Does Paro know anything apart from boasting about her love ?

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Rudradev's tandaav was too powerful but not enough to knock senses in Paro's head.
Rudra's love was not that much selfish or egoistic to sit over there and mourn over her departure, even after feeling dejected and hurt he will give a last try to stop her.

I have some serious query regarding paro's state of mind, i get it she loves him a lot to sacrifice her married life with him, but he knows that . isnt it ?
How long can we audience buy her self boasting and self pity acts and speeches ?
I was tolerating her explanation to Rudra that how much he matters to her, unless she uttered out that he must have left in the train as he does not love her.
And then comes the question that so its all about word of mouth from Rudra ?
Until unless, he says " I love u " , all his attempts will be ignored like that ?

I am sorry if that is the kind of love Paro boasts about then, it puts me off, because her love hinders her thought process, does not allow her to think about anything else other than her self belief system. Emotionally caging him in your life and then demeaning him to such a level ? Isnt he the same man who had given her patni haqs, opened up his past in front of her, asked for solace from her ?

whatever done is done, I am glad that Rudra will give her a taste of her own medicine, atleast that proves that how much he can go for her sake, atleast he will never claim unbelievable and imaginary stuffs to satisfy himself or pity on himself, rather do what is right and indeed prove that
it could be hard for her to walk out, but its impossible for him to let her walk out.


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Posted: 11 years ago
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I haven't watched the epsiode yet, but I have a jist of it thus far.

I'm going to go with a different tangent here:

It's not just about love- if it was love alone Paro would stay regardless.
It's about faith, and religious beliefs. It's about the supernatural. It's about God.

How so? Because Paro, as a character is very spiritual, her love is for Rudra but also for Bohlenath. It sounds silly to me as an agnostic individual but with as someone who has a very religious mother, I get where she's coming from:

Her love for Rudra is powerful enough to make her selfish- make her want all of these things and trimmings that come with him and their relationship, but she's trying to control herself and not give in because in her mind betraying a sacrad vow with god would be the ultimate sin. It would hold ramifications, and it's something she doesn't want to risk.

This would hold true regardless of Rudra saying I love you or not, IMO
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Nice post. .well described paro's character. .rudra was absolutely right when he said*agar tu mujhe sach me pyar karti to mujhe yu chod ke nahi jaati*...rudra was absolutely right when he said*tu pyar ka matlab janti hai*our paro baisa can not think beyond her self believe. ..love the first scene when rudra got angry.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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It's not about knowing or not knowing...it's about two different perspectives...LOL Rudra was basically asking Paro all the questions that you usually verbalize in your posts, Megha...I was amused to see that...haha

Man, kitna dragging in the epis aaj kal...lol otherwise toh they run through scenes at the speed of light and now this week they are taking the whole week to play out this train station drama b/w RP...they show two minutes of RP and then 5 minutes of Laila, Mala, Tejawat stuff...oh and random Maithili scene in b/w...waah waah...


For some reason Rudra's tantrums today really amused me😆...the first outburst was the best...the one where he talks about how could she think of leaving him now just when he'd wanted to start filling her life with colors...and the one where he tells her that her kind of love is not love😆...Paro looked so dumbstruck there...hahaha...like how could Rudra question her love when she's given up everything for it.

Also they are both like stubborn kids...first he wouldn't let her speak during his outburst and then she runs after him asking him how dare HE get ANGRY at HER?🤣...too much comedy.


And the last bit with them having that mental convo there...Rudra grumpily asking her why she's still sitting there and expecting him to come manaao her? LOL...and Paro's like ok yeah I should leave...confused souls...


The Banjaara song sequence was good and an apt choice for Rudra's frame of mind...he struggled with verbalizing to Paro that he loves her...and Paro the divine being is unable to see how all of Rudra's actions SCREAM out his love for her...what a stalemate...lol


And the precap🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 I died laughing in the bit where Rudra says...tune mannat maangi thi na ki mujhe kuch nahin hoga? Toh phir mujhe kuch nahin hoga...hahahahaha he's turned her own vow around on her in a manner beyond her imagination🤣...I guess this is the only way to get through to Paro...cuz she actually still believes that Rudra doesn't love her? Ok then...lol
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: reeha...k

I haven't watched the epsiode yet, but I have a jist of it thus far.

I'm going to go with a different tangent here:

It's not just about love- if it was love alone Paro would stay regardless.
It's about faith, and religious beliefs. It's about the supernatural. It's about God.

How so? Because Paro, as a character is very spiritual, her love is for Rudra but also for Bohlenath. It sounds silly to me as an agnostic individual but with as someone who has a very religious mother, I get where she's coming from:

Her love for Rudra is powerful enough to make her selfish- make her want all of these things and trimmings that come with him and their relationship, but she's trying to control herself and not give in because in her mind betraying a sacrad vow with god would be the ultimate sin. It would hold ramifications, and it's something she doesn't want to risk.

This would hold true regardless of Rudra saying I love you or not, IMO


i get your POV . and trust me the question here is not about her religious beliefs or what she considers as a sin . No worries, i understand she cannot betray bholenath and eventhough she loves Rudra, for her life's security she thinks she had to do it. But the problem arises when she is actually letting him know how much he matters to her, she did it last time in chandangar and even today, making him percieve that her love is really that much great. That much is even fine, yes he asked her also is it easy for her, and she said its tough for her. Then she just clarifies with him that how come he is still staying in the station and he should have left because its shouldn't make a difference to him as he does not love her . It left me in utter disappointment, and it wa sheartbreaking because we know how it must have pinched his heart then, she has demeaned all his emotions, attempts to such a level where only his confession mattered .
I just want to say that there are people who in love can confess multiple times just how paro does and there are also people like Rudra who cannot confess but ensures that their love is so powerful that the whole world basks in the glory of that love, and unfortunately starting from maithili to a stranger like Zain abdullah depicted Rudra's love but not Paro who claims to understand him beyond anything.


