Dirty Abeer, Concerned Nissar, Shrewd Rati

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Yesterday once again the feminist in me flared up. Because Abeer was that dirty yesterday. When a concerned Nissar tells him he should not do things to give wind to office gossip, he does exactly that. He was so happy to know that the office is thinking Meher is falling for his charms. Like the old hindi movies. Guy can stalk a girl and girl is supposed to fall for him. Reason guy loves her. A girl has no right to say " no" to such love. Really. First Abeer need to behave himself. What all dirty games he played with Meher yesterday. First with words and then nudging and pushing. It is better for Abeer to remember Meher is not his property. She is not his wife, but his ex-wife and he has no right over her life. He literally insulted Meher in the party.

I liked Nissar. Like a genuine concerned friend he warned Abeer. That shows irrespective of being Abeer's friend he is Meher's friend too. And Abeer's ego simply couldn't take that.
But the interesting and funny part of yesterday was Rati. This girl appears simple, but she is shrewd πŸ˜†πŸ˜†πŸ˜†. The way she told Nissar people are gossiping about Abeer and Meher. It was so good. She herself is not confident when Nissar is around her emotions wont show up. So to hide those she tells she