Sick accusation, Emotional turmoil, Sanskaar Lecture

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Yesterday's epi can be divided into 3 parts for me. First Abeer and Nissar's fight, Meher's emotional turmoil, Abeer's mom's lecture.
So first part. Well Abeer never disappoint me. How yesterday I was predicting this guy will accuse Nissar for having a soft corner for Meher. He exactly does that. He says his crush on Meher is still active and since she has given him 9pm slot he is giving her more importance. I was glad that Nissar didn't take the accusation sitting. But gave it back to him nicely in such a way that his face was a decorative piece when his mom looked at it. Bahut saare pyaar ke Nishaan chod diye Nissar ne πŸ˜†πŸ˜†πŸ˜†. I really liked the way Nissar questioned his attitude and behavior in the party. Nissar really stood up for what is right at that point. Abeer's behavior towards Meher was trash, and Nissar told it was trash in a befitting way no matter his nose got injured.
Now coming to Meher. It was really really sad to see her yesterday. The way she came out of the party, tired, broken, insulted, forced to hear a comment from Lovleen Abeer is hot and still holding her composure. Nissar like a true friend understood her condition and that scene where he gives Meher his coat was beautiful. Nothing was told, nothing was needed, the beauty of that friendship shone through his action. And then her breakdown in the wash room. Poor girl. She still loves Abeer. She still values those memories. Her pain of losing those beautiful moments of life, her pain of the need to relive those memories due to the harsh incident , I would say Asmita brought it out beautifully. And the best part was irrespective of the turmoil inside her calmness outside and the decision to stay from Abeer-Nissar fight. I would say well done Meher πŸ‘. That was a practical decision you took.
Last part. Abeer's mom' lecture to her son on sanskaar. True maybe from childhood she has given him the right sanskaars to respect a woman. But the reason why Abeer puts the blame on Meher after the lecture is the fact that, he has never seen it practically. His father abuses his mother. His mother knows that what his father is doing is not right, but she simply suffers. So theory one side, action other side. Her son learned from his parent's action. His father's actions appealed to him than his mother's theory. Because he felt theory is theory. In real life if a man abuses a woman she will suffer it quietly without retorting back. For this guy to change, I would expect a strong change in his mother against his father's ways in front of him.

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Nice review...πŸ˜ƒ
I loved the fighting part between Nissan and Abeer, call me a sadist but I feel
it's highly necessary to show the other side (Meher's perspective) to Abeer, he badly needs
to come out of the misunderstanding regarding their divorce

Asmita was sublime in yesterday's epi, I felt really bad for her because she can't share her problems with anyone, not even with her mother who is hellbent on patching her up with Abeer
I Hope Nissar proves to be a good friend with her

Mrs. Malhotra needs to install some 'akal' into her son, because he is behaving like a chauvinist
You are right about Abeer's mom being quite to the abuse received from her husband and no wonder
Abeer abuses Meher like anything. I hope his mom takes a stand soon

One question that has been wondering in my mind since a few days: How did a sane girl like fall in love with Abeer? No strong and independent girl would ever fall in love with a egoistic man like Abeer.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: shruthiravi

Yesterday's epi can be divided into 3 parts for me. First Abeer and Nissar's fight, Meher's emotional turmoil, Abeer's mom's lecture.

So first part. Well Abeer never disappoint me. How yesterday I was predicting this guy will accuse Nissar for having a soft corner for Meher. He exactly does that. He says his crush on Meher is still active and since she has given him 9pm slot he is giving her more importance. I was glad that Nissar didn't take the accusation sitting. But gave it back to him nicely in such a way that his face was a decorative piece when his mom looked at it. Bahut saare pyaar ke Nishaan chod diye Nissar ne πŸ˜†πŸ˜†πŸ˜†. I really liked the way Nissar questioned his attitude and behavior in the party. Nissar really stood up for what is right at that point. Abeer's behavior towards Meher was trash, and Nissar told it was trash in a befitting way no matter his nose got injured.

