Does Paro know anything apart from boasting about her love ? - Page 10

Originally posted by: SanzPaRudholic

And do you know ANYTHING else than opening bashing/mockery posts on Paro's character? How about you give your resume to RR cv's and go play Paro 😉 Everyone has a right to express their opinion, agreed! But I have been noticing..you really seem to be obsessed with Paro..but you have Rudra in your signature!! *confused* Why don't you just stick to Rudra scenes..? and stop making these miserable posts and making out a MOCKERY out of yourself? ;)

Originally posted by: PhoenixRising

Exactly just stick to Rudra scenes would pay you better! 👏Paro fans been doing the same lately they only write about her and her scenes & her character and never bash Rudra.

Or you just noticing only Paro and everything she does, every step she takes!

Obsession at it's peak.

I always ignore this old broken recorder but today I fell like unleashing my silents on her.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

And why can't both definitions co-exist? I think both are completely true for Rudra's state of mind...because before his mother left him, he DID see the binding power of love...it was after she left him that he started questioning everything...so to me it makes complete sense that he can put both labels on Love...that it can have that binding power as well as be so thoughtlessly SELFISH...one side is the one he craves for again cuz Paro has given rise to that HOPE in him thanks to her own bhaashans on the power of love...the other aspect to love is the one that utterly shattered his life and he invariably fears exactly that based on what he saw of Paro's actions of trying to leave him.

Originally posted by: mango-frost

hmm i think i know what u mean. ur not against paro's kind of love, ur not against her religious beliefs either, ur not against the fact that she is leaving rudra to keep her promise to her God, even though she claims she loves him. ur just disappointed at the fact that paro thinks rudra doesn't love her, and therefore he wudnt have stopped her. u dont like how paro doesn't see his love, she doesn't see how he opens up only to her, he cries only in front of her; she neglects all of that. right??

hmmm how i see it is that paro knows she means something to rudra, he cares for her, he is her protector. he has been her shield before and will always be no matter what. he confides in her as a friend now, he does not HATE her anymore. but he does not love her either as he does not believe in love. he just recently mentioned it to her while he opened up the past about his mother to her, that his mother is the one and only reason he does not believe in love. so how can she just assume he loves her?? she knows he cares for her, she knows he appreciates her, but love...nah. she might have started thinking that he's beginning to like her, seeing his mellow side, but then constantly hearing from him that he does not believe in love, because love only knows how to destroy lives...she reassures herself that this isn't his love, its just his care. like someone mentioned, she is taking him at face value. heck, i think even rudra doesn't know yet that what he feels for her is love...so how can she know?

therefore, when she said, why would u stop me, u dont even love me...i dont think it was because she was asking for his confession, or wanted to hear it. i think she actually believes that he does not feel love for her, it is only concern, care, friendship etc.

but then again, even if he was just concerned for her, i dont think its right for her to leave him without letting him know. im sure she knows if she goes missing, he would go bonkers looking for her. so that left me a bit confused...

see this is what i mean...paro still thinks rudra is living with his first belief about love, that it destroys lives and is deceiving and whatnot. he hasn't told her he's starting to believe in love yet, whether it be with her or not...even if she sees it in some way or the other, he brings it back up that love is deceiving...so i can see why paro would still believe he does not love her...🥺

Originally posted by: ttt1

My issue is what we are talking about is paro's faith her belief system , so I think its between her and bolenath so her decision also should be more internal rather than Rudra trying to convince her
Arising above fear is approaching god -gita
It's not wrong to be scared but the cvs should not limit it there she should be shown evolving over her fear( without any external forces) to choose love
This is again one more round of who's right who's wrong
Faith cannot be right ot wring but rising above fear is strong characterization
I want to see that
About all the judgement against T-M I often post in Dr's thread , Many times my opinion has been diagonally opposite to her but I don't remember any time she getting. Personal or offensive because we dnt share a common opinion
She always puts her pov In a respectful manner , my 3 yrs of IF experience this is the place even the bestest of friends don't share the same opinion , but it just means we don't share the same opinion that's it

Originally posted by: DexterRocks

hey ttt1, see i dont even know ur name but yeah a big hug .🤗

My problem is I am not going to support a character when i cannot relate to him/her, there must be an absoluteness behind the actions of that character to gain my support. Do i imagine things and make my posts about how Paro is wrong or how Rudra is better ? No, its the way the story has progressed, thats the ultimate plot. I always expected this show to be a love story between two extreme human beings, but i got a love story between a human being and a godess, and when i am complaining about the ultimate portrayal of the godess to be superficisl, i am attacked, so should i assume that whoever supports Paro are happy with the way her character is progressing ? If yes then thats a very good thing, a win-win situation by the writers because both Rudra and Paro fans are kind of satisfied with the characterizations.

Coming back to why i post about Paro and not stick to Rudra only , because i want to ensure that there has to be an other side of the coin in which Paro can be percieved, its not necessary that when the whole forum supports her vow and roots for Rudra's confession, thats not a Karan Johar film, but because the story progresses from Rudra's POV, so here i put up his POV which Paro fails to understand everytime. And what wrong did i state ? I want to state that Paro chose her self satisfaction and belief system over Rudra, and isnt that the truth ? Yes for her she does not realize it, but thats how it comes off to be, if you cannot let your perceptions change for someone you love, if you cannot let go your upbringing, if you cannot let go your resolving power, then why do we expect Rudra to do the same ? Why do we expect Rudra to let go his demons, his belief in love equates betrayal, his belief in beautiful women are selfish, because if Paro can believe only what she sees ( Rudra doesnt love her ) then its fair if Rudra believes in what he sees ( Paro betraying him and abandoning him ).

And kind of 25-30 likes for my post, ensures that its not only me but numerous people agree with what i have posted, so what if i am the only one who voices it out ? So mocking me is equal to mocking them also. I am not a fool and not even with such low moral values to attack people and hence i choose to ignore, if you cannot defend your favourite character and instead mock me then that means you do not have any defenses against her and simply vomiting out your frustation here.