Nisha Gangwal or Nisha Kabir Kumar? - Page 4

Originally posted by: picadally

Because of in laws. I told her she shud hv kept her name atleast bt she was like we cannot do that. We hv to change it.

Originally posted by: anulovessarun

yup

thanks for reading and commenting

south is far better than north in this matter!

model brain?😆😆😆

Originally posted by: anulovessarun

thanks for unres-ing

i agree with u completely!!!

as u said maybe it is bcoz we have not reached the marriageable age and are confused

that is why i wanted everyone to comment and to tell me openly whether i am right or wrong!!!

Originally posted by: ammu4u

nice post anu...👍🏼

surname change after marge i thnk its der choice some people like 2 change her surname some people don't.. personally i prfer the second choice bt i can't say i ll not change my surname bcoz it depend upon the partner i get

Originally posted by: anulovessarun

see that is what i am talking abt-ur name is ur right,ur choice-if u dont want to change it,u should not!!!

why should u surrender to someone's wish-even if that is ur huband-when it comes to name-the matter is serious as it is one's identity!!!

Originally posted by: lgr007

the sad fact is that most ppl really dont understand the "Nisha Gangwal " factor here...the trp shows that...look at the audience we r trying to give the msg to...they already know wat we r telling them ...but the ppl who really shud be aware of the things the cvs r trying to show, they dont understand the msg...i am talking from experience...my cousin watches K2Y from MTV...she was watching the #its not us its u epi one day and my educated grandmother scolded her for watching that stuff...she gave her hell for speaking her mind on the epi too ...my cousin just said to my grandmother that its not always the girl's fault...but she was blasted by her for siding with the msg of the epi...

see even the educated ones doesnt understand...then wat will be the response of the uneducated majority...only thing we can really do is bring our msg to the young ones...becoz it will be difficult for the old generation to come in terms with things that contradict their conventional ways of life...and lets hope the things which r really needed to be changed ends with their generation...our community is in a transition phase...we r living in a middle ground kind of situation...that time is not far where we will see our seemingly rebel thoughts being executed.

ps - really?!...but here in our place all ppl share the surname as their husbands or their husband's name as surname...my mom has been questioned all her married life abt her name really

Originally posted by: Stella324

I really don't know why this thing confuses me , it also includes various other problems from clothes to moving out ..okay I should not come out of topic 😊

Originally posted by: janvi0513

Anu to be honest I never had a problem all the times after marriage when she was called Gangwal, but in the past few days I don't know why it gives me that feeling ke they don't want Nisha to do anything with Kabir hence they are putting the Gangwal, I know that is not the case but still.
Though agreed I do believe that why should someone change a name when they get married, when you have had the name for 22 years of your life why change it, especially in Nibir case because it looks like instead of Nisha becoming a Kumar, Kabir has become a Gangwal. 😆
I think there was some movie or serial where the girl kept her maiden name and husband's name as well, so I think Nisha Gangwal Kumar is good.

Originally posted by: picadally

Anu a surname alone does nt change ur identity. U cn change your surname and still keep ur identity. Marriage is abt two individuals who work equally for a relation and if both treat each other equally changing the surname hardly matters. I feel that the woman getin equal importance is more imp than changing a surname.

Originally posted by: ..krystal

very well said dr!! it also depends on the partner u get... u shuld know wether he worth it or not??!!