Should Gopi and Ahem divorce?

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Have them divorce and their story in the show be about single mum Gopi raising Rashi with Jiggar, whilst rebuilding her relationship with Ahem/daughters/his new wife. Storyline could have them all live together in same household for sake of the family but still moving on from each other. Then have Kokila remarrying her ex-daughter in law and staying close with her, which would be different for Indian TV.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Yes..gopi shd divorce Ahem

Pari should die with H1N1.

Gopi should marry Jigar.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Dizagaox

Have them divorce and their story in the show be about single mum Gopi raising Rashi with Jiggar,

Ahem is mean to Gopi and when he is rude which he often is he is terribly rude and Gopi in some ways deserves it. For being stupid. But Ahem is no less. He is the meanest of all meanies to Gopi.

But he cannot divorce and "get away" with it and "pair" off Gopi with her "devarji" That is not done. For the simple reason Ahem had an "ex" girlfriend and a present "live in" girlfriend. That is his aadat. To go and get a "modern" girlfriend and be mean to the girl his mom "chose for him" to suit her own convenience. He is mean to this "girl his mom chose for him" even as he is nice to his mother.

Well it is time for Ahem to stop playing "double game" for now. Gopi should list out the number of times he has been mean to her shout back at the way he ill treated her even when she started her life with him. The way he never dealt with Radha the times he was stern with her even when they were "loving" each other as husband and wife (would it be nice to list out such things? I wonder.But she has shouted back at him for the sake of the kids I think she can mention these things too.)

Why should Gopi be a "single mum" and "bring up" her "Kids" they are no longer kids. They are adults now. and why with "jigar"? Just because she went with Jigar to see Ahem? Just because she went one "trip" with Ahem she should be "paired" off with "Jigar? Which "villlage" is anyone living now? Even there they will not talk like this.

whilst rebuilding her relationship with Ahem/daughters/his new wife. Storyline could have them all live together in same household for sake of the family but still moving on from each other. Then have Kokila remarrying her ex-daughter in law and staying close with her, which would be different for Indian TV

I don't think Gopi needs to "build" a "relationship" with Ahem's "ex wife" that is so stupid. She still loves Ahem and he abandoned her. Rather if she knew he would be this angry with her she would never have taken that promise from him. And she is stupid even now trying to hide her going to jail for ten years. She owes it to her kids to tell them the truth.

Kya bakwas hain yeh "living in the same house for the sake of the kids" what kids? If the "idea is too modern" for indian soap let me tell you this is not "modern" this is not western idea this "kokila "marrying" off her bahu a "second time"" if Gopi "remarries" she should do so on her own when she feels like it. Kokila cannot "remarry" off her "bahu" first Kokila has no right to do that. and this is not "western" idea for Indian tv but very "indian" that too "marry off" bahu and then "all "living together"" for the "sake of "family"" what family? first in the west the kids leave home and start earning to support themselves at Meera's and Vidya's age . and they should "all stay together" for the "sake of family"?

And this "so and so's wife "marrying" the other person and "so and so" marrying somebody else and all "living" together "under same roof" for the "sake of "family" and Saasuma "marrying off" bahu after her son "remarried" all this nonsense can take place in tv soaps in India only. Nowhere else in the world.western world handles relationships differently. this is Indian mentality calling it "western" but it is not.

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Well Ahem should be told some home truths about the way he is . And Maansi should be dealt with too because her intentions do not seem to be nice.

Rest is up to Ahem to "go back" to live with Gopi or lead a single life. But Maansi's truth should be exposed. and the kids should know Gopi went to jail for killing Radha. Gopi owes it to them

They should know. What they think about Gopi is for them to decide. But they should know what Majboori she had. and Ahem should let the kids know how he did not agree with Gopi interfering with Radha's life.

Bring everything out into the open. Ahem's character flaws and Gopi's character flaws.

cvs butchered Gopi's character with Radha's murder. It is difficult to set it right now.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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divorce to thik hai lekin uski betiyan ko gopi se kyun problam hai? 😡

woh kyun use nafrat karti hai?
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: purvim

divorce to thik hai lekin uski betiyan ko gopi se kyun problam hai? 😡

woh kyun use nafrat karti hai?

The reason for them hating on Gopi is because they are hurt that Gopi left them, like abandoned them. They feel that Gopi left them for Rashi. They are angry that they did not have their mother when they needed their mother the most, the times when they missed her she wasn't there. (Gopi was in Prison as you may know, and they do not know the exact reason, to them they feel Gopi just abandoned them).
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: purvim

divorce to thik hai lekin uski betiyan ko gopi se kyun problam hai? 😡

woh kyun use nafrat karti hai?


If anyone's mom leaves them suddenly but does not die and if they are told that their mom abandoned them for another kid then they would naturally miss their mother.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: pyaaribehna


Well Ahem should be told some home truths about the way he is . And Maansi should be dealt with too because her intentions do not seem to be nice.

Rest is up to Ahem to "go back" to live with Gopi or lead a single life. But Maansi's truth should be exposed. and the kids should know Gopi went to jail for killing Radha. Gopi owes it to them

They should know. What they think about Gopi is for them to decide. But they should know what Majboori she had. and Ahem should let the kids know how he did not agree with Gopi interfering with Radha's life.

Bring everything out into the open. Ahem's character flaws and Gopi's character flaws.

cvs butchered Gopi's character with Radha's murder. It is difficult to set it right now.


Ok Gopi need not take it upon herself to "bring up" "Rashi. She can kick Paridhi in the "you know where" and ask her to accept Rashi as her own daughter and bring her up . Take the burden off Kokila's back so that Koki can go back to her gaudy too good to be gold brass jewelry and gaudy sarees. Rashi can be brought up by Paridhi who cried so much in the riverside drama for the child.

Right now Paridhi does not "bring" up anybody. If Paridhi cannot tolerate Rashi in the house she can be given ultimatum to leave. Why did not Hetal deal with her regarding Rashi in the beginning itself?

Paridhi wormed her way back into Modi Bhavan pretending to be crying for the kid. Now that Gopi was gone and Radha dead she cannot "stand" the kid being in the same house. Well Jiggs should have told her to leave. Modis are numb nuts to tolerate Paridhi. Much more her "mother in law" Hetal behn is useless in dealing with Paridhi.

Is Gopi there to "bring up" every kid in town or what? Does she not have a life of her own? She can do her "pickle" business and make some money .

As for choti Rashi I think what she needs most is for her diet to be watched. Because even for a kid diet is important.


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Posted: 11 years ago
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no because they still have love for each other but it will take time and they'll be reunited one day
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: librapiscesarie

Yes..gopi shd divorce Ahem

Pari should die with H1N1.

Gopi should marry Jigar.



THIS HAS TO HAPPEN
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Posted: 11 years ago
#10
No they suit so much
I love them together I can't see Gopi/Ahem with someone else

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