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Posted: 11 years ago
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Now days the forum is filled with Niraj and Nibir post. Well this is neither a Niraj post nor a Nibir post.
This is a post about how a girl should/would react in a situation in which Nisha was in that Aarti case.

Nisha did the wrong thing and Viraj came to know. Obviously he has the right to be angry. But happened later shocked me. Viraj is a well- mannered man and top of that royal he shouldn't have humiliated Nisha and her family publicly. Yes he should vent out his anger on Nisha but behind 4 walls and not make a public spectacle out of it. ( I personally lost all respect for Viraj that day)

Now coming to Nisha I did not like the way she went moping around with a broken heart. If a person I love has no respect towards me or my family he doesn't deserve my love. Yes it would hurt but more than hurt she should be repentant for her mistake and angry for Viraj behaving that way. Nisha shouldn't be moping around but should have been strong and regain the respect her family deserves.
What would you have done if a person you love insults your family??
Plz do reply. I know my pov might not match others so I want to know how you think.

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Now days the forum is filled with Niraj and Nibir post. Well this is neither a Niraj post nor a Nibir post.
This is a post about how a girl should/would react in a situation in which Nisha was in that Aarti case.

Nisha did the wrong thing and Viraj came to know. Obviously he has the right to be angry. But happened later shocked me. Viraj is a well- mannered man and top of that royal he shouldn't have humiliated Nisha and her family publicly. Yes he should vent out his anger on Nisha but behind 4 walls and not make a public spectacle out of it. ( I personally lost all respect for Viraj that day)

Now coming to Nisha I did not like the way she went moping around with a broken heart. If a person I love has no respect towards me or my family he doesn't deserve my love. Yes it would hurt but more than hurt she should be repentant for her mistake and angry for Viraj behaving that way. Nisha shouldn't be moping around but should have been strong and regain the respect her family deserves.
What would you have done if a person you love insults your family??
Plz do reply. I know my pov might not match others so I want to know how you think.

Yes you are right I would never love a person who doesn't respect my family... I will try once to give chance to the relation if the guy accepts the mistake and apologize to my family...

But in this show they have completely destroyed Nisha's character... First compromising with her self-respect,then to rebound marrying another guy that too lying her family,marrying as CM...

I don't understand what does this CVs think about us... Are we that helpless that they can show anything rubbish they want...

How can they even think that a girl need to marry after a heart break... Can't she be independent...

If I would be in Nisha's place I would have gone to build up as a strong and independent women rather than crying and begging for love and then getting married to an another guy that too for rebound😡😡

PLEASE CVS GROW UP... GIRLS ARE NO MORE WEAK THAT YOU CAN SHOW WHATEVER YOU WANT😡
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Posted: 11 years ago
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That's a very good point that you've made. And I know that this is neither a Niraj or Nibir's post..but this is the major reason why I ship Nisha with Kabir. It's not just the chemistry but because I feel that she is more strong when she is with him. Like you said, after the heartbreak and even after all the insults he keeps hurling at her, when she is around Viraj somehow she is either begging, pleading or moping around. There is a limit to how much a girl can take. I remember in the episode Kabir made his entry, Nisha told Viraj that he doesn't deserve her love and yet she is still hanging on to him. I badly want her to let go of him and move on.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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first thing vsr did not ever liked or loved nisha the person.
he just saw in her as a potential shooter who if mentored
by the experienced like him and his academy would bring
glory to LA and her future.
as a mentor he also saw nisha's other efficient sides and
her good nature.her selfless devotion to resurrect LA
as well.yet he developed no feelings except professional
and humanly gratitude for whatever she did for LA.

but when nisha the personality posing as aarti interacted
with him he liked her principles ideas views about
dealing with betrayal friendship loneliness etc.
this faceless personality of aarti stirred emotions
and wants in having her as his soul mate.so he was in love
with the faceless aarti.this was really beautiful.coz it shows
vsr never thought of the outer beauty how good or ugly she
might be in reality.

but the same vsr when he found out the truth and created a
havoc in pc fiasco showed off his irrational reaction
over the top royal blood line superiority complex
revealing his shallowness pompous and disrespectful
attitude towards nisha's elders.yes he did in anger.
but a man who has no grip on his tongue and logic
in anger once can he be trusted to not repeat the same
shameful unbearable irrational outbursts in future too?
can any sensible girl turn so selfishly blind to those
insults meted out to her family and accept him back
as lover in her life?such a man who keeps repeating
am vsr i do this i do not do that be a good husband
or companion in life?he knows no humility he knows not to
accept his mistakes.he knows not to correct his mistakes.
he hardly repents rather takes nisha for granted.he even
addressed her untouchable when you are in love
can you dare lip those filthy insulting words?is this the
depth of your love vsr?he washed his hands in public.
he demeaned defamed nisha and her family in every possible way.
he has exhibitted a violent streak in himself in future if nisha
marries such a guy she may even face domestic violence as he loses
his sense totally when angry.

so if i was nisha i would definitely not give him any chance.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: I...

