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Well a lot of hue and cry over Raja getting hanged.
Here in the forum people also and even in the show Madhu says she wants to see Raja on fansi...
Well lets just think for once with a cool mind.
I dont even want to get over who is right debate bcz its useless discussing over it when nothing is clear to even the one who did the deed. 😆🤣
So let me bring to notice the fact that what is the punishment for Marital rape in India. Its not 7 yr imprisonment and definitely not hang till death. there is no clear cut punishment in law for this and even there is controvery over recognition of such forced sex in marriage as rape because of the belief that marriage in itself is a consent for such explicit relation.
But still for such cases as far as I have read is an imprisonment for 3 years. But even that is for those couples who have seperated and not living as couple. And for a couple living together there is no proper law. Even the definition of rape in our country clearly excludes marital rape.
So in the end, we cant even say what court procedures they are going to show. And if they get him punished its gonna be for 3 years. And i dont mind having 3 year leap.
But for the sake of the "SOCIAL ISSUE" that MB tried to bring up. I think its a bold and good attempt because its a kind of crime that doesnt even have a recognition in our law.
I also applaud them, specially DD, tht they showed the girl standing with high head and easily using the term "Balatkaar" and not ashaming from it. Though i still believe that standing in that shawl and dishevelled hair was not a good idea and again portrayed victimization. But when Madhu stood in police station and the policeman asking her "apko ye shabd baar baar bolne mei sharam nai aati?" I loved her reply.
The idea that rape happening shouldnt be a guilt over the girl is being beautifully shown here.
its just a discussion over the issue trying to be shown here and not a debate over the serial and character. Not for once am i saying Madhu is right or Raja is right or wrong. Thats all is kept under sheets so i want to wait for what comes out of those. Dont say here that its not BV or something because if they decide to show an issue through the progression of their story its not a bad thing. BV showed the problem of rape and let me say that it was too insensitive way.
Television and cinema is the mirror of our society and those here shouting on top of their voices for punishing Raja and even his family. And pointing his family as janwars. I highly doubt that anybody would look around their own society and see the people. Because Rape is even a tabooed "word" that our families dont even want to say among themselves. And Marital rape is a not understandable issue for a lot of the people specially those who belong to a conservative background. so the reaction of Raja's family is very natural and the mirror image of what happens in our society. I can say this thing as that unfortunately there was such case in my own relatives and nobody was ready to even talk of it. Not that all were just blind to it. Many of us were of the view to take action but those from the earlier generation chose to keep quite. Even the father of that girl decided not to speak up and in turn asked his own daughter to just bear with it. Well anyhow the couple is divorced now. But i saw the reality of our "Progressive Modern Society"
So in the end I applaud the team for their attempt. And using the conservative background that they had created to get out a serious issue which has now become a topic of discussion in this forum and most probably even in families now.
Here in the forum people also and even in the show Madhu says she wants to see Raja on fansi...
Well lets just think for once with a cool mind.
I dont even want to get over who is right debate bcz its useless discussing over it when nothing is clear to even the one who did the deed. 😆🤣
So let me bring to notice the fact that what is the punishment for Marital rape in India. Its not 7 yr imprisonment and definitely not hang till death. there is no clear cut punishment in law for this and even there is controvery over recognition of such forced sex in marriage as rape because of the belief that marriage in itself is a consent for such explicit relation.
But still for such cases as far as I have read is an imprisonment for 3 years. But even that is for those couples who have seperated and not living as couple. And for a couple living together there is no proper law. Even the definition of rape in our country clearly excludes marital rape.
So in the end, we cant even say what court procedures they are going to show. And if they get him punished its gonna be for 3 years. And i dont mind having 3 year leap.
But for the sake of the "SOCIAL ISSUE" that MB tried to bring up. I think its a bold and good attempt because its a kind of crime that doesnt even have a recognition in our law.
I also applaud them, specially DD, tht they showed the girl standing with high head and easily using the term "Balatkaar" and not ashaming from it. Though i still believe that standing in that shawl and dishevelled hair was not a good idea and again portrayed victimization. But when Madhu stood in police station and the policeman asking her "apko ye shabd baar baar bolne mei sharam nai aati?" I loved her reply.
The idea that rape happening shouldnt be a guilt over the girl is being beautifully shown here.
its just a discussion over the issue trying to be shown here and not a debate over the serial and character. Not for once am i saying Madhu is right or Raja is right or wrong. Thats all is kept under sheets so i want to wait for what comes out of those. Dont say here that its not BV or something because if they decide to show an issue through the progression of their story its not a bad thing. BV showed the problem of rape and let me say that it was too insensitive way.
Television and cinema is the mirror of our society and those here shouting on top of their voices for punishing Raja and even his family. And pointing his family as janwars. I highly doubt that anybody would look around their own society and see the people. Because Rape is even a tabooed "word" that our families dont even want to say among themselves. And Marital rape is a not understandable issue for a lot of the people specially those who belong to a conservative background. so the reaction of Raja's family is very natural and the mirror image of what happens in our society. I can say this thing as that unfortunately there was such case in my own relatives and nobody was ready to even talk of it. Not that all were just blind to it. Many of us were of the view to take action but those from the earlier generation chose to keep quite. Even the father of that girl decided not to speak up and in turn asked his own daughter to just bear with it. Well anyhow the couple is divorced now. But i saw the reality of our "Progressive Modern Society"
So in the end I applaud the team for their attempt. And using the conservative background that they had created to get out a serious issue which has now become a topic of discussion in this forum and most probably even in families now.
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