Raman - Majboori or Choice? - Page 2

Totally Agree! He is falling every second in his children and wife's eyes. I mean seriously bache ne kuch kaha n he is following the same blindly...where he actually had to thank ishita for stopping adi from talking bhang stuff he forced her to say sorry?!?!
But must say Karan and divyanka ..you guys Rocked the show n Ruhi you left me speechless darling! :)

Originally posted by: Metamorphmagus

True.Why is he behind Adi to call him Papa? It isn't the first time Raman is meeting him. Majboori is the lamest excuse Raman has come up with. Normally, he is all for the right na? What changed? During the time when Raman and Shagun were married, he was the responsible one. The flashback showed him questioning Aditya about cheating in his exam. So, why is he so desperate?

Originally posted by: mrym_rauf

really nice post!

u said it so right first he has to acknowledge his own importance, then Adi will, he has to make Adi realize that he is the good father, but first he has to proof it to himself that yea he indeed is a good father by making his daughter happy!

Originally posted by: -cyndu-

Totally Agree! He is falling every second in his children and wife's eyes. I mean seriously bache ne kuch kaha n he is following the same blindly...where he actually had to thank ishita for stopping adi from talking bhang stuff he forced her to say sorry?!?!
But must say Karan and divyanka ..you guys Rocked the show n Ruhi you left me speechless darling! :)

I would say he has a majboori but he made the wrong choice in his majboori...

Great point, and I loved the quote of removing oneself from the equation. That is the wisdom that needs to grace buddhu raman's mind right now.

Another thing of note is that although Raman accused Ishu of making her into an excuse to barge in the holi event, Raman is the one who really used the child as a pawn to make Ishita apologise to the brat, Adi. Thankfully little Ruhi staged a silent satyagraha, and taught Raman that it can never be a majboori to deploy the sentiments of one child for gaining the love of another.

what majboori does raman have? in addition to the many things that he is raman is now confused as well. as a father he has the responsibility to correct adi . adi was trying to eat bhang and ashok and shagun did not notice it. ishita did and tried to stop adi. I mean they can use this point to get custody of adi. the custody does not depend on adi's wishes alone. in a public place the kid was unsupervised and he tried to eat an intoxicating food and his custodian was nowhere to be seen. he raman if he was as smart as he says he could have used this to fight for adi's custody. but no he makes ishita apologise to adi to get him to call him papa. adi changed his surname did n't he now what will raman do to make him change it back? make ishita do something else? who is ishita to him? what right does he have to make her do things that hurt her self esteem and insult her in public? does she not have the same right as well?

Originally posted by: luvsagar

I would say he has a majboori but he made the wrong choice in his majboori...

His majboori is his unfaltering "need" and "want" to be called papa by a kid who is already so brainwashed against him that he is utterly lost to him and unless that child wants to see reality he is not going to because Raman succumbs to his demands. Adi is a pawn in Ashok and Shagun's game..he is a child so manipulated and brainwashed easily whereas Raman is majboor because of circumstances creating the situation but he had a choice to set Adi straight and reside himself to not seeing his son and keep hoping that Adi would eventually see the truth!

He needs to focus only on the people who are in his life because they choose to be not chase after the unattainable!!

Originally posted by: aimf

Great point, and I loved the quote of removing oneself from the equation. That is the wisdom that needs to grace buddhu raman's mind right now.

Another thing of note is that although Raman accused Ishu of making her into an excuse to barge in the holi event, Raman is the one who really used the child as a pawn to make Ishita apologise to the brat, Adi. Thankfully little Ruhi staged a silent satyagraha, and taught Raman that it can never be a majboori to deploy the sentiments of one child for gaining the love of another.

Happy that he included Ishu atleast there... Let us see if he changes himself for Ruhi...