Originally posted by: *Sunita*
Hello MAKMGR-ians
I have been thinking about this week's discussion topic.. so there were lot of things that popped into my mind.. I thought abt Raj n Sudha's career or episode discussion.... But again thought how about taking a break from routine and lets talk abt Romance and love❤️..hmmmm.. Ok, now without further delay , let me do this week's discussion..
1) Sudha being so down to earth, she let Raj stay with Rhea and give her moral support? Do u think this is the right thing to do?? If u were in Sudha's place what would u do?
I completely feel that it was the right thing to do. Regarding Sudha...she doesn't know about Rhea's negative intentions. Even if Rhea is that kind of a girl...Sudha asked Raj to give her moral support for the sake of being humanitarian. In Sudha's eyes..Rhea was totally depressed and she needed emotional support. Sudha felt that for the sake of humanitarianism..she had to ask Raj to support her. 😳
If I were in Sudha's place..i would do exactly what Sudha did..for the sake of humanitarianism. Because Rhea is also a human being and she had been through a lot of frustration in recent past..ever since her failure in music launch and all those criticisms. So i would've adviced Raj to give her support and i would trust Raj completely..as i know how much Raj loves me. So surely i feel what Sudha did is right...and even i would do it.😊
2) Rhea after knowing that Raj loves Sudha n vice versa.. she is trying to get in between them? what will happen when Sudha gets to know abt this and how will she handle this?
I don't feel Sudha would come to know about it in the near future. But the moment..she would come to know about it..it would become a fight between Sudha and Rhea..because she is not the kind of girl..who would let her love be snatched away by another person. She knows..how much she loves Raj and how much Raj loves her back and she wouldn't let go of her love.😛
Sudha is letting Rhea be with Raj..because she is thinking that Rhea is having only friendship with him. But the moment she comes to know about Rhea's intentions..Sudha would surely try to win her love back and will not let Raj be distant from her.😳
3) If u were in Sudha's place, how will u handle this situation?
If I were in Sudha's situation..I surely wouldn't be knowing about Rhea's intentions..but the moment i come to know about it..I would tell Raj about Rhea's intentions and make him cautious about her possessiveness. I will try to give instances from the past about how much ziddi Rhea has been and how much she tries to attain whatever she wishes for and tell him that whatever happens..he should never let Rhea get possessive of him.😛
I will also try to see to it...that Rhea don't get much chances to come in between myself and Raj and i would also see to it that Raj also understands that it is important that..we should stop being so much close to Rhea and trusting her so blindly in everything.😳
It is important that Raj should launch Sudha without the support of Rhea and if I were Sudha..i wouldn't take any kind of help from Rhea.. and would want my career as well as Raj's career to be built by our own efforts and not by Rhea's help.😳
4) People say that true love is always based upon trust, faith n honesty.. but do u think too much of trust can take ur love away ??
Actually, it all depends on the person you are trusting. Even if you trust more or trust less...there would be pain..when cheated. The pain won't be less or more..pain is always pain.😛
I feel that love should start with friendship and if there is a strong friendship..there would be total trust and understanding between the couple. Take for instance..Raj and Sudha's story...they became friends first and lateron developed love. That is why...even when they romance..we find a lot of friendliness,naughtiness, mutual trust and understanding in their relationship. So it is important that there should be strong trust and understanding in any relationship.😳
If we know a person really well...we can trust him/her blindly. But if we don't know a person that well..its better not to trust the person so blindly.😛
For example..take our parents...we trust them so much and we know that they would only do anything for our good. That kind of trust..we may not be having on a person we have met only a few months back.😛
Trust takes time to develop. But once we understand the person whom we are in love with completely...there is no problem in trusting the person blindly. Otherwise..it is better to be cautious,when you have just fallen in love.😳
5) According to u, what is the most romantic way of proposing and if given a chance whom would u propose from the telly actors/actress??
Proposing part is usually done by guys and not girls.😆 But if you are asking about...how i would want the guy to propose to me..then I would say that...more than any kind of gifts or candle-lit dinners..its important to see the respect, love and trust in the person's eyes and facial expressions. You should feel that the person is very genuine while proposing.😳
If a person.. looks at my face with a lot of genuinity...and says...'I have come across many girls in my life..but perhaps you are the first person whom i really need in my life and i cannot live without you. I feel that you are the kind of person who has been frank and at the same time been a genuine friend to me and have supported me a lot in life. I want our friendship to last for the whole life and I want you for ever with me..because I love you..so can you be with me forever as my lifepartner?'😳
It doesn't matter where he says this to me...but if he is genuine while saying it to me and looks genuine like Raj..while he is speaking to Sudha(I just love Karan Grover's expressions and there is a lot of genuinity in his face)..I would feel that it would be the most genuine and romantic way of proposing.😳
I would surely like to propose to Karan Grover..because he is one of the sweetest and cutest actors', I have ever seen.😛 He has a charming personality and has a cute smile. He looks really caring, supportive and sweet to me and in real he is a very intelligent person. So I would surely propose to Karan Grover.😳
6) Till date, what's the most romantic scene between Raj n Sudha according to u n why?
I feel that almost all the scenes..I have seen between Raj and Sudha had been really romantic. But I just loved the episode of Sudha's final recording. Just before the recording Raj coming to house on Sudha's one phone call and then the way they romance and then he puts the chain around her neck and during the final recording..the song 'Wohi Main Wohi Tuu..' looked very romantic. The end of the song..when Raj comes and watches Sudha singing. There is a lot of romance in air and both were looking with so much of love at each other.😳 Then after the recording Raj gifting Sudha..the moti ki maala. That was really cute. I feel all those scenes were really romantic.😛
Other than that... I feel..it would be the wedding episode..in which Raj is after Sudha..trying to make her say 'I love you' and finally they do a 'gandharva vivah' ...all those parts were very romantic.😳
It would be fun to see everyone's opinion...😊
Added Questions from Pinky...
Looking at way things are going now. Another love which i would like to add here is the fathers love for his daughter. Sahani has a feeling that Raj means much more to Rhea, he has a feeling that Rhea loves Raj.
What if Mr. Sahani spoke to Raj's parents to get Raj married to Rhea. In that case what would Sudha do.
Raj's parents' won't agree to Raj marrying Sudha. Raj's mother doesn't seem to like Rhea and surely the parents' would not agree for the proposal. Sudha has nothing to do in this case..because it would be Raj's parents' who have to take the decision. Mr. Sahani won't be able to do anything about it and he can only get all upset about being to go through rejection from Raj's parents.😆
Would she think that with the Sahanis Raj has a bright future and she should not come in the way, or will she insist that Raj marry her.
Sudha would leave the decision to Raj ...as to whom he should marry. Raj won't agree to marry Rhea..as he never had a romantic feeling towards her. Even if Sudha insists on Raj marrying Rhea...Raj or his parents' wouldn't agree to it. So it is not possible that Rhea would come between Raj and Sudha..by marrying Raj.
Rhea would mostly try to create distance and misunderstanding between Raj and Sudha and she would somehow try to give Raj some opportunity to make career..perhaps by offering a job in Mr.Sahani's company and then maybe won't let Raj go home early and will keep him tied to her.😛 I don't really feel that Mr. Sahani would even move such a proposal. He would always think about the status and all.😉