do u agree?
i lov the show a lot and sandhir just lov them
i feel connected to the charcters
sayu n randhir r realistic characters
just like sayu there many girls faces the problems n this situations in their life
i lov sayu n i can relate sayu to real world ..n relate her to many girls who struggle n face the problems in fullfilling their dreams
i can realate her to many girls who face the situations sayu faces
my aunt said about her struggle for her dreams
she also made her mom understand just like sayu
n her dad was against her doing engineering
she was first electronic engineer girl in my family
the only difference is there was no lov story in my aunt real life
she is currently in USA n she is succesful women n has her own business too
she was talented n she was recruited n got job in USA n later she called her parents n sibling there
i met a girl in a gym
i said her that we r celebrating as my sis got gud percentage in board exams
her face became sad n i asked her how she celebrates in her house
she said in her house there is no celebration for girls achivements
they only celebrates wen a boy gets achivement n success
she said that she is the only girl who is doing graduation
or else in her family they do early marraiges of their daughters
they gets married in 10th or jsut during studying intermediate
..her dream is to become a teacher n so her family
support her with her dream
i can also realate her to sayu coz her family thinks same like sayus family
even though they support her dream but still they hav same thinking
i can relate her to many real world situations the girls face
wat sayu is facing
many girls face that in real world
she is a very realistic character not a flimy or fake one
...
sayu chahe jaisi bhi kyu na ho
she is facing all the prob that many girls face
wheather its
struggle for ur dream
or parents choosing ur life partner
or family having that mentality n them not apreciating girls talents
or get into situation where u hav to choose between ur dreams n family ..or lov n family
..etc...
this is bitter truth that many girls face this problem n gets into this situations in real world
the show is showing the situation of many girls in real world
no matter how much modern u r but the bitter truth will not change
in the engagement epi too that kind of situation many girls face
their parents choose their life partner n from childhood the girl is said that ur life partner will be chosen by ur parents n they see dreams of marrying the girl to the boy they choose
n the girl doesnt hav prob with their parents choosing life partner for them coz she lov n trust her parents
jab sayu ka rishta sameer se hua ..at that time she didnt loved randhir ...
her engagement got fixed
n she fallled in lov with randhir after becoming his friend n seeing the caring n loving side of randhir which made her fall in lov with him
she never thought that she will fall in lov with randhir ..
all her dreams n hopes shattered wen she faced the reality that she is soon going to get enegage to the person her parents has chosen for her
she didnt knew wat to do
its not easy to hurt ur parents who gav u life comforts n evrything in ur life
after knowing the truth randhir said he hates her
sayu by her own wanted to say randhir the truth but it didnt happened
after all this happened
sayu decided to do wat she felt right at that situation
she didnt knew if randhir will forgiv her or not
she went to her house with the hope that randhir will understand her n will forgive her
she didnt knew wat to do
at one side her lover hates her n said will never forgive her
at other side her family hopes their feelings their dreams her dad health issues
...
we all knew ki sayu ka yeh engagement jo horahi thi kitni prob ke baad hue
her family lied to sameer family
she said truth to sameer n has guilt that she lied
n sameer ne is baat ka ihsaan jataya that he hided the truth from his family
n we all knew ki kya hua tha
(at that time she didnt felt in lov with randhir)
later all truth came out n still sameer family accepted this rishta
wen i put myself in her situation ..its not easy to go n say i dont want this engagement wen i knew about dad health issues wen i knew this enagement is happening after so much trouble
its not a movie or flim ..its real life situation
in many serial or movies we saw girl run away so easily from her house ...
its not easy in real life
in real life also,girl n boy who loves each other ...first both lovers they try to make their parents understand them n accept them ..running away is the last option jab zabardasti ki jati hai ,mar peet n all
however sayu ki situation me
its very difficult to say on ur engagement day itself that ur breaking this wen u knew it got fixed after so much trouble n
engagement todne ke liye bhi valid reason dena padta hai
sayu kya bolti?
sameer n family accepted her even after getting to know the truth ..her family was already guilty for hiding the truth
sameer kaisa bhi kyu na ho he supported sayu n listening to her hided this truth from her family ..even she burned her face sameer didnt let this rista get broken ..he postpont the engagement ...
she had no strong reason to break this rishta coz even randhir said he hates her
...
she expected randhir to understand her n she wanted to talk to him normally n find solution for this problem ..she wanted that both of them together find solution for this prob ..thats wat she said to parth
but randhir
unexpectedly first totally misunderstood her then did tamasha in her engagement
n moreonver pushed her father in public ...
any girls would hav reacted same way sayu did ...
she lov her dad a lot
she hates the moment wen randhir pushed her dad
...she didnt considered her feeling n thought about her dad feelings
n she didnt find wrong in considering her dad feelings (this she said to parth)
.
later randhir came to apologise but
here again he pushed her dad 2 times ..
jab words se convo ho toh words use karne chahiye physical hone ki kya zarurat thi
all her reactions are justified
any girl would hav reacted the same
n now sameer supported her for doing engg n talked to her dad ..n she had no strong reason to break the engagement coz even randhir hates her now ..as we see from her point of view
she made her heart stone for randhir ..she wants to hate him ...
but she cant she still loves him
its not easy dil pe phatar rakhkar yeh dikhana ki u dont care for a person whom u lov
she is showing as if she dont care for randhir or love him but still in her heart she lovs him
no matter how much strong she become n make her heart stone but
the truth will not change that she still lovs him
after every1 getiing to knw that sandhir loved each other
..n every1 geting to know that sayu loved randhir but got engage to sameer
...
sayu felt guilty ... n was thinking what wrong she did ...
she shared her feelings with parth n parth said was right
both sayu n randhir thinks the other is wrong but both r right at their place
randhirs view sayu hided the truth n then she got engage to sameer though she love him
so he finds sayu wrong
sayus view
she did wat she felt right at that situation ..she thought about her family n sacrificed her own hapiness n she didnt even had strong reason to break the engegement
n if randhir would hav talked normally then both of them would hav found the solution for the problem together coz solution baat karne se nikalta hai
n she finds randhir wrong in doing tamasha n pushing her dad in public the moment she hates is randhir pushing her dad like that n
he came to apologise but pushed her dad again 2 times
so she finds randhir wrong
...
randhir said to vidhushi that he will sort out the problem between sayu n him ...
n he wil def sort out the problems
randhir comitment kiya toh pura bhi karega
mard ki zuban
sandhir needs time to understand each other n clear all misunderstandings
one day they will accept that they lov each other ...
n both will sit n talk normally n will find solution for this problems (as sayu said baat karne se solution nikalta hai)
sandhir lov each other so they will throw this problem sameer out together
n sameer after knowing truth that sandhir lov each other he will def take revenge but sandhir will be together n will fight together
sayu was alone wen she fought for her dreams but she will not be alone to fight for her lov ...randhir will be with her
dreams ke mamle me sayu ko akele hi solution nikalna padta hai but lov ke mamle me randhir ka saath zaruri hai ..woh akele thodi ladsakti hai ...
pyar ek akelene thodi kiya hai dono ne kiya hai š
sandhir will be together in end š
i find both sayu n randhir realictic characters
i feel conected to them
i feel connected to sayu n see many girls in her who is facing same situations in life
do u agree with me ?
do u also think the same that both samdhir r realistic characters ?
wat u all think?
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