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Posted: 11 years ago

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guys posted a weekend post :

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Posted: 11 years ago

#202

Originally posted by: -Gan-
guys posted a weekend post :

Please resurect RKB

Gan, so much trouble during a weekend?😉

Thanks for the effort...Lemme go there

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Posted: 11 years ago

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Originally posted by: sunitas123

Gan, so much trouble during a weekend?😉

Thanks for the effort...Lemme go there

I needed to get it off my chest...as it has been bothering me.

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Posted: 11 years ago

#204

Originally posted by: sunitas123
think even before 7.30 Ishita's characterization has been one of a selfless woman always giving love, only provoked when her patience wears out. And Raman has always been the emotionally weak one, always going on a drinking spree ( though here the frequency seems to have gone down) or lash out mostly at Ishita or hit someone... Whenever any money/position stuff was involved he would solve problems in a giffy - ( like appa's money problem, resignation fro Asia head position, etc) that is what gave him the over confidence of solving the Shagun-Adi custody issue. But when it comes to solving issues otherwise, he was and is still clueless. So if you see it that way Raman's basic character has not changed at all. However his insecurities and loneliness have gone to an extent and he now feels wanted and loved and is in love too and therefore a much happier person.

As for Ishita she makes mistakes too - but they are mostly calculated risks - esp in getting Shagun into Bhalla house, etc... but all her mistakes are actually what the Bhallas really want and hence they put up with her decisions and blame her whenever they feel things r not going their way!

In terms of Raman's love for Ishita, he has become more expressive but when it comes to real action, he contradicts himself the very next day! He had made her apologize to Adi and Shagun when they were not in love and he nearly made her do it again, even after claiming she is the most important person etc... Raman expects Ishita to make sacrifices for him all the time, coz he is perennially majboor. And in trying to protect her, he keeps hiding stuff from her. Ishita still does not know that he works for Ashok etc. Imagine the shock she will get then! I still cant understand how a husband can hide where he is working from a wife? Whether they love each other or not?

This hiding stuff from each other is also a trend that has continued from the past - both hide things and try and help the other person out, in the process creating a MU. Now the love has reduced chances of MU, but rest all is still the same.

Sorry for my rantalysis😆

I totally agree with you...Ishita is in character totally and there is nothing that she has done that is wrong. In the 11 PM slot she would make mistakes and own up to them, like with the pre-custody TV interview. Then she acted based off her prejudice but she also owned up to her actions.

But even when she brought Param home or did the NYE kaand, Raman at least expressed his disappointment & emotions maturely...what happened to that guy?

The problem is the regression in Raman's growth. We saw him stand up to Adi and act rationally during the hand burning incident, which occurred during his massively emotional guilt track. So why now are we seeing him apparently seduce his wife for documents?

I said in a post I could understand his POV for including a final act of intimacy before the betrayal, but he's actions are wrong. If I were Ishita I would leave for a few days because my knee jerk reaction would not allow me to separate the acts as I would be too emotional and disappointed. It would be evident that he had not learned anything about communication.

This situation is like the Mani track where Ishita doesn't deserve all this crap, but she stays around because she is selfless and loving. But that has lead to a constant cycle of Ishita's kindness being taken advantage of and its hard to watch now.

For me this isn't a matter of liking the grey character over the more pure one...it's this stagnation we see in their relationship and character growth.

I don't question the love between the 2 but I question the sense of equality. What kind of story are we watching where for at least 6 months, you see the female constantly compromising and only seldom standing up for herself due to the male's majboori?

I really hope the CVs have a good plan for the imbalance in their marriage because it's emotionally tiring to watch no closure to high emotional tracks.

We need to see a track with Raman & Ishita working together and not a Raman vs Ishita track just for a small break!

Just my POV though😳

Edited by krishy13 - 11 years ago

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Posted: 11 years ago

#205

Originally posted by: stylish_VJ

Hey Anku (I guess that's correct) 😊 Call me VJ... It was not a take exactly...It was more on the lines of 'WHAT THE HELL IS GOING ON'. Things are so messed up I just wish they would take one by one and iron it out...and go back to being the amazing show they were...Not that YHM is horrible or bad in anyway but having seen the glorious days seeing this is somewhat torturous 😭

Hey no thanks needed yaar...Honestly if played out well then I don't mind thing goung from bad to worse but after it hits the rock bottom in 'WORSE' will it go up to being 'GOOD'...Like Raman said 'Suraj ki ujale ko pehchaana ho, uski roshini ki kadar karni ho toh kaali raat ki andhere ko pehchaan lo'.

The the bad part - the good part has to come that is the cosmic law but how much are the CV's going to play this wohi jaane..😕

Hey VJ 😃

Yes, I try and gather as much good as I can from the show. But the fact is that as opposed to earlier when I used to crave to watch YHM, really wait for it to air. Today being a Monday morning I woke up with the thought of 'UGH YHM tonight' That ugh should never come in my mind. But it does. When a show tires you, stresses you and makes you want to get over with it, its in trouble.

My issue is that even though I am tired of it, I can't get it off my back because It's become a habit. And I don't want to go to the extent of calling it a bad habit.

Like you said the show is not so bad. It's a LOT better than any other usual stuff on TV at this moment. But we've seen it at its highest in terms of story, creativity and realism that its state now seems to be very degrading to its own standards.

I am ready to go through the bad part too .. (IshRa relation) as long as there's hope they tie the story well later. But the conclusion to every track is just so disappointing. I've lost faith.

And I totally agree to your reply to my quote in the next post too.

I hate how Raman's always wronging and Ishita always the superwoman down to save the day. I am a woman myself and the thought of empowerment sounds great to me too. As long as its realistic. When it's pushed down our throat to glorify the character, its not enjoyable.

And agreed. Broaching a sensitive issue is great. But it's not only meant to be touched and left. The consistency while dealing with it should remain as well, which is compromised on every time in the name of drama.

I just hope that the creatives realize that the reason YHM got this large an audience was because it was different. And the only reason they stick by it even now is because it still has at least some specks of realism still left in comparison to other shows.