his family also got effected to a larger extent...coz, I am guessing from how Kabir's bhabhi reacted to fact Ananya being Sudhir's daughter...I think their family suffered & got effected equally in whole situation...inspite of that they accepted Ananya in their family.
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As of moment, all hopes rested upon Aunty ji, my fingers crossed hope she gonna react differently & more maturedly than her daughter...agreed it gonna be equally emotional for her too, as its all about her husband...but I really hope Mrs. Kashyap will understand Kabir & remembers what he had said "Imtehaan dene se mat rokiega"... & hope she does gives poor boy, a chance to give his version of story ...what he faced & gone through back at that moment.
As for Shreya, too much ho raha hai ab, with your concept of pehle todo & jodo...now I am starting having doubts you handle business of a news channel or some adhesive brand like fevicol or something...& really feel woman is living in a dream bubble..."Kabir aur Shreya ek baar phir"....Really Shreya darling...🤣chutkule bahut sunati hai aap...🤣even if you manage to break Kabir, though its highly impossible this time round...but still if he breaks down...100 % gurantee, he will not come back running to you...he has not done same in past, neither he will do now, nor in future...(unless he lays a trap for you)😈...
Most importantly breaking Ananya emotionally might have been easier for her...but breaking the Man, who has risen up & reached here after experiencing breakdown from her...its gonna be easier said than done...afterall, "girkar uthna wohi jante hai, jo haar kya hai, yeh nahi jante"...& a man who has risen after a fall, breaking him is next to impossible..for a moment he may waver if caught unawares, but him breaking down again is really tough.
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Wishing all the best to my hero...wud love to see him win...even if it means him to reach truth "ekla chalo"...😆😆😆 & fangirl wud love to see you completing your incomplete fight for truth from years back...which cudn't reach its end for whatever reasons...hope this time you get successful & may be you will be able to win back trust of your girlfriend too.
All the best to a daughter too, that keeping every emotion aside -be it Love, hatred, anger...& instead of fighting over with Kabir for hiding truth...try to find out real culprits who murdered, follow the story as a journalist...may be in the process you may find your trust again on your fianc or by that time it wud be ex fianc ...since you have decided to break off...Hope with time you do realize the exact reason behind Kabir hiding the truth & from you.
Goodluck!!! I'm keeping my belief in Kabir, 😃 that he wud stay strong irrespective Ananya stands with him or not...this time round he will not allow anyone to break him...He has risen in past & will do same now! Gir kar, khud uthne wale ko dobara girana is tough!! To Kabir, I can only say one thing "This too, shall pass" ...
All the best!!
p.s."fangirl not in mood to wish anything...don't know what to wish, just wish to see Kabir staying strong & positive!!! & just bounce back like a "ghayal sher"...😳😃
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When Life knocks you down,
just roll over on back & look at the Stars...
Tough times don't last...but Tough people Do...
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episode 108
September 15,2015
Cricket
Kyunki Saas Bhi Kabhi Bahu Thi 2
Fan Fictions
