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Posted: 11 years ago
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Forgiving is not forgetting. It's letting go of the hurt.

Apologizing does not always mean that you are wrong and the other person is right. It just means that you value your relationship more than your ego.

The things two people do to each other they remember. If they stay together, it's not because they forget; it's because they forgive.

- Demi Moore in Indecent Proposal


The stupid neither forgive nor forget; the naive forgive and forget; the wise forgive but do not forget.

Without forgiveness, life is governed by an endless cycle of resentment and retaliation.


The show is teaching us an important lesson on FORGIVENESS. How it is important to forgive a loved one and move on in life. I am sure, all of us have had some pain, some betrayal, some hurt caused by someone near and close to us. That is a valuable lesson life teaches us, to make us more STRONG AND RESILIENT.


The Agnihotris are the not so perfect example of this. NA truly repented and I had my doubts on him. Looks like he has completely changed as just saying sorry is not enough. He learnt a very valuable lesson, life without Shlok was empty and meaningless. He had the presence of mind to seek forgiveness from Aastha too. (He almost burnt her alive, that still rankles...so yes he is getting his punishment in spades now).


Shlok after hearing him was in no mood to forgive and forget despite the pleas from his ayi n biwi. But when baba went on tv and publicly apologised to him, he had a change of heart. He truly loves his baba and was mature enough to forgive. 25+ years of devotion cannot be wiped in a day or destroyed by one act. Fate had shown a way to them for setting right the faults and they both grabbed it.


So, Shlok took the decision to move back to Pune after the news broke out of SARKAR taking over the Agnihotri Institutes(AI). NA was feeling the loss not bcoz his pride and fame was gone but his legacy for his children was gone, usurped by a stranger or sold off to him by Varad. A man wants to leave a legacy behind by which he will be judged and remembered, their name alive.


Varad having been tossed onto the streets without even a by your leave by Sarkar, found how it was to wear the shoe on the other foot and be homeless not penniless. Thank god he had bought an apt with his money. Wanted to make reparations and admitted to himself that he was wrong and did a grave injustice to his family, to his baba. Admitting one's mistake to oneself, is the first step in improving and making peace with what life hands out to you. Using Kavya he finds out that Anjali is at the ashram and they all make haste there.


Varad had to grovel, beg and plead with folded hands to get baba and ayi to forgive him. Anjali was in her element y'day, a Mother Teresa whose pic was hanging behind her when she was talking to Varad. A heart full of compassion and love, but wise to know that her son committed a mistake. When NA was hearing Varad out, there was Goddess SAraswati behind him, giving him the right thoughts this time, (his bald head was scrambled earlier with discriminatory thoughts on women and their position in his life)so that he could forgive his son and also realised his mistake. Varad was brave to admit his follies to his baba, explained why he did what he did which opened baba's eyes. NA was upset and was happy that Anjali was taking Varad to task who did not spare Sojal too and reminded her of the time when she got help and support. Reminded her of her duties in which she failed spectacularly. Now hope to see Sojal treading the straight and narrow path of truth and goodness.


Anjali counselled NA and made his see the error in not forgiving Varad as he himself was forgiven by Shlok. Shlok, hearing that name, baba springs into action and goes to lift Varad who was on bended knees and forgives him. When Varad pleads with him to move in with him, NA refuses saying that he will have to be forgiven by Ashlok too. wow, loving this new side to Hot Daddy, who is back to his former shape. Ah...missed seeing him like this ...full of action and masterly...but now with concern and care too. OOhhh...deadly combo, I must say.


When Ashlok walk in and see dada there, Shlok's first words were to ask them to leave and says he cannot do what he did to him n baba, he can't drag him and throw him out. Varad is truly ashamed of his actions and sheds tears of bitterness at his actions and repeatedly asks for forgiveness. When reprimanded by Aastha, he feels even more smaller and agrees to her every word. Then he gains some support from baba who advises his bachha to forgive as one cannot proceed forward if their hands were full of yesterday's junk. They had bigger issues at hand and forgiveness only makes one STRONG. All of them valued their relationship more than their ego which was a stumbling block in their respective relationships and marriages with Varad admitting that he wanted and needed baba's approval, hence his reprehensible actions. NA had learnt a valuable lesson, if he did not forgive Varad then he should not expect Shlok, Aastha n Anjali too forgive him. They had done that already and he made Shlok realise that he should too. It was a beautiful scene, very emo and the men talking while Anjali took on the role of the elder, the Mother who guides her children when they are floundering in the dark, rudderless and without an anchor. Shlok too wanted to make peace with his dada who he loved very much and who also loved him as he expressed when he was found after their riding accident.