Exactly, abeer never let down our expectations, πŸ˜†
Nissar this man ,stood up for the right thing, instead of keeping calm because first he is friend of abeer and then meher's friend

He didn't think about it,just took the side of right things.

I loved it. This man abeer totally lost his senses ,he can't even see what's wrong or right. He thinks only he suffered alot , because of divorce. That's totally insensible.

Now coming to Meher. It was really really sad to see her yesterday. The way she came out of the party, tired, broken, insulted, forced to hear a comment from Lovleen Abeer is hot and still holding her composure. Nissar like a true friend understood her condition and that scene where he gives Meher his coat was beautiful. Nothing was told, nothing was needed, the beauty of that friendship shone through his action. And then her breakdown in the wash room. Poor girl. She still loves Abeer. She still values those memories. Her pain of losing those beautiful moments of life, her pain of the need to relive those memories due to the harsh incident , I would say Asmita brought it out beautifully. And the best part was irrespective of the turmoil inside her calmness outside and the decision to stay from Abeer-Nissar fight. I would say well done Meher πŸ‘. That was a practical decision you took.

I loved asmita's acting in yesterday's episode. Literally She bought tears to my eyes. The way she broke down in washroom, seriously Hatts off to her.
Most important ,she refused to indulge herself between abeer and nissar's fight, that was the brilliant part of the episode. Instead of going typical way to stop the fight. She just moved out from it. ..


Last part. Abeer's mom' lecture to her son on sanskaar. True maybe from childhood she has given him the right sanskaars to respect a woman. But the reason why Abeer puts the blame on Meher after the lecture is the fact that, he has never seen it practically. His father abuses his mother. His mother knows that what his father is doing is not right, but she simply suffers. So theory one side, action other side. Her son learned from his parent's action. His father's actions appealed to him than his mother's theory. Because he felt theory is theory. In real life if a man abuses a woman she will suffer it quietly without retorting back. For this guy to change, I would expect a strong change in his mother against his father's ways in front of him.


Mrs.Malhotra. .. She's just an amazing mother who can raise her voice if her son is on the wrong path ,instead of pampering her son .


The way she took meher's side ,it was commendable.


Worse part was ,her lecture didn't have impact on abeer .
He misunderstood meher , believed that meher is responsible for everything whether it's fight between nissar and him ,or his mother's lecture to him.


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Posted: 9 years ago
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I quite agree with your analysis
I think Abeer will realize what Nisaar was trying to tell when the Office gossip will hit him and people talking low abt Meher which he knows is not true πŸ€”
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Posted: 9 years ago
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I pretty much agree with your analysis!
It was indeed soo sad to see Meher cry, it protrayed so many emotions and proved that she definately really loves Abeer still but I love the strong mask she is able put on, that must be one of my favourite scenes yesterday.
I loved Nisaar and Abeer's fight, lol with the reasons you gave and also because it wasn't anything as serious. The love of friendship between the two friends was still evident. It was funny, but much needed one.
And the sanskaar scene, Abeer's mum never fails to impress me. I love her bond with Meher and I love how she understood straight away that it must have been her son's fault to why Nisaar hit him. I like how she's not being typical indian serial mothers who listen and become blind of their son's mistakes
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Posted: 9 years ago
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😊shruti,
thanks for the review.ya,asmita stole the show with that scene in washroom,the fbs haunt her and abeer is hurting her a lot.dunno what would be abeer's reaction if he happens to witness such a scene again.[if he gives his arrogant smile again,i swear we can both go together and whack him personally😊.]abeer is seriously going down in my eyes,with his atitude to meher.and good that meher didn't interfere btw nisbeer like typical soap heroines,it'd have made th

and nissar is a great friend.gave abeer the perfect jawab to his accusation.he should remain like this,a perfect and true friend.

abeer is just #toomuch.he's almost 30 and behaving like a 3 year old.he never understands meher's feelings/hurt through her eyes.and he's not in his senses most of the time.and still possessive too.poor mrs.malhotra's advice fell on deaf ears.wonder was abeer like this even after marriage to meher??

precap:another #toomuch,he doesn't even value their love or marriage and instead uses it for blackmailing.[though hopefully we might get a colege fb after a long time.]


