whats wrong with you guys

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Posted: 18 years ago
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hey guys

whats wrong with you all,evreyone has their own opinion but with due respect you all people are going a little overboard with bani.

first its a fictional character.

second i donot think bani was wrong.a person who dedicated all her life to these so called well wishers ,walias and her sisters,but ultimately what she got-betrayal,certified mentally ill,and the tag of a murderer.i agree what they did was for her good but they could have dealt the situation in a better way,they could have told her.they even snatched away her kids.

after all this do you expect any normal person to listen to them and their justifications.

i think bani's actions are fully justified.

and whats wrong in marrying AD,okay he saved her for his own revenge but he surely does love her and is ready to accept her kids as well.she deserves to be happy as jai said.i am a huge jai and bani fan but the fact is bani only got tears from jai.

jai can very well have ONS with pia and have an illegitimate kid but bani cannot marry another person.what narrow-mindedness.

this post is not intended to bash or assault anybody.

i am sorry if i have hurt anybody unknowingly.

but i think jai proved today that he truly loves bani.now it will be fun to watch,a subduded jai and angry bani.

god bless

dhani

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Dear it is not narrow-mindedness…We are voicing our angry for making a mockery of marriage…

Firstly, she did not marry both guys in a true sense…AD was out of promise and JW was out of revenge…so what do you call a marriage? Is this marriage? I don't think so…

Secondly, it is not Bani...Bani can never do it…it is not about marrying another person…but marrying them on the same day and making vows on the same day to two different guys…it is not Bani…

Well, we might sound narrow-minded but that is us…
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Bani has to stop JP Marriage in order to get her kids... she didn't marry JW again.. there is no need for that.. she is already married to him. She just stoped JP marriage.. and that is very correct...

Why people are talking against Bani ?
And after all it is just a drama.. to entertain masses.. :) just enjoy..

Just think about it.. if you have to write a sory for daily soap.. which has to run for 2 yrs.. there will be twists which are illogical..

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: vardhani

hey guys

whats wrong with you all,evreyone has their own opinion but with due respect you all people are going a little overboard with bani.

i think everyone is just sharing their opinions out here about the fictional character Bani..........if you feel that is going overboard, that is your perspective.

first its a fictional character.

am sure all of us are educated and sane enough to remember that

second i donot think bani was wrong.a person who dedicated all her life to these so called well wishers ,walias and her sisters,but ultimately what she got-betrayal,certified mentally ill,and the tag of a murderer.i agree what they did was for her good but they could have dealt the situation in a better way,they could have told her.they even snatched away her kids.

agree with u on this.........but nobody's perfect and that certainly does not mean that I agree with what they did.

after all this do you expect any normal person to listen to them and their justifications.

u mean to say any normal person would do what she did last night? get married twice to two different men..........u feel that is normal, what happened to your fiction

i think bani's actions are fully justified.

her step to get married twice yesterday definitely not.............let's for a second assume it was u, are u trying to tell me u would follow in her footsteps, please give me a break

her desire for revenge definitely, but she just made a mockery of the whole institution of marriage yest.............and u call that justification 😕

and whats wrong in marrying AD,okay he saved her for his own revenge but he surely does love her and is ready to accept her kids as well.she deserves to be happy as jai said.i am a huge jai and bani fan but the fact is bani only got tears from jai.

no one said she is wrong in marrying AD..........please she has all our blessings. but then she should have stuck that sorry as* of hers in one mandap only, not play musical chairs under the pretence of her kasam that she will come back for her kids. most ridiculous plot i have ever come across.

jai can very well have ONS with pia and have an illegitimate kid but bani cannot marry another person.what narrow-mindedness.

hello, i think u r getting carried away in ur assumptions now. no one was and is in favor of JW and his being raped involuntarily while not in his senses. we still hold it against him especially the way he behaved with bani after they returned from dubai.

and no one has a problem with bani getting married too, yes our hearts would be broken becoz for us JB belong together, but then she should have stuck to one marriage. you are completely missing the point here my dear. rethink and then argue.

this post is not intended to bash or assault anybody.

