difference betwenn Rude and Polite.. off show topic

drveena thumbnail
12th Anniversary Thumbnail Voyager Thumbnail
Posted: 12 years ago
#1


Hi...😊


i want to know the difference between being rude and being polite...Please clarify... i seriously want to know .😕...if possible give examples... i will tell you all later the reason for this topic...😊


Created

Last reply

Replies

33

Views

2k

Users

11

Likes

64

Frequent Posters

drveena thumbnail
12th Anniversary Thumbnail Voyager Thumbnail
Posted: 12 years ago
#2


oops .. i spelt "between" incorrectly in the title...😳
priyankaThard thumbnail
14th Anniversary Thumbnail Navigator Thumbnail
Posted: 12 years ago
#3
Veena fr me it is all about one's intention. If the underlying intention is love and care then any word spoken will be polite because energy with the words will be full of love . similarly if the intention behind someones words is to hurt the other, to insult him then that is rudeness for me.

It also depends on the person at whom it is aimed, on his will power. Some people are very sensitive, a slight remark and he gets hurt and also the other way.

BTW may i knw the reason behind this topic😊
kunalthebest thumbnail
13th Anniversary Thumbnail Voyager Thumbnail
Posted: 12 years ago
#4
Di.. from my personal experience we have to act both polite and rude at times...
For example whenevr students doesn't obey me or do something Wich i cant accept like failing miserably in xams or not doing works and assignments properly i get rude.. behave very rudely, though in my heart i may be feeling not to.. otherwise they will not get the seriousness of the matter.
But after all its for their sake...
Whenever I meet new people or my relatives who are elder also i try to be as polite as possible.. Because the first impression is the best impression no 😉😉
So both is necessary in life..
Edited by kunalthebest - 12 years ago
_AngryBird_ thumbnail
13th Anniversary Thumbnail Rocker Thumbnail
Posted: 12 years ago
#5
Rude and Polite..
When we don't like something we will have to ways to say it that we don't like to the opposite person..
One is being Rude and other being Polite..
Saying No in a smooth way with out hurting others, people call it Polite..
Saying the same thing in angry mode, people claim it to be rude..
In simple, Saying No with smiling face will give Polite impression
Saying No with angry gives Rude impression
It depends on person's temper to react to things depending on the severity of the thing happened..
Every one will act Rude and Polite accordingly..
One can't be always Polite one cant be always Rude either..
Just My point of view..
Edited by _AngryBird_ - 12 years ago
drveena thumbnail
12th Anniversary Thumbnail Voyager Thumbnail
Posted: 12 years ago
#6


😔.... well... one of sangita's fans felt that i was being rude ( to the fan).. on twitter...😕

it so happened that this fan asked " @ sangita ..Why don't you wish Ruslan , it's his wedding today" ..something like this...
and sangita had replied saying" you don't know.. i may have his no..to call him personally"...

by this time..many fans had blasted the questioner...

and i too happened to log in at that time.. and i Tweeted" Whom sangita wants to wish is totally her business , people should stop minding other peoples business"... i tweeted this to SG and the Fan , in question.. who felt that i was being rude.. well! i thought that i was being very polite when i tweeted that...😕

tell me was ..i rude...😕
Edited by drveena - 12 years ago
kunalthebest thumbnail
13th Anniversary Thumbnail Voyager Thumbnail
Posted: 12 years ago
#7

Originally posted by: drveena



😔.... well... one of sangita's fans felt that i was being rude ( to the fan).. on twitter...😕

it so happened that this fan asked " @ sangita ..Why don't you wish Ruslan , it's his wedding today" ..something like this...
and sangita had replied saying" you don't know.. i may have his no..to call him personally"...

by this time..many fans had blasted the questioner...

and i too happened to log in at that time.. and i Tweeted" Whom sangita wants to wish is totally her business , people should stop minding other peoples business"... i tweeted to SG and the Fan , in question.. who felt that i was being rude.. well! i thought that i was being very polite when i tweeted that...😕

tell me was ..i rude...😕

Frankly speaking di... yurself told dat many were blasting her.. so she mite have got a feeling that yu are also bashing her n being rude to her..
Yu were correct in your point.. dnt worry Di...
But I think we will have to keep distance from all such tweets... as we dont kno who is on the other side n why unnecessarily invite problems...
its my personal opinion di..
I m sorry if i said something wrong...
_AngryBird_ thumbnail
13th Anniversary Thumbnail Rocker Thumbnail
Posted: 12 years ago
#8
Veena ji.. U r not at all rude..
Exactly its sangeetha's wish to wish ruslaan or not..
She expressed her view to sangeetha and
You expressed ur view..ntng wrong.
Dont get upset on others reaction towards u..
drveena thumbnail
12th Anniversary Thumbnail Voyager Thumbnail
Posted: 12 years ago
#9

Originally posted by: kunalthebest

Frankly speaking di... yurself told dat many were blasting her.. so she mite have got a feeling that yu are also bashing her n being rude to her..
Yu were correct in your point.. dnt worry Di...
But I think we will have to keep distance from all such tweets... as we dont kno who is on the other side n why unnecessarily invite problems...
its my personal opinion di..
I m sorry if i said something wrong...


no neetu .. you are right.🤗.. @ bold.. i din think from this angle...but we are friends now ..
@ red.. i will keep this in mind...😊
drveena thumbnail
12th Anniversary Thumbnail Voyager Thumbnail
Posted: 12 years ago
#10

Originally posted by: _AngryBird_

Veena ji.. U r not at all rude..
Exactly its sangeetha's wish to wish ruslaan or not..
She expressed her view to sangeetha and
You expressed ur view..ntng wrong.
Dont get upset on others reaction towards u..



@ bold -love you sindhu.🤗. am feeling better already...😊

Related Topics

Top

Stay Connected with IndiaForums!

Be the first to know about the latest news, updates, and exclusive content.

Add to Home Screen!

Install this web app on your iPhone for the best experience. It's easy, just tap and then "Add to Home Screen".