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Posted: 11 years ago
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lol megha 😊
paro bashing by rudra
i was expecting this post from you 😆😆😆
i dont know if paro characterization is deliberately so different that i dont understand ,
but one thing the arugument is right if she loved him and understood love she wouldnt have left him to escape some bad luck
thats sad !


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Posted: 11 years ago
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DexterRocks, I respect your views...😊

And here's my...

Paro told that he hadnt confessed his love for her...He heard that....and you saw the desperation of Rudra to her stop anyhow...to get something that will stop her...But he knows here his confession is not going to work...because the reason of her leaving is all together a different thing...

If his confession had the power to erase her all belief...to erase her fear...fear of God...That what will happen she doesnt fulfill her wish??? Will something happen to her Major Saab??

You heard what Rudra said...he said how can she do that...wasnt she thinking?...and her immediate answer was NO...no she wasnt thinking anything...except that her Major Saab's life was at stake...

And Rudra's move had given the proof enough that she is not leaving him because he has not confessed his love...he knows were the problem lay...and he is working accordingly...





Edited by shona_arhilover - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I disagree

I think it is becoming fashionable to bash Paro.

When paro vowed to give up rudra, he had reached that state of being poisoned and lying almost dead in the hospital, through expressing dislike towards her and deliberately eating the laddoo that he was supposed to feed her after the puja. But to spite her love for him, he ate the laddoo instead. At that point in time, Rudra wanted nothing to do with her, and he just wanted her to go away.

In her love for Rudra, she prayed to Bholenath, and at the behest of the priest at the temple, agreed to give up her most precious thing - Rudra

If, in the days that have followed, Rudra has developed a major need for her - how is that an excuse for Paro to forget her vow to God ?

My connection to God is above and beyond my connection to my most beloved ones on earth.

Have doctor's appt - will return and write more 😛

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Okay - am back.

So this accusation that Paro is constantly boasting about her love - is invalid.

Giving up someone you love the most, so that they can benefit, is the ultimate sacrifice. This is what she was trying to explain to Rudra - that he has no reason to be mad with her - he has never told her that he loves her - she never expected him to leave the train to come after her (well, this one was far-fetched, I agree), and she will be the one loosing, if she leaves him. So he had no right to be mad with her.

What patni haqs has he given her? Her vow was made at a time when he hated her face also.

Her belief hinders her though process, you say ? Belief in God IS above everything else, is what I say.

Actually, I really don't understand your complaints, because obviously you and I think very differently 😆
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: shona_arhilover

DexterRocks, I respect your views...😊


And here's my...

Paro told that he hadnt confessed his love for her...He heard that....and you saw the desperation of Rudra to her stop anyhow...to get something that will stop her...But he knows here his confession is not going to work...because the reason of her leaving is all together a different thing...

If his confession had the power to erase her all belief...to erase her fear...fear of God...That what will happen she doesnt fulfill her wish??? Will something happen to her Major Saab??

You heard what Rudra said...he said how can she do that...wasnt she thinking?...and her immediate answer was NO...no she wasnt thinking anything...except that her Major Saab's life was at stake...

And Rudra's move had given the proof enough that she is not leaving him because he has not confessed his love...he knows were the problem lay...and he is working accordingly...







Ohhh very good point...I didn't think of it that way...I do agree that Rudra is tackling the source of the problem vis a vis the fact that Paro is willing to do anything to save his life...but I do feel that Paro on some level did want to hear a confession from him too...it may not have stopped her but it would have made it harder for her to leave...that she still believes he doesn't love her even now is😆

I wonder if she will believe that he loves her after this stunt that Rudra has pulled or if she will still remain ambivalent about that😆


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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: DexterRocks


i get your POV . and trust me the question here is not about her religious beliefs or what she considers as a sin . No worries, i understand she cannot betray bholenath and eventhough she loves Rudra, for her life's security she thinks she had to do it. But the problem arises when she is actually letting him know how much he matters to her, she did it last time in chandangar and even today, making him percieve that her love is really that much great. That much is even fine, yes he asked her also is it easy for her, and she said its tough for her. Then she just clarifies with him that how come he is still staying in the station and he should have left because its shouldn't make a difference to him as he does not love her . It left me in utter disappointment, and it wa sheartbreaking because we know how it must have pinched his heart then, she has demeaned all his emotions, attempts to such a level where only his confession mattered .
I just want to say that there are people who in love can confess multiple times just how paro does and there are also people like Rudra who cannot confess but ensures that their love is so powerful that the whole world basks in the glory of that love, and unfortunately starting from maithili to a stranger like Zain abdullah depicted Rudra's love but not Paro who claims to understand him beyond anything.



@Bold, Ah! Fair enough. Since I haven't seen the episode I'm still pretty vague lol. You're right- that line does leave me very dissolute.

Paro takes too much of what Rudra says at face value I guess, and yet at the same time she's able to read him very well in other instances. Perhaps its a fallacy inadvertantly made by the CVs, because based on everything Rudra does and acts, and how much he's changed she SHOULD be able to see that he CARES. Even if it's not love or love like to her, even if Rudra doesn't realize it's love: She should understand and know that she matters A LOT to him. He would take a bullet for her. He would KILL for her. He would lose a limb for her. It's all a big clustereff of mentions that contradict eachother.

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