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Posted: 10 years ago
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i was wondering what if after neil announces his engagement with nagin agam questions him so does nishi and when pam or someone else says about ragini's second marriage n then nishi asks them wt second marriage and everything comes out but don't want pam or nagin anywhere near it...
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Ash1991

i was wondering what if after neil announces his engagement with nagin agam questions him so does nishi and when pam or someone else says about ragini's second marriage n then nishi asks them wt second marriage and everything comes out but don't want pam or nagin anywhere near it...


Well, the status of the Show is - It's Complicated 😳
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Can you blame daadi if she get insulting. Which self respecting woman would pretend married to another man. And to be honest even in the real world if someone was pretending to be married every sane person would question their honor. They tarnished Ragini's character with this lie. People are going to believe only two things out of this, Ragini is embarrassed of her marriage to Aman so lied about it to Nishi's inlaws, or she is really having an affair engaged to Aman but is not ready to publicly announce it. In both these scenarios it is gut wrenching for Ragini's honor and it was beneath her stoop so low and she has no one else to blame but herself for ruining her own reputation. This isn't about Neil, pam, or even her kids anymore, this is about Ragini herself a woman who supposedly so principled that she broke apart her family separated herself from her kids all for the pursuit of truth and justice. Someone of such strong moral mettle cannot say a lie willingly that can cost them everything they stand up for. Ragini ego is big but is it bigger than the truth itself.

Can someone tell me why Ragini even told this lie. She wants to prove to Neil that she is a good wife. I thought she left Neil because he was a bad husband not because she wasn't a good wife. This whole argument is ulta, Neil should pretend to be fake married because he wants to prove to his x wife that he is a good husband and not a liar and cheat like she believes him to be and he can make a woman happy making her regret her decision for leaving him. It would have made more sense from a story POV for Neil to have lied about his marital status because as far as Ragini is concerned the fault was with Neil not with her so why does she have to prove anything. Infact Neil coming from abraod no one would know he is married or not it would have been much easier lie to tell. Ragini's lie is so stupid where anyone who knows Aman and Ragini know they are not married including the hospital maid lolzzz.

I have a better story in my mind. After Roopali death Niveditha loses her only family and she is an orphan now. Neil takes Niveditha with her to New York because he feels guilty about what happened. He educates her and she becomes a lawyer and is very close to the kids especially suhaani but suhaani doesn't know that she is her aunt. So in all the years Niveditha spend with Neil she could have genuinely fallen in love with him, Neil only sees her as a ward and never loves her back. I think Pam role should have been given to Niveditha. Pam is part of Neil life but she is married and has life of her own. When they all come to India Neil sees Ragini taunting him constantly what a lousy man he is so he announces he is happily married to Nive to prove Ragini wrong that he cannot be a good husband. When the show started Nive and Roopali character didn't even exist writers just came up with it just now, that is why it makes the story makes no sense right now.

Not only that Jignesh inlaws wouldnt care if Ragini x husband is married or not, he doesn't live in India he is from abroad what he does in his personal life is his business. Because Nishi is ragini daughter raised by Ragini so obviously what she does and says is a direct reflection on the kind of girl Nishi is. Neil married or not if the truth came out worst it would have done is created idle gossip but Nishi's marriage would not been in jeopardy, but with Ragini's lie she has opened herself to a lot of ridicule and humiliation like it or not women are held to a different standard compared to men.
Edited by loveanime - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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And there in lies my worry - Women still are judged by a different standard, as compared to any men.
If this is like having a fake affair, I could have given leeway - it's easy to say that you have broken up with the other person. But the fake marriage thing makes me so unhappy.

The CVs have diluted everything in one go. I wonder if there was ever any story to begin with, apart from the basic brief.


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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: poetic

And there in lies my worry - Women still are judged by a different standard, as compared to any men.

If this is like having a fake affair, I could have given leeway - it's easy to say that you have broken up with the other person. But the fake marriage thing makes me so unhappy.

The CVs have diluted everything in one go. I wonder if there was ever any story to begin with, apart from the basic brief.



Infact why do this at all. Why can't Aman and Ragini be engaged for real. Instead of lying about it couldn't they have introduced Aman as Ragini fiance to jignesh parents and to neil and to the whole world. That would have been far more interesting it would have opened up so many different possibilities of character interactions and feelings. Arav and Nishi adore Aman and they are happy that he will marry their mother and keep her happy, Neil returns to find Ragini slipping away from him he is conflicted between how to tell her not to marry and what rights he really has to interfere in her personal life, Aman is happy to marry Ragini but he is concerned that Ragini is not really happy with him, Ragini was ready to move on after all Aman is her good friend but presence of Neil rekindles her old feelings for him and she is confused, Jignesh parens and family are not too happy because of all the pesky gossip, there is confusion in all the rituals aman as ragini's would be husband has every right to stand by her which will break neil considering aman has rights not only over Ragini but also their children, even the audience won't question aman because hey he is after all her fiance why shouldn't he run errands, sit with her at the pooja, and hug her, it would have also gotten the kids involved where nishi and arav are happy with aman but agham wants his mummy back and they realize their parents love each other so why should they marry other people. I am imagining the house selling incident where ragini could have easily told neil that she will move in with Aman to his big bungalow palli hill at juhu and what a memorable gesture it would have been for neil to secretly buy the house in memory of ragini. how romantic it would have been to see neil gift the house back to ragini as she is moving out after nishi marriage to tell her she can leave with aman if she wants but this house will always be here because this is where their children grew up.

in conclusion the story could have gone in so many other ways that would have kept character integrity but ekta and her team chose the worst route possible that makes no sense. Imagine the different way we would be looking at Ragini if she stuck to the truth, she could have turned around at Neil and said yes Dr. Aman is her husband her would be husband and we are getting married now get lost. She could be rude and insensitive but if she was honest about it we would be on her side. nishi thinks neil is married from the phone conservation and convinces her mother to move on and ragini accepts aman proposal. ragini thinks neil is married only to realize that 'mom' is actually pam oopsss. but before she could sort out her feelings neil gets engaged to nive as well hahaaa. now neil and ragini are stuck neither wants to get married.
Edited by loveanime - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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This is awesome, but unfortunately we are not writing the story.
Sigh!

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