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Originally posted by: -SH-

Irrespective of who tells Kabir, he needs to have a word with Ramesh or rather the other way round. Ramesh would worry if this changes anything between KN. And then Kabir can help Ramesh in letting go of his guilt.

Originally posted by: Shwets1502

I would suggest not to open the thread..😊

For me, I believe one's past actions or one's own past shouldn't influence the present or the person shouldn't let it influence. I would talk in first person now. If I have a haunted past, I know I have a past like this and I would want to overcome it, or at least not let that affect my present. Even if it is very difficult to look beyond my past, I cannot give my past as an excuse for my present actions, especially when I am an adult and in my full consciousness.

Originally posted by: Shwets1502

I think even Nisha doesn't understand how much guilty RL, especially Ramesh feels for her past. Lakshmi has given him the strength, so has Dadaji to move past it and look at Nisha's present and future. But somewhere down, Ramesh blames himself which no one knows, definitely Nisha doesn't know.

Kabir should definitely have a talk with Ramesh after he knows her past, to reassure that nothing changes and in case Ramesh voices out his feelings, Kabir has to tell it to Nisha.

Originally posted by: Ekstase

Lol, not going to, don't worry 😆

That's what I believe, too! It's probably because I'm scarred by such characters... I just notice that around here (there's a German platform for stories, books etc...) people always insist that one should be careful while giving your character a tragic past - because due to it, the character could easily slip into Mary Sue/Gary Stue mode, depending on how the author uses this past in his/her story. You probably know Twilight? I hate that series 😆 Didn't like the female prota at all. Anyway, Edward was always in this self-pity mode because of what happened to him and what he had been turned out to be. Many people hate this self-pity mode. Same in the Manga "Naruto"- one of the protas had a horrible past and it was terrible, at first, but his self-pity turned soo annoying at some point that I started to hate him (his brother, who had it hard, too, never pitied himself- he went on with life as he thought it would be good - hik I loved 😆).

Maybe that's what's bothering me... Hope Viraj doesn't go down that lane 😒

Originally posted by: -SH-

That's true! But why do RN need someone else to come and bridge the gap? Can they not have a heart to heart conversation themselves?

Nisha is so like her father that ways.. closed off and not sharing her pain.

Originally posted by: Ekstase

I am bored 😭

Do you guys watch anything else besides NAUC?

Originally posted by: Shwets1502

Nothing regular. I watch Badi Door Se Aaye Hai in SAB online from time to time...but nothing else.

Originally posted by: Ekstase

Never heard of that. What's it about? 😕

I watch SSEL, though am annoyed with current episodes 😆 There's also CAS on colors, but they are dragging it, so I watch it irregularly

And besides that, I'm loving the new show on Colors, Swaragini 😳

Originally posted by: Shwets1502

Expand all abbreviations..😆

Badi door is about an alien family which has taken human form and living in a society searching for their lost son...and how they cope up with the human nature...