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Posted: 12 years ago
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well said akka Loved the whole episode
love SurYa
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Surya r truly made 4 each other...hands down to d best couple👏
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Posted: 12 years ago
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N suraj made me cry 2 dy...suraj's character is like prince of fairy tales which evry girl dream of...luv u surya👏
Edited by aroojakhtar - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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@Ramadi I am not talking about the wife perspective on the consummation part. That is only one aspect of being a wife. A wife keeps the husband above all. A wife trusts the husband completely and should be able to share the deepest pain and fear with him.
But Sandhya is still not able to discuss about Bhabo to him. Still not able to talk about Bhabo's unreasonable demands on her.
I am not talking about criticizing Bhabo. But instead of taking decision alone, taking his advice on wherever she feels the dilemma.
Sandhya needs to talk on these aspects to Sooraj. If I remember she has done that only once in that Nov episode where they both talk about their perspective. That was beautiful. Sandhya was right from on her POV , so was Sooraj.
So these talks needs to happen with them. Then she also needs to look at bringing improvement in her husband, education, business expansion. She needs to start that little ambitions in him. That is also a wife's duty. I would say most important.
Look at Meena and Emily how much they stand for their husbands.Sandhya still has a long way to reach there.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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i differ shruthi
she cant discuss about bb to suraj as he himself knows well about his mom
remember when sandy stood firm that she wouldnt pursue her studies and suraj kept asking her about the reason she couldnt say that bb had put pressure on her for a taabar
but destiny had something else for sandy
accidently when suraj came to RM for collecting the papers for sandy's admission he came to know how bb had brainwashed sandy

did he have to courage to speak this to his mom
smilarly when suraj arranged for the table in GG room

bb placed the sewing machine
did suraj ask this to his mom

neither sandy complained against bb to suraj ( she never wanted to come between bharaj)
nor suraj asked his mom why was she against her studies

suraj himself knows bb's adamancy, he doesnt need sandy to highlight it

as far as suraj expanding his business, the cvs are sticking to the orignal story

what has sandy not done which meena and emily have done to their husbands

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Sandy staying in RM with screaming bhabo, glutton bhabasa, liar chavi, thief meena and good-for-nothing mohit is the biggest thing she has done to suraj...😆

but most important one is she was willing to let go her dream during the very beginning before suraj got to know her dream.

making him a WTC is not a big thing, but bringing the confidence in him was another most important thing she has done...

like suraj said...she gives meaning to his life...what's more important than that?

@thala yes...I also think suraj will always remain as a simple halwai...
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Lovely post thala
Ofcourse they are diya baati


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Posted: 12 years ago
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@Ramadi is it necessary that Sooraj somehow needs to know Bhabo's karthooth everytime. He thinks of his mother as goddess and each new revealtion about her is bringing a change in him.
Sandhya decide to sacrifice her dream for Bhabo, knowing fully well if loses that SBC Sooraj will be gone. Did she need SRK to tell her " if you lose today Sooraj will set before time".
Sooraj pleaded with her to trust him and try to win.
Yes she again sacrificed the dream. When Sooraj decided to shut his shop she was allowing him to do so if Bhabo doesnt ask her to do her patni dharam she would have allowed Sooraj to end his dream to save her sanskaars in front of Bhabo. She needed Bhabo to remind her on the patni dharam. And CVs were very clear on that point when they made Bhabo tell patni dharam that means at that point Sandhya was not behaving like a wife, she forgot the duty of wife.
A wife at no cost will do the above 2 points. Either she will fight and argue and prove her point to her husband or go his way.
Running away from academy. Just imagine what Sooraj would have felt if she had done that. He has taken a vrath for her. If she comes running listening to Bhabo , yes Bhabo will be happy, but Sooraj.
That's why I told she needs to go a long way to be a wife. To keep Sooraj the utmost important person in her life. Allow him to carry her when she is dilemma between Bhabo and IPS. Everytime she decides to do something with her career thinking about Bhabo next instant what will Sooraj think has to come and in due course before jumping the gun on Bhabo she needs to talk to Sooraj and ask for his decision. Only this will complete her transformation.
@niruba by expanding business his simplicity will be gone is a myth. The humility you show after achieving great heights shows the real worth of the man. Sooraj will go heights. CVs will show him going heights ably supported by Sandhya. Bhabo who always cries my son's life is runied because of beendini IPS needs to know when set free where her beendini can take her son.
Sooraj's ideals getting exposed in society has started with yesterday's epi. It needs to be exposed to society more. For that he needs to go places😃
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Posted: 12 years ago
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shruthi

that diwali drama ( suraj's deal take the pen i will take the kalchi) and bb prompting was to boost bb's character thats all

one thing i would like to mention is
the cvs have given equal imp to bb character as well

they insert bb wherever possible in surya scenes,
and when it comes to bb dominant it has to be on sandy obviously

running away from TA for bb
is something i too felt bad
no one is perfect



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Posted: 12 years ago
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No Ramadi that diwali scene was not to boost Bhabo. Its meaning was clear. Sandhya was standing in front of Lord Krishna and asking him to show the way. At that time Bhabo coming and telling her to do patni dharma was an indication that the lord himself was asking her to stick to patni dharma when in confusion.
In other words whenever Sandhya feels dilemma between EV and IPS she has to choose the duty of the wife. Once she chooses that other things will fall in place. All her dilemma's confusions will be gone. That was exactly what we saw in TA. Sandhya choose to honour her duty as wife and all the other things fell into place.

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