Wish it was written differently *Collages Added*

Originally posted by: -Anku-

I understand where you're coming from Gan. I would have felt like that too because we have craved to see a moment between the both where they share this pain together and lessen it by supporting the other. And obviously it will come eventually. But I also got where they came from.

For Ishita this is like a replay of what happened to her before. She was hopeful, dreaming of a beautiful future and it suddenly was taken away. She fears losing the happiness, has her insecurities from the past and also seeing Raman so happy makes her want to see him like that a little while longer before the news is broken to him. It's anyway not easy to disclose something like this easily.

And same goes for Raman. He feels guilty for raising her hopes and feels scared to break them again and see her crumble in front of himself.

Yes, the logical thing here is, that both knew this could be a possibility since her pregnancy was always going to be tough. But still, this is never easy to go through.

I loved the rawness, intensity and their longing in the episode. Their love for each other so significantly shown. And the actors added more to it by their performance.

I shall come back with more on another post later maybe. And waiting for your update too.

Originally posted by: Rekhaarvind

I agree with u, Gan both the actors did a fantastic job, but as something was amiss today, felt a void. I got married didn't conceive adopted and lost all hope of conceiving but 2 yrs into adopting my daughter at the age of 43 got pregnant and had a healthy son. I was watching this show because it was a show with a unique story line and actually I went through a lot of fertility treatments and when I had lost all hope I got lucky. They could have shown the audience the difficulties both emotional and physical of both and that would have been nice. Instead of bringing Shagun and making her so saintly this looks so artificial anyway medical science has advanced so much and anyway they have 2 kids who love her and whom she loves so what is the need for surrogacy. Sorry I am in U S and this is the only Indian show I watch but now I watch only if I see Gan has made a note anyway u do a good job Gan by writing the honest opinion and u r v correct all the time.

Originally posted by: mayasundar

Hi Gan,

I thought I was the only one who did not like the episode because yesterday too I could not gel with the episode but most of them thought yesterday episode was good.

Sarika grapravesh scene was nice it would have been enjoyable if sadness did not envelope our main leads.

Romi acted nicely as a new groom even though they show to the outside world they are not afraid inside they are clearly afraid to start a new relationship. The boys teasing him was so natural because that is what happens in real life too and the scene leading him to Ishita was nicely done because the boys teased him but didn't understand his problem but his bhabhi did it is also a subtle way they showed the devar/bhabhi bond is still there like when he was diagnosed impotent he was searching for his bhabhi saying she is the only one who can understand him.

Romi/Ishita talk was nice I didn't feel like she was giving lectures to him but as an elder she was advising him it shows how much he respects her and love her and in turn it shows how much she adores him it was kind of looked like how they were in the beginning of the YHM but this time I could not enjoy their bond mainly because of the venom he spewed in MU track and no apology from him so I could not go back to Bhabi/Devar special bond which used to be nice to watch without an apology Cv they have tainted this relationship too.

Romika scene was nice to watch as they pledged to start a new relationship hope there is no trouble in their little paradise.

I don't understand why the doctor is divulging confidential patient information to a third party and I can stand this Shagun who is feeling bad for Ishita.

At least today I am little bit happy because Raman noticed that something is bothering her but I was so disappointed with both of them

First for Ishita not sharing the news I can understand she did not want to say anything in the morning to spoil the mood of the marriage but every ritual was completed and everyone has gone to the bed so this is the time she should open up and show her pain to Raman what is the use of marriage if you cannot fall on your lovers shoulder to cry out your pain.

Second because Raman even after knowing something is bothering her didn't go look for her. He could have easily walked to Iyer house and told Mihika that your sister will talk to you tomorrow even if it was true and she was talking with Mihika and dragged her home to find out what the problem is because that is what marriage entails it if one partner is hiding something by hook or crook the other partner finds out what is bothering his better half.

I understand each one wanted to be strong prepare themselves mentally to support the other person when they hear the difficult news this happens in real life too but somehow the Cv didn't convey this properly it was poorly executed so it felt like they were hiding things from each other once again.

KP and DT did a fabulous job but the script was not strong enough. I hope we get to see IshRa supporting each other in this difficult time instead of suffering alone by themselves.

I am okay with all the emotional turmoil we are going to witness in this track but I want the Cv to deal with the track sensibly and not make a mockery of it because this is such a sensitive issue and I definitely don't want to watch a stupid surrogacy crap track.

Even though the actor/actress are emoting beautifully I am not able to connect mainly because of the impending doom hanging above the head and thinking when would be the last day I would be watching YHM because of the surrogacy crap.