Episode 18 Take:Gayatri..I deserve Respect:Collages Added Pg1

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Credit for Opening Banner & Collages goes to -Shwets- aka Shweta


"Respect" ⭐️

Yes thats what Gayatri wants from her family .. "Respect" 👍🏼 ... When her brother tells her that they gave her all the luxuries and so now she owes it to them , all Gayatri tells them is she never wanted all this , she just wanted respect from them .. Respect to make her own choice for her lifepartner .. Respect to live with freedom and dignity 👏👏 ... Today even her father gave up in the end but Gayatri still stood firm with her stand 👍🏼 ..I was sure that mayb Gayatri will finally give up today under pressure but woww she dint give up till the very end even after her mother's bhookh hartal drama 😲👏👏 .. Gayatri is setting up a perfect example of what women empowerment is ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️

Loved the way She told everyone that being an educated girl , she will not let her education go in waste but will rather take up some job and stand on her own feet so that her mother's worry regarding her future does not remain anymore once she is financially independent 👍🏼... But as usual her mother's prejudiced belief against women ruins it all as she believes women r born to get married and stay inside closed doors of their husband's house 🤢...Her mother failed to see that mayb if she becomes financially independent and a businesswoman , then they might actually get a good and suitable educated groom for Gayatri ..


Gayatri's mother is just seeing one side of the coin where her brothers r blaming and humiliating her for being a burden on them and so she worries that where will Gayatri go once her parents die .. But not once she is trying to see other side of the coin where even if Gayatri marries that old guy , whats the guarantee that he wont die after few yrs ,resulting in Gayatri living as widow for rest of her life , so how will that secure her future ?? ...Living as a widow or living as an unmarried girl , both were considered miserable during those times but a widow's life was even more painful than an unmarried girl's life ... Wish Gayatri's father had taken up this point with Damyanti and tried explaining her that whether she remains unmarried or whether she marries a old guy and becomes a widow later , it will b one and the same only .. Either way it wont secure her future ...But I guess her father was emotionally drained out after witnessing all the blame game on poor Gayatri , and so finally accepts defeat ...

Gayatri being a head strong girl , refuses to give up or compromise with her life , so when she sees all doors of her own family r closed , she decides to go for the last available option and thats Ranaji 😳...Again deciding to write a letter to Ranaji confessing about her feelings to him is a real bold step taken by a girl belonging to that era but it definitely needs courage ...We may call her delusional here but again its not really a crime to pour her heart out to someone ...She is not expecting anything in return from Ranaji ..She is also not expecting Ranaji to accept her love or save her but she is simply hanging onto that one hope that if Ranaji too carries any such feelings for him then mayb just mayb he will save her today ...And where there is a hope , there is always a way 😃...

I loved what Gayatri wrote in that letter ..She wrote "I dunno if u will be mine or not but I know that mayb there is a little hope that u can become mine if u read this letter and try to understand my feelings for u.. I want to be with u for the rest of my life but its your choice if u choose me or not " 😳 ... I think this confession from a girl is as clear as it can b .. She simply said what was in her heart and that too in most direct way 👍🏼... It looked as if she just wrote everything that she felt in her dreams so far .. Again in real world we might call it stupidity but Gayatri has nothing to loose .. She knows either her life will b forever ruined by getting married to that old guy or her dreams will forever turn into reality by getting married to Ranaji ..There is actually no other third option for her .. So she just played a gamble here with that letter and now will wait to see if it pays off or not ...

I will say it was quite a smart and practical move from Gayatri when she decides to write that letter to Ranaji confessing her love ... Even if that letter reaches Ranaji , he would hv made sure Gayatri's life is not ruined with that old guy whether he himself married her or not and if that letter reaches to Rajmata which it will , then as per new promo , we know what will Rajmata do in the last minute 😉
😃... For once I m glad we hv a female lead who knows how to fight back rather than just sit , cry and accept all the torture coming her way as her destiny..Gayatri will never do that come what may 👏👏...

