Shehnaaz turns out to be Vamp No. 3! - Page 13

Originally posted by: skanda12

I differ with you on this point Diksha, simply because I believe that no one can "give you your rights". Your rights are for you take them and if you wait for someone else to give you your rights it will never come. Rights are lost by default, when you don't take your rights, you have no rights.

And rights are not from title or position or allowances. Rights are just for self respect as a human being. You don't need position or rank or permission from anybody in this world to have your rights as a human being respected. You have to insist on it and demand it with authority.

I personally think therefore that only when Jodha becomes generally rights-conscious and demands it both from Jalal and others she will overcome this "too soft with enemies" position. She has now slowly started expecting it from jalal, and I am sure she will soon demand it from others as well. The way she accosted maham this time shows that she is getting authoritative.

But this is my personal opinion. While saying that, I fully appreciate and understand your point also.

I so want to see the fiery Jodha back. 😃 Why has being in love turned her into a doormat, where Ruk comes and insults her, MA shouts at her and she takes it. Even the so called MA Jodha confrontation was just fika - MA shouted and Jodha said one line! Jodha atleast could have said MA is naam ki vazir or do not raise your voice or anything.

She let MA even insult Rajvanshis by saying Rajvanshi this and that and took away son. Jodha could have said she did not care about her son when she hurt him!

Originally posted by: skanda12

I differ with you on this point Diksha, simply because I believe that no one can "give you your rights". Your rights are for you take them and if you wait for someone else to give you your rights it will never come. Rights are lost by default, when you don't take your rights, you have no rights.

And rights are not from title or position or allowances. Rights are just for self respect as a human being. You don't need position or rank or permission from anybody in this world to have your rights as a human being respected. You have to insist on it and demand it with authority.

I personally think therefore that only when Jodha becomes generally rights-conscious and demands it both from Jalal and others she will overcome this "too soft with enemies" position. She has now slowly started expecting it from jalal, and I am sure she will soon demand it from others as well. The way she accosted maham this time shows that she is getting authoritative.

But this is my personal opinion. While saying that, I fully appreciate and understand your point also.

agree... one should know how to claim their rights...but that's when the relationship is in equals... and such relationship Jalal has only with Ruku, not with Jo...just take yest... when she talked abt shenu, he retorted back... but when same thing SB told him, he understood... till date, as i have always said, he committed mistake and then apologized , always, then how can Jo ever feel any right? how can she trust him completely to protect her respect in public, coz she never has got any such thing from him???? right from day one of their marriage, she has got only humiliation from him... every time she had to prove her loyalty? what rights anybody expect from that?

i m not saying , she is never wrong... she too is at mistakes... but remember, she was outsider and except HB and SB, everybody including Jalal always behaved like that with her... in their marital life , had she been only one for him, she would have claimed her rights... but till date she is just one from crowd, rather insulted even badly than any other women in his harem... what rights she can claim?

outstanding analysis. Happy to see how the love is progressing between Jalal and Jodha. SR can wait.

Regarding Ruks, I am really getting tired of her. Shehanaaz , I am not worried much as she will not bring any MU between Ja and Jo.

I have a question..
Is regular script writer in JA team changed? B/c i observe often there doesn't remain harmonizing in plot of story line for example, in amer shanaaz gave logical advise abt the relationship amid pati-patni n tried to convince jo to back agra saying the meaning of luv..here jo saw a mature shanaaz but now to see rahim in danger her laughing was made her as her IQ level is like a kid before Jo? Though its revealed to us shanu is villain but why jo yet isn't suspecting to see shenu's IQ level's fluctuation?

Wow great post and greatreplies

Originally posted by: skanda12

Jyoti, I too felt the same regarding the hug. While it was better than the first hug in the room, it still didn't seem in place, if you want to say it formal - it was more of a hug to a friend or even a son, while the hug given to Ruq is more for a wife - Mansi if that explains better. Even Jodha's head on his chest - not in place. I felt gap there as well. The bonding is lost. (It's like someone is acting it out there - the full effect is not there). This is what I have been observing right from the first hug to any intimate scene. They are doing a good job of hand holding only as of now.

Mansi, my interned has not been working since friday and last night it worked for an hr or so and by the time u posted internet was lost again.