oh really, had i not read ur disclaimer i would definitely not hesitate in assuming that u r bashing the members who feel bani made a fool of the sacred institution of marriage and of womanhood and all the ideals she represented...........and definitely jai walia too, maybe indirectly.

i am sorry if i have hurt anybody unknowingly.

no problem

but i think jai proved today that he truly loves bani.now it will be fun to watch,a subduded jai and angry bani.

well that is your wish right, how do you know what the destructive team has planned.

keep no hopes, no expectations and wean off like me. 😆

Edited by Munchkins - 18 years ago
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Posted: 18 years ago
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It is not Bani bashing, it is actually an anger against the creatives for showing that marriage can be made a circus of. If Bani had told AD that she will marry him after getting her kids back, there would have been some integrity left. But here she is shown as having half a marriage and then a full marriage.

I think after the ONS Jai was completely bashed, no one thought it was alright. Its only later when the drugging angle came up that people eased up on the bashing.

Again, if AD only mentions about the pheres and they don't show it, then the creatives have left room later to show that they did not actually take the pheres. I think they are waiting for audience reaction. Like the ONS became a drug induced rape after the audience showed their contempt!
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Posted: 18 years ago
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I agree that she should have been thinking about kids when kids were taken away during yesterdays party. From her expression I thought that will be the reason for her to get married to JW. But then why go through the pheras? Why not stop before taht.

Just because Mayi doesn't want AD camp go away from KS she played aditry trick & played with sntuity of marriage & wedding vows.

Even though not shown ( i don't remember AD DDG pheras also) I guess the way wedding is JB also had pheras before putting mangalsutra.So when Bani/ DDG took pheras with both did she think what the vows mean & that she is promising something which she can't give to both of them. Not even to either of them?

About wom she really got married to I don't know exacly what completes marriage. I think in every community its different. In Maaharashtrians its exchnge of mala which we call the actual wedding. i think after watching Parineeta I think its same in Bongs. We marathis don't have to put sindhoor so our marriage is complete even without sindhoor.

I think bnai was thinking is marriage is complete with sindhoor.( That's the way Ekta's team thinks because she has shown Jia putting sindhoor in Bani's mang no of times as seal of their bind.

Officially she has to be married to Jaito gt the kids back. I don't know what happens to custody but bnai doesn't know that her kids belong not to Jai but Pia.AD is married to DDg or almost marrried to her

I think we have two pairs which creatives will decide in a months time Jai Bani or AD DDG. If PD gets back with Jia then she will be Bani Walia again aftr Saahil's murder mysry.This way it will be full circle & JB with JDD. 😳

If they pair up AD then PD will be DDG 7 we will have totally different show called Kasam Se 2 with totally different lead pair. No Jai & no BAni. 🤢

We just have to wait & see. And campain for JB.
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Posted: 18 years ago
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i have been saying it again n again that AD n bani marraige can be considered as broken it was stopped be bani at the right time n they never took pheras n AD saying it to bani was soooo that she will remember to cum back 😡

JW n bani marraige is 10000000% legal cause all the rituals have been done n the most important mangalsutra n vermilon was put by JW n not by AD 😃

AD n bani was marraige was performed nothing according to bengali tradition only they were dressed as bangali bride n groom 😡

n if by taking pheras n sitting in the mandap the marraige is considered legal n reptile n jai were married 5 yrs ago cause they had exchanged the garlands n took 3 0r 2 pheras 😡
Edited by bellle4u - 18 years ago
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Posted: 18 years ago
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I agree bani is justified to be angry. She kept all her emotions inside for 5 years, now is the time.
I have a feeling that tomm JW will be thrown out of his own room when he goes to talk to her.

ss
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Posted: 18 years ago
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well i respect all your opinions.

but i think she never took 7 pheras with AD,they didnot show it though.it was just another blooper i guess.AD's dialouges were misleading.
the destructives wanted to create some mystery so they showed two marriages happening simultaneously.
its just that the episode displayed very ameturish direction by the director whoever the person is.
but i stand by what i said.


JW be ready to sleep on the couch or even floor.

god bless.

dhani

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