And I m happy she choose the right messenger to deliver her letter .. that is Kakaji 😃


I dont even want to discuss Damyanti's bhookh hartal scene ..I dunno what does she want to achieve by all this .. They can wait for sometime and might get a good rishta if Gayatri had started working with her father..U never know .. But no , her mother had to give the responsibility to that selfish brother who just got that old guy's rishta back for Gayatri again to push her further towards that suicidal marriage 😡..Anyways we know Rajmata will come to her rescue , so no worries 😃...

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Badi Ranima(Dadi)-Ranaji bonding is adorable and She seems to b one smart lady who knows her bahu quite well especially the way she sarcastically described her as wannabe british woman in the making 😉😆..It seems Ranaji took these sarcasm classes from her Dadi only since she seems to excel in it 😆...I liked Dadi's views about why women r always made to stand behind men ...While most might see it in regressive way but Dadi tries to see the positive in it as women are suppose to be every man's biggest pillar of strength and so to give them that support when needed , they r always behind their man ...In short Dadi tried to tell that women r mentally more stronger than men ..Well thats quite an interesting way of looking at it 👍🏼...


What Dadi told about woman emotionally more stronger than men and so they stand behind to give them the strength and support is true in a way...We can see the contrast in Ranaji and Gayatri only in the scene where Gayatri was pouring her heart out in a letter while Ranaji was pouring his heart out to Dadi after his shuddhi-karan ...


Both hv a bitter past and enough issues in their life , yet Gayatri has never given up and still hoping to spend her life with her dreamman instead of staying alone and sulking whole life 👍🏼whereas Ranaji prefers staying alone for the rest of his life , thus sulking in his first wife's death forever ...

Gayatri wants to move on but in a positive way despite all the hurdles she is facing in her family 👍🏼whereas Ranaji just dont want to move on despite having such strong support system in his family like his own Dadi ...


Gayatri still believes in love and dreams even when she is being repeatedly told by her familiy that girls have no right to dream or fall in love 👍🏼whereas Ranaji stopped believing in dreams and love even when his mother is so keen to get him married and that too with his own wish as he has the right to take the final call like in Sharmila case which unfortunately Gayatri dont hv ..

Overall the transition shown between Gayatri's letter scene and Ranaji taking bath for his shuddhi as per Dadi's orders was beautifully executed as it highlighted not only the contrast in their thoughts regarding love but also highlighted the basic difference between a man and woman where a woman comes out looking more stronger than a man when it comes to handling matters of heart 👍🏼


Other than that I understand why Dadi demanded Ranaji's shuddhi .. Its more of a religious belief as when u stay abroad u might eat many things which go against religion and it seems Ranaji is a brahmin , so well from a religious POV the scene was fine 🤔 .. .. And to b honest I wont complain either especially when u finally get to see those 6 pack abs of Ranaji 😆😳


Overall Episode was ok types .. Gayatri's confidence and self-belief again deserves some applause and also Ranaji-Dadi scenes were good but I felt the episode again dragged the whole rishta saga ... New promo is a big relief though 😃

Edited by jyoti06 - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Beautiful analysis. I was not expecting that u will come up with such detailed analysis today.

I agree, episode was ok types with same drama stretching. Dont even want to discuss abt Damyanti :/

Loved how Gayatri is not yet ready to give up even after all this. In a normal situation either a girl will give up or run away but Gayatri is so composed & trying to find a solution in her own way.
Loved her dialogues in the first scene.
Bauji finally giving up was heart breaking

Coming to letter scene. Though i was always skeptical abt it, but when it happened today, i actually liked it. I know some may call Gayu delusional for it but situation has made her do this. She was not even talking abt her love from last 2 days but today when she realized no one is there to listen to her genuine logics, she decided to resort to one last measure.
I could feel Gayu's pain in the lines which she wrote. Really beautiful lines. Superbly executed & superbly enacted by DD.