first thing vsr did not ever liked or loved nisha the person.
he just saw in her as a potential shooter who if mentored
by the experienced like him and his academy would bring
glory to LA and her future.
as a mentor he also saw nisha's other efficient sides and
her good nature.her selfless devotion to resurrect LA
as well.yet he developed no feelings except professional
and humanly gratitude for whatever she did for LA.

but when nisha the personality posing as aarti interacted
with him he liked her principles ideas views about
dealing with betrayal friendship loneliness etc.
this faceless personality of aarti stirred emotions
and wants in having her as his soul mate.so he was in love
with the faceless aarti.this was really beautiful.coz it shows
vsr never thought of the outer beauty how good or ugly she
might be in reality.

but the same vsr when he found out the truth and created a
havoc in pc fiasco showed off his irrational reaction
over the top royal blood line superiority complex
revealing his shallowness pompous and disrespectful
attitude towards nisha's elders.yes he did in anger.
but a man who has no grip on his tongue and logic
in anger once can he be trusted to not repeat the same
shameful unbearable irrational outbursts in future too?

can any sensible girl turn so selfishly blind to those
insults meted out to her family and accept him back
as lover in her life?such a man who keeps repeating
am vsr i do this i do not do that be a good husband
or companion in life?he knows no humility he knows not to
accept his mistakes.he knows not to correct his mistakes.
he hardly repents rather takes nisha for granted.he even
addressed her untouchable when you are in love
can you dare lip those filthy insulting words?is this the
depth of your love vsr?he washed his hands in public.
he demeaned defamed nisha and her family in every possible way.
he has exhibitted a violent streak in himself in future if nisha
marries such a guy she may even face domestic violence as he loses
his sense totally when angry.

so if i was nisha i would definitely not give him any chance.


@red. BINGO! Obviously, Viraj will apologize and will want Nisha in his life once he finds out the truth...he would have actually proven that his love is true and pure if he had let go of his anger and his ego and accepted Nisha BEFORE finding out the truth! And like you said how can he be trusted again? Let's say he apologizes and Nisha forgives him for everything and all is well in paradise again..whose to say that later on when another problem pops after marriage, that he won't react just like he did again?

I know that everyone makes mistakes..after we are all human. But even in anger there should be a limit to what you are capable of going.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: -Saheba-


@red. BINGO! Obviously, Viraj will apologize and will want Nisha in his life once he finds out the truth...he would have actually proven that his love is true and pure if he had let go of his anger and his ego and accepted Nisha BEFORE finding out the truth! And like you said how can he be trusted again? Let's say he apologizes and Nisha forgives him for everything and all is well in paradise again..whose to say that later on when another problem pops after marriage, that he won't react just like he did again?

I know that everyone makes mistakes..after we are all human. But even in anger there should be a limit to what you are capable of going.



words are not mere words they are projections of inner feelings and inborn mentality
of a person.a person who is so reckless in phrasing his words and feelings
and chanting about his bloodline all the time can not be hoped to become
better in future.nisha would be the wife or the mother teaching how
to behave as civilized humans in public she would spend the rest of her
life imparting anger management training to vsr?🥱
yes we all make mistakes.but there is always a limit to what extent
the mistakes can be erased and forgiven 😊
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I concur.
initially I shipped for niraj co's that's all we had but after the PC I also lost all respect for the VSR. There are better ways to handling such situations particularly when media is around for which he earned a hot slap from Dadaji.
from all indication he is not in dadaji and the family's good books so how can there be ni raj.
He should have tried everything possible to redeem his image with the family maybe nisha would have fallen in line.
but I also discovered that due to his status, when he is with GF they try to be extra courteous but with Kabir, everyone is themselves no extra special treatment.
I feel nibir completes each other. They are just cute.
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Originally posted by: Sweets101

I concur.

initially I shipped for niraj co's that's all we had but after the PC I also lost all respect for the VSR. There are better ways to handling such situations particularly when media is around for which he earned a hot slap from Dadaji.
from all indication he is not in dadaji and the family's good books so how can there be ni raj.
He should have tried everything possible to redeem his image with the family maybe nisha would have fallen in line.
but I also discovered that due to his status, when he is with GF they try to be extra courteous but with Kabir, everyone is themselves no extra special treatment.
I feel nibir completes each other. They are just cute.



exactly like vsr kabir too has no family.yet he is humble
polite generous.the cousins poke fun and enjoy bantering
kabir too laughs away with them.its such a free flow.
and with vsr the gf stands all in attention as if
waiting to give grand salute to the prince in heir 🤢
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: I...



exactly like vsr kabir too has no family.yet he is humble
polite generous.the cousins poke fun and enjoy bantering
kabir too laughs away with them.its such a free flow.
and with vsr the gf stands all in attention as if
waiting to give grand salute to the prince in heir 🤢


To be fair to Viraj, GF doesn't know about Kabir's real status but they do know Viraj's.
However, it is Viraj's personality itself that is the problem. He himself thinks that he is some sort of Prince, and acts like one..he carries that air around him, which is why like you said the family are extra courteous around him. If he was a good guy, he would have tried to be more down to earth so that the family can be comfortable around him.

I mean even after Kabir's status will be revealed in the future, GF will still be their normal selves around him because Kabir's personality and his mentality itself is that of a humble guy unlike Viraj.🤢

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