Venting is good...but lets contain it

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Posted: 12 years ago
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I'm not a Gunjan apologist or even a Ranjan shipper...I'm a Ballu lover and love my Veeba!...I've been neutral to Ranjan always.

Usually, I don't even read the Ranjan/Gunjan posts...becasue I'm in Veeba land all the time...but yesterdays forum discussions were too sad/angry for even me!

Here's my suggestions: since we're all on this forum to discuss/enjoy/go crazzy over...and sometimes even vent over this show and its characters that we love. Lets do this in an organized way. I know we have a thread about frustration and what not, but why can't we get a thread titled "Haterade" or soemthing...lol and we can go there and vent about what a character is doing...but that way if someone loves that character they'll stay away and "put down the haterade".

This way, the negative emoitions (which are justified when we love these characters) will be contained in the venting forum...so that nobody else gets sprayed with it...cool?
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Posted: 12 years ago
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its true..
its making impossible to visit the forum.. i cant read so much negativity.. it hurts me.. as i am such a ranjan shipper.. i dont care really wats gonna happen next week frankly..

so all thi speople venting out makes me feel like exiting IF for good..
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Posted: 12 years ago
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i guess this comes standard with being part of a forum . . .
spoilers were one reason for massive critisisms, and thank God now we have them in one place. . and every spoiler post to be named with SPOILER ALERT. . or all upcomin segments have the relevant titles.. . so everyone can choose to look / not look as per their wishes . .

its not a welcoming sight seein too much negativity, of which I am also cause of, but I tried to make 0 threads to extend the matters. .

Its also standard to get extreme views of any situation. . there will be bias in some situations, and over favouring in some situations, and extreme denouincing in some situations. . .

but given the nature of these things I think its beyond control. .since most pple have a emotional attachment to their favs. . .

Personally, my days are numbered on Veera IF. . implying all of IF in general, coz i am only on Veera IF. . I am just hoping for this twists to air ASAP, so I can look for some justifications for Gunjan's u-turn. . . if i get some reasonable/believabale/explicable reason. . . then I will be probably happiest person alive. . . else if i fail to see a reason, and GUnjan is potrayed as a planner who planed this all along. . then . . well . . . its over for me. . .despite whatever good happens next. . that RanJan connection I had wud have been severed thoroughly!! !!
Edited by Vinder90 - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Vinder90

i guess this comes standard with being part of a forum . . .

spoilers were one reason for massive critisisms, and thank God now we have them in one place. . and every spoiler post to be named with SPOILER ALERT. . or all upcomin segments have the relevant titles.. . so everyone can choose to look / not look as per their wishes . .

its not a welcoming sight seein too much negativity, of which I am also cause of, but I tried to make 0 threads to extend the matters. .

Its also standard to get extreme views of any situation. . there will be bias in some situations, and over favouring in some situations, and extreme denouincing in some situations. . .

but given the nature of these things I think its beyond control. .since most pple have a emotional attachment to their favs. . .

Personally, my days are numbered on Veera IF. . implying all of IF in general, coz i am only on Veera IF. . I am just hoping for this twists to air ASAP, so I can look for some justifications for Gunjan's u-turn. . . if i get some reasonable/believabale/explicable reason. . . then I will be probably happiest person alive. . . else if i fail to see a reason, and GUnjan is potrayed as a planner who planed this all along. . then . . well . . . its over for me. . .despite whatever good happens next. . that RanJan connection I had wud have been severed thoroughly!! !!


oye vinder,, lets fight for ranjan yaar.. dont goo.. or else i will also go away..

no support for me... hina is really supporting me so u must also... 😊

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: namratavyas


oye vinder,, lets fight for ranjan yaar.. dont goo.. or else i will also go away..

no support for me... hina is really supporting me so u must also... 😊


dont worry di,

I have been getitn hit by explosions in the face by one spoiler after other. . . and on forum, the overgrown anti-gunjan attitude is evident. .