Other best part of epi was Daadi-Ranaji scene. And the best thing in that was Daadi's thoughts. She really impressed me. Women supports from behind doesnt mean she is weak, it means she is strong & she can take the lead too was superb dialogue. She doesnt like Rajmata so I can smell good bonding b/w Daadi n Gayatri in future.

2 more days of tolerating Damodar drama, then we will move on to next track. Hoping for best with new track coming in.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Episode was a bit dragged ..
But highlight was letter. . I just loved the scene and as always u described it more beautifully. . execution ..mending and everything was perfect ..
I didn't like the continuation of yesterday saraswati scene ..I mean episode could have started from letter itself ...but they can't just hurry and show marriage scene.
Loving Rani ma character too .. She is sarcastic .. And have answer for everything ..
I felt sad ..very sad when gowind said society wins and he loose .. As a father he gave up .. :-(
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Collages r added now 😳

will add one more 😛
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Originally posted by: jyoti06

Collages r added now 😳

will add one more 😛

perfect ..
love two plaits 😆
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Originally posted by: sam_DDzfan

Beautiful analysis. I was not expecting that u will come up with such detailed analysis today.

I agree, episode was ok types with same drama stretching. Dont even want to discuss abt Damyanti :/

Loved how Gayatri is not yet ready to give up even after all this. In a normal situation either a girl will give up or run away but Gayatri is so composed & trying to find a solution in her own way.
Loved her dialogues in the first scene.
Bauji finally giving up was heart breaking

Coming to letter scene. Though i was always skeptical abt it, but when it happened today, i actually liked it. I know some may call Gayu delusional for it but situation has made her do this. She was not even talking abt her love from last 2 days but today when she realized no one is there to listen to her genuine logics, she decided to resort to one last measure.
I could feel Gayu's pain in the lines which she wrote. Really beautiful lines. Superbly executed & superbly enacted by DD.

Other best part of epi was Daadi-Ranaji scene. And the best thing in that was Daadi's thoughts. She really impressed me. Women supports from behind doesnt mean she is weak, it means she is strong & she can take the lead too was superb dialogue. She doesnt like Rajmata so I can smell good bonding b/w Daadi n Gayatri in future.

2 more days of tolerating Damodar drama, then we will move on to next track. Hoping for best with new track coming in.



I agree , when she spoke logic about taking up a job , everyone just blasted her off for it and gave her lecture on how girls dont work , they sit at home blabla ... So for her this was the only option left .. she wrote to Ranaji as there is no other way .. its a gamble she took because for once she wanted to believe in her dreams before her life is ruined forever by her own people .. And yes drashti was brilliant in that letter scene .. one could feel both pain and love in her eyes .. she felt lonely there in her own house ..no wonder she went back to her Ranaji world .. if her family understood her , then she would not b writing that letter today ..

Yup Daadi seems to b quite knowledgable and progressive in her own ways .. she will love Gayatri for sure .. I m sure they both will bond in future ...

And thanks for telling me the name of that old dude 😆 .. I dint even bother hearing his name 😆


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Originally posted by: abba12

Episode was a bit dragged ..

But highlight was letter. . I just loved the scene and as always u described it more beautifully. . execution ..mending and everything was perfect ..
I didn't like the continuation of yesterday saraswati scene ..I mean episode could have started from letter itself ...but they can't just hurry and show marriage scene.
Loving Rani ma character too .. She is sarcastic .. And have answer for everything ..
I felt sad ..very sad when gowind said society wins and he loose .. As a father he gave up .. :-(



yes it was dragged a bit especially the starting scene .. it looked like repitation of same .. anyways new promo is out , so from next week we can expect marriage track ..

Rani ma is an interesting character and her thoughts sort of match with Gayatri too when it comes to talking about women .. they will b bond in future ...

Felt bad for Sethji .. he felt helpless today as all on one side and he just could not do much for his daughter ..
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Last collage added too (2nd post) 😳
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Awesome analysis 👏

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