What is the point??( Three people in a marriage is a crowd)

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TaaniRocks

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Posted: 12 years ago

I dont like Veeras tactics at all.It just seems to make Gunjan hate Ranvi more than appreciate him and wants to get away from their faster and faster.Even I would if I had have Veeras company all day long

How is this helping anyone ???

What exactly does she think shes doing ??(If its taking revenge for her brother ) How exactly will he feel when he comes to know of it??

And that Jhumka buisness was that necessary,it just seems cruel to me

Gunjan only taunts and hurts Ranvi when he does something to irritate her and her manufactured ideas of him being the cause of her misery ,not at every walking talking moment of his life.

The only reason for Ranvis pain right now is his own unrequited love and expectations not Gunjan.

It would be her fault if she entertained the idea but she doesnt.

So what is Veera exactly blaming her for ??

Veera now seems to be doing this for her own entertainment .

Also the fact that Gunjan has to do everything for Ranvi just because his her husband is very backwards idea which I dont like Veera initiating .Being an educated girl an all.

I already know Im going to get a lot Pro - Veera and con-Gunjan replies ...I dont care.For me shes wrong.END OF

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Vinder90

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Posted: 12 years ago

agree 100% with everything u have said. . explained Gunjan side of things as it is , frankly. .

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Asandhimitra

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Posted: 12 years ago

It seems Veera is just trying to break RanJan wedding...pushing & irritating Gunjan all the time so that her anger for Ranvi just increases. So, yah, actually Veera cares a damn about her Veerji's marriage. She's just having fun irritating Gunjan for her own revenge ( though she has reason enough to take revenge..).
She's giving this long lectures about how she cares about his Veerji's happiness, but actually doing everything to push his happiness away from him.

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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: Vinder90
agree 100% with everything u have said. . explained Gunjan side of things as it is , frankly. .

I say things the way it is.If a new viewer was watching TV they can only conclude that Veera is torturing Gunjan and for what marrying her brother .She didnt want to .He said yes TOO.They are forgetting that

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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: VasusenaRadheya
It seems Veera is just trying to break RanJan wedding...pushing & irritating Gunjan all the time so that her anger for Ranvi just increases. So, yah, actually Veera cares a damn about her Veerji's marriage. She's just having fun irritating Gunjan for her own revenge ( though she has reason enough to take revenge..).
She's giving this long lectures about how she cares about his Veerji's happiness, but actually doing everything to push his happiness away from him.

Exactly!!!

Just because in her opinion RanJan marriage is wrong doesnt mean IT IS and shes right .She has no authority over that .The only people that can take this decision is both Ranvi and Gunjan .Ranvi supports this marriage and loves Gunjan.But Veera doesnt see this .He is hurt because he loves her and she doesnt and in the process her hatred towards him amplifies the pain.Which is the side that Veera sees only.

Ranvis pain comes form his LOve not from Gunjan itself.

But Veera is victimising Ranvi and holding Gunjan responsible by making Gunjan hate him.

In the process she is hurting him more so how the hell does she keep"Saying I LOVE MY VEERJI and I CARE ONLY FOR HIS HAPPINESS" -Shes actually becoming the cause of his pain.Dont blame Gunjan in this at all

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Asandhimitra

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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: TaaniRocks

I say things the way it is.If a new viewer was watching TV they can only conclude that Veera is torturing Gunjan and for what marrying her brother .She didnt want to .He said yes TOO.They are forgetting that

Veera should let Ranvi handle his marriage & his wife. She's just making the situation more complicated & difficult for all the parties concerned...specially for Ranvi 😔
If I were in Gunjan's place & had to tolerate a nanad like Veera all day, I'd have definitely run away.

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TaaniRocks

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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: VasusenaRadheya

Veera should let Ranvi handle his marriage & his wife. She's just making the situation more complicated & difficult for all the parties concerned...specially for Ranvi 😔
If I were in Gunjan's place & had to tolerate a nanad like Veera all day, I'd have definitely run away.

He was handling Gunjan in his own way .He went and told Veera that they should treat Gunjan with love and understanding who has had to endure so much in such little time.He understand Gunjan the best and she should leave him to it.But no she just had to get involved.

Veera is just being a khabab mein hadi for no reason.If one day Baldev forcefully applied colour on her she would definitely get her own back,this is a similar case but the fact being that Gunjan hates Ranvi so the argument is more heated.

Did Veera really expect Gunjan to suddenly be so nice and sweet to Ranvi after marriage.The only problem creator it seems right now is Veera.

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Asandhimitra

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Posted: 12 years ago

Exactly my point !! Veera needs to understand that Ranvi is getting hurt because of his unrequited love for Gunjan. Gunjan is not stamping on his feet every minute or something...left alone on her own she'd have never acted so desperate to run away.

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Posted: 12 years ago

Well, after Veeba's marriage, if Ranvi butts in every moment in Veeba's relationship, will Veera like that ? Will she accept & allow that ?? Will Baldev take that in good humor ??? Definitely not !! I hope Ranvi will interfere every second on Veeba's life...Veera will understand then.

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TaaniRocks

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Posted: 12 years ago

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Originally posted by: VasusenaRadheya
Exactly my point !! Veera needs to understand that Ranvi is getting hurt because of his unrequited love for Gunjan. Gunjan is not stamping on his feet every minute or something...left alone on her own she'd have never acted so desperate to run away.

Exactly!!!

The only reason Ranvi is hurt is because of his unrequited love.

His expectations and hopes ( which he admitted too) from this relationship

But the few improvements RanJan had made like Ranvi wishing Gunjan and her wishing him.

Will all dissapear.

Even the look of guilt after the heated argument between Ranvi and Gunjan.Gunjan felt guilty.But after Veera came stomping in all that is GONE and her hate is amplified even more.

Now I get the desperation of Gunjan wanting to run away ,I mean why should she stay because of Veera making her do unwanted task for a husband she doesnt love. WELL DONE VEERA !!!

You are fulfilling your own intentions of breaking RanJans marriage and getting Gunjan to hate Ranvi more and want to get away faster.