I declare my allegiance to Ranjan .. and will support RanJan shippers all my life. . . . under only one simple condition. . CVs have to give a justification to all this. . that is reasonable/explicable/believable. . . . . once my condition is met. . I will be at peace. . .
I will support GUnjan to the worlds end if I get one proper justification. .

my understanding is, there will be a strong justification. This implies Gunjan is not negative. . she will just explode in all wrong direction, heck she might even chase Baldev out of her sight some point lol.. if he comes to check up on her. . . I wil forgive her. . I wont se her as negative. . she will need no sort of hard core redemption, only a wake up call , harsh or whatever. . which will result in her drawing a line between herself and bansuri!!! or anyone who poisoned her. .

and while writing this . . I am feeling a rise in positivity. . . and my writing mode seems to be coming back to me. . . one I get that justification I am praying for, . .. . expect an OS / or SS from me post that. . . heavily Gunjan-dedicated. . . coz I just love her character. . . .raghuvir sir said have no expectations of her. . . but it came sort of too late lol, when I already built loads of expectations and hopes. . 😆
Edited by Vinder90 - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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elo ... well i'm very new to this series and as well as when it comes in visiting/utilising this forum...but i know what fansites are like...
so i been through some topics and i just wanna say that u all should relax and enjoy the show as a whole...overanalysing or being jugmental about characters based on portrayal or mere speculations will just ruin the spirit and thrill that this series as to offer ... n thus u wont enjoy it ...
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I think they have turned Gunjan into a vamp! She first breaks Ranvi's heart and then she tells Veera about her parents and breaks HER heart! Her so called revenge for stopping her Super marriage to the wife beater NRI is now done! I hope she can now go and leave the two in peace!!

Gunjan is a malicious and hateful girl. She is cunning and spiteful. I no longer think such a small minded person deserves someone as good hearted and upstanding as Ranvi.


She has a LONG way to go after doing all this damage to raise her estimation in the eyes of the audience! After this much hate from her for RANVEERA, redemption will be tough!! Before I am a fan of ANY of the couples on this show I am the fan of RANVEERA, who are the main characters of this show!! Anyone who hurts them, I will NOT like. Especially someone who PRETENDS to be their friend and then PLOTS to hurt them!!


Gunjan used her childhood connection to the bro/sis duo to ruin their lives!! Baldev has always been at odds with them so of course they don't trust him! But Gunjan USED both Ranvi and Veera. For that I will not forgive her easily!! Sorry!!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I am sorry sunny, but these are just my thoughts. And ofcourse we have always had the Veeba conncetion😆😆
There are a lot of Ranvi, Ranveera , Veera fans on the forum. I love Ranveera a lot and inspite of being a Baldevian I am a Veera fan too. So people would definitely vent out against a character that hurts their favourites intentionally, wouldn't they?? And till now we haven't got any proof or source of hope to think otherwise. So it is natural human reaction that there is an outburst. A lot of sane members in this forum who never pick up fights are also criticizing Gunjan. And when people open posts justifying her actions with reasons we cannot connect with or are beyond our logic, we also write down whatever comes to our mind to defend our thinking. Having said that there has been no name calling or bashing against actors or other fellow forum members. Everybody disagrees and we leave it at that.
There are even instances of posts being opened to compare Gunjan with Baldev inorder to prove her right. When such things happen, Baldev fans would definitely run in to defend him coz nobody wants him to be compared to a character who might be the future vamp of the show. He is miles apart from being a Gunajn
So it is quite understandable why people are miffed. We bash Bansuri, so if in their POV, people findthat Gunjan is a villain, I don't think there is anything wrong in criticizing her.
Edited by lizaries - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: lizaries