Each of them accepted how things were at the present, they were all together. They focused on that not on what was lost, even the loss of Agnihotri empire and riches was secondary. VArad then went on relate how it all came about and it was good to see NA n Shlok listening to him raptly. Wow, these three together are going to blow Indrajeet to Smithereens. The trio working and plotting make for a formidable army and it is going to be a treat to see them united. Just loved this bit. ⭐️⭐️All are very smart and sharp. 😎Shlok has a temper but tiny knows how to control it. 👏👏The way he lost his cool and slapped poor Sakharam for doing his job and the way Aastha dragged him from there was well done. Ashlok have reached new levels of understanding in their marriage and with NA backing them all the way, no prob...only one tiny teeny one...that of Indrajeet falling for Aastha... 😆which can't be helped. Look at how Shlok fell for her, drawn to her much against his wishes and resisted her allure with all his might, only to fall even harder, LIKE A TON OF BRICKS.😃


I AM EAGERLY LOOKING FORWARD TO THE TRIO'S PLOTS AND PLANS, THE TWISTS AND TURNS AND OF COURSE ASHLOK ROMANCE AND SCENES AMIDST ALL THIS. 😃😃😃





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Posted: 11 years ago
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remarkable update...well said...waiting for team work to knock down strong arm with oversize shoulder our one and only Inderjeet Sarkar 😆..nimmy he try to smile in yesterday episode...he look cute 😃 he made me smile 😆
Edited by vj3072 - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Wonderful amazing post nimmo...
Quotes so true..completely agree most of us gone through it..eventhough love makes us to forgive it is difficult to forget...if we turn back can't deny still it hurts...
Life also tells us to live in present.. Holding onto past makes it difficult to move on.,by forgiving some peace settles in ourselves..and makes the pain bearable as the years pass by..eventhough it is nearly impossible to forget depending on the gravity of hurt..

NA got it all easy but looks like he is truly repenting...loved today's NA a lot..understanding and caring too.looking forward to these three working together , making plans..interesting..
Loved the way anjali reasoned with shlok..his expressions changed when she was talking to him.
Varad shed his quota of tears..maybe they all move to his flat .there is no doubt he is repenting..
Loved to see all the agnis together.waiting how the agnis will give checkmate to IS.
Loved the way each ot them accepted their mistakes and decided to move on...tackling the current pblm that they r facing..good one

Agree nimmy one teeny weeny pblm..of IS falling for astha..poo falling for shlok.

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: vj3072

remarkable update...well said...waiting for team work to knock down strong arm with oversize shoulder our one and only Inderjeet Sarkar 😆..nimmy he try to smile in yesterday episode...he look cute 😃 he made me smile 😆


Viji, wanted to write one on IS entry and his role. Maybe over the weekend. Yes his smile was cute...his impassive face cracked at last. wait till he catches sight of tiny, he is going to be flat and we are going to be mad. 😡 More than Shlokie bear prob...but then he will hve Poornima eyeing him like a candy...😆
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: nim_var



Viji, wanted to write one on IS entry and his role. Maybe over the weekend. Yes his smile was cute...his impassive face cracked at last. wait till he catches sight of tiny, he is going to be flat and we are going to be mad.😡More than Shlokie bear prob...but then he will hve Poornima eyeing him like a candy...😆



but nimmy I wont get mad ...actually I'm waiting for the track eagerly 😆 nor doubt he look old for our Ashta but he kind of cute in some way 😃
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Nimmy nice quotes 😃
Cvs can forgive but v can surely not 4get that all 3 agni men were forgiven in just 3episodes 😆
They should tiltle ebp as
Its all about forgiving your agni man 🤣
Since till the time the 1st is forgiven ..the 2nd is already standing in the queue 4 asking 4giveness 🤣
And so now even Agni women have started 4getting what sin their husband or men committed 😆
Honestly they have turned this whole serial into comedy circus 🤣
And with IS and his family its looking like a zoo 😆
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Honeypot

Wonderful amazing post nimmo...

Quotes so true..completely agree most of us gone through it..eventhough love makes us to forgive it is difficult to forget...if we turn back can't deny still it hurts...
Life also tells us to live in present.. Holding onto past makes it difficult to move on.,by forgiving some peace settles in ourselves..and makes the pain bearable as the years pass by..eventhough it is nearly impossible to forget depending on the gravity of hurt..