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Posted: 9 years ago
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honestly speaking Abeer behaved like a jerk to Meher. like his childshness is more than the childishnes of 100 guys πŸ˜† Badtameez dil and all i get...but that's not how you treat a girl infront of so many people (see the gall...she's he boss 😲)... he desperately needs to draw a line...this is borderline (ok more than that) harassment honey πŸ˜†...and emotionally draining too...
Meher was the best when Rati comes running to her talking about their fight...she be like to hell with everyone πŸ˜†...it was mature on her part to not intervene and let it sort it out themselves

Whatever it is, it wasn't just because Meher is a friend to Nissar that he reacted that way. The fact that he hit Abeer after his provocation proves that jealousy was speaking more than Meher's friend πŸ˜†

Friends and mothers...they know Abeer very well... i thought they'd know that how much ever you tell abeer NOT to do something...he'll exactly do that only πŸ˜† Can't they find better ways to deal with him.

Sasha mummy and Nissar - they know how much he is conscious and possessive about them...why provoke him and say such stuff that'll make matter worse...point needs to driven across to him...but in a way Abeer can indeed gets it right and doesn't take it in a wrong manner.

And anyways it's always good to stay away from your friend's relationship business...very risky to get into it boss 🀣... i know it difficult to ignore as a friend...especially when both the people concerned are your friends...but sometimes its for the best is you leave them on their own. cause it always boils down to choosing one...the one you're closer too accusing you always being on other's side even when you are neutrally trying to sort things out...all that kind of drama...isse accha stay away only 🀣

Yesterday, a max to max reaction of a friend would have been dissapointment, confrontation to a point where Abeer frastration would stay at minimum πŸ˜†, some strict talk like Sasha did with him...but dude the reaction nissar showed was definitely driven by his hidden feelings for meher...which definitely makes sense is justified...what wouldn't have made sense was him fighting like that if he was JUST friends to both πŸ˜†...yeah but Abeer deserved it...better get it from a friend only i guess πŸ˜†

OMG Meher moved me so much yesterday. I just cannot imagine how painful it must be for. the breakdown scene was so heartwrenching...esp the moments where she remembers Abeer loving her so much...and today he hates her to this extent that he misbehaves in worst ways. And i so agree with Abeer's mom. there is dignity in her silence...but still she human...after all this she cannot even get rid of that tattoo...as she said...kuch nishan nahi mitthe...

on the other hand...on a lighter note...get a plastic surgery done and get rid of that got damn tattoo...if you want to that it πŸ˜†... the question is does she still want to hold on to it?

However i feel that it was not his father's influence that keeps on and on about insulting Meher. He is not ready to let go of the past and the hurt...being childish blaming Meher 24*7...as if he is the only one who suffered...and also its not that he thinks Meher should keep shut as she is a woman, but because he feels since she is they one guilty over ruining their relationship she should keep quiet. just what i felt...
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Like all of you I love Mrs Malhotra for her stand with her son and trying to put some sane things in his head. Yes it was refreshing to see a mother asking her son to behave well. We rarely see that in TV serials. My only point is I want her to stand up in front of his father more for Abeer and his passion when he is around.Also Meher was also exception from other soap heroines. Jumping into any issue head on. Thankfully she stayed away from it.
@Debo Abeer's behavior is influenced from his father's behavior. For everything from divorce he keeps Meher as responsible. Even in one of FB where his father berates him because of his marks comparing him against Meher's marks he puts that blame too on Meher. He has grown up seeing his father blaming his mother for every problem and his mother chup chap taking it. Meher might have retorted, which would have opened cracks in their relation
@AshaNegi even I am curious to see how Meher fell for Abeer who is so much egoistic. Aisa kya huaπŸ˜†πŸ˜†
@ratna Abeer in dirty mode is what we get this week it seems by the way epi are turning up. πŸ˜†
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Yeah, good review and I agree, I think all those three were my favourite scenes yesterday!
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Posted: 9 years ago
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I liked his Mom's talk. If Abeer had 1% brain Meher has he would have realized something 😑
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