I am sorry sunny, but these are just my thoughts. And ofcourse we have always had the Veeba conncetion😆😆
There are a lot of Ranvi, Ranveera , Veera fans on the forum. I love Ranveera a lot and inspite of being a Baldevian I am a Veera fan too. So people would definitely vent out against a character that hurts their favourites intentionally, wouldn't they?? And till now we haven't got any proof or source of hope to think otherwise. So it is natural human reaction that there is an outburst. A lot of sane members in this forum who never pick up fights are also criticizing Gunjan. And when people open posts justifying her actions with reasons we cannot connect with or are beyond our logic, we also write down whatever comes to our mind to defend our thinking. Having said that there has been no name calling or bashing against actors or other fellow forum members. Everybody disagrees and we leave it at that.
There are even instances of posts being opened to compare Gunjan with Baldev inorder to prove her right. When such things happen, Baldev fans would definitely run in to defend him coz nobody wants him to be compared to a character who might be the future vamp of the show. He is miles apart from being a Gunajn
So it is quite understandable why people are miffed. We bash Bansuri, so if in their POV, people findthat Gunjan is a villain, I don't think there is anything wrong in criticizing her.



Veeba/Baldevians forever!!!👍🏼

No worries...everyone is entitled to their own opinions...and since I had a lot of free time today (I'm still at work lol) I read over many of the conflicting views about Gunjan/Ranjan. I usually don't venture there because I'm a Veeba lover to the core and can't get out of it...not that I'd ever want to...😉


I just started this post because so many posts were so sad or angry...probably more so than ever before...

I get it, if anyone attacks our Ballu or Veeba then the gloves would be coming off...there would be a kabbadi match on here for sure LOL😆...just kidding...I totally get it, I;d be the same way over Ballu and Veeba...but that was my point about putting all those types of posts into one section and then whoever would venture into it would know what they're getting into...

but chaddho...I'll go back to my Ballu land and eagerly wait for Sonu to post the pics of him today and then watch the episode later tonight (and his scenes over and over...gawwwd I'm obsessed!)

I'm going to take a backseat about the whole Gunjan stuff...and let everyone hash it out how they want...but continue to keep it clean ladies😊
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: sunny303



Veeba/Baldevians forever!!!👍🏼

No worries...everyone is entitled to their own opinions...and since I had a lot of free time today (I'm still at work lol) I read over many of the conflicting views about Gunjan/Ranjan. I usually don't venture there because I'm a Veeba lover to the core and can't get out of it...not that I'd ever want to...😉


I just started this post because so many posts were so sad or angry...probably more so than ever before...

I get it, if anyone attacks our Ballu or Veeba then the gloves would be coming off...there would be a kabbadi match on here for sure LOL😆...just kidding...I totally get it, I;d be the same way over Ballu and Veeba...but that was my point about putting all those types of posts into one section and then whoever would venture into it would know what they're getting into...

but chaddho...I'll go back to my Ballu land and eagerly wait for Sonu to post the pics of him today and then watch the episode later tonight (and his scenes over and over...gawwwd I'm obsessed!)

I'm going to take a backseat about the whole Gunjan stuff...and let everyone hash it out how they want...but continue to keep it clean ladies😊

Baldev/Veebains forever👍🏼 Even I refrain from commenting on Gunjan and Ranjan posts mostly and I was not very keen on how their angle would develop. So was least interested in discussing the same. But when Gunjan got connected to few of the elements I like in the show, I had to express my opinions about the same. From today onwards I would discuss Gunjan's actions and character because she is going to affect the whole Ranveera and Veeba angle in this show without a doubt.
And speaking about people attacking Baldev or Veeba, that is something that the Baldevians and Veebains of this forum will not take with folded hands. They are sure to run to their defence and people argue with valid points without taking it to a personal level.Guess we are like the jodi we love😆😆😆
Speaking of tonight's epi, you should watch it. Baldev is a sweet heart and he went on radio for her.
That is a sweetest thing a guy could do for a girl. As we call him he is an Adorable Spoilt Brat (ASB) Remember the term😆😆

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