NA got it all easy but looks like he is truly repenting...loved today's NA a lot..understanding and caring too.looking forward to these three working together , making plans..interesting..
Loved the way anjali reasoned with shlok..his expressions changed when she was talking to him.
Varad shed his quota of tears..maybe they all move to his flat .there is no doubt he is repenting..
Loved to see all the agnis together.waiting how the agnis will give checkmate to IS.
Loved the way each ot them accepted their mistakes and decided to move on...tackling the current pblm that they r facing..good one

Agree nimmy one teeny weeny pblm..of IS falling for astha..poo falling for shlok.



Saji, thanks buds. muah muah...

The point of forgiving is to move on but not forget. That is what I apply to my life. With the passage of time, the hurt lessens and fades away...what is the point of carrying baggage that brings negativity with it... I have become older and much wiser (at least I think so) and don't dwell too much on the past or give someone the power to hurt me. It is all in the mind. I can see that you have related to the first para, having gone thro some personal upheavals...haven't we all at some point or the other???

The whole scene in the ashram was nice,liked how the seniors let them have their talk in privacy. Liked how NA said they have to fight for kavya's sake...his legacy to her.

I think this poo will be like the Poo of KKKg...on a diet...stylish...pain in the ass...thinks the world revolves around her...guys to fall at her feet...mark my words...she is going to be like this, a spoilt brat...will get J of tiny. 😉

All in the small flat of Varad's together and making plans and supporting. Dada has indicated that they need to get someone inside the house. ⭐️


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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: vj3072



but nimmy I wont get mad ...actually I'm waiting for the track eagerly 😆 nor doubt he look old for our Ashta but he kind of cute in some way 😃



I am going to get mad at first b4 I accept that he has fallen for her. He looks old...but his smile makes him look younger...viji...read too many M & B...back in my days. 😉 waiting to see them meet ...that will be good and ofc of Shlok n Jeet.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: casweetu12

Nimmy nice quotes 😃
Cvs can forgive but v can surely not 4get that all 3 agni men were forgiven in just 3episodes 😆
They should tiltle ebp as
Its all about forgiving your agni man 🤣
Since till the time the 1st is forgiven ..the 2nd is already standing in the queue 4 asking 4giveness 🤣
And so now even Agni women have started 4getting what sin their husband or men committed 😆
Honestly they have turned this whole serial into comedy circus 🤣
And with IS and his family its looking like a zoo 😆




Sweetu, Iss maafi ko kya naam doon... ebp😆

Sub kuch itna jaldi ho gaya...for all of them to unite and be a sukhi and hasta khelta parivar...ok...after dragging for months, now it is jet speed. chalta hai...maybe it will slow down once the plan is made. baba will get busy with Mahakumbh mela and will go on a yatra.

Wonder if Ashlok rescued pics of his baba from the bin????? a serial within a serial is how I feel..but the Agni scenes are balancing it out for now.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: nim_var



Saji, thanks buds. muah muah...

The point of forgiving is to move on but not forget. That is what I apply to my life. With the passage of time, the hurt lessens and fades away...what is the point of carrying baggage that brings negativity with it... I have become older and much wiser (at least I think so) and don't dwell too much on the past or give someone the power to hurt me. It is all in the mind. I can see that you have related to the first para, having gone thro some personal upheavals...haven't we all at some point or the other???

The whole scene in the ashram was nice,liked how the seniors let them have their talk in privacy. Liked how NA said they have to fight for kavya's sake...his legacy to her.

I think this poo will be like the Poo of KKKg...on a diet...stylish...pain in the ass...thinks the world revolves around her...guys to fall at her feet...mark my words...she is going to be like this, a spoilt brat...will get J of tiny. 😉

All in the small flat of Varad's together and making plans and supporting. Dada has indicated that they need to get someone inside the house. ⭐️



Did u notice nimmo when NA was talking to varad the chess board was shown.all the chess pieces are aligned just like at the start of the game..that means both sides are getting ready for this game.

The game for this track is chess..agnis on one side and sarkars on the other.
Don't forget the game was snake and ladder for raghu bhai..love it how the cvs associate each track with its own game..so this time it is more serious one as they associate it with chess..we r going to see lot of moves and counter moves by both sides.

Most probably we will get poo like that only nimmo.going to fall head over heels for shlok..and jealous of asthu.

Jia where r u? Need ur insights on this track..if possible write one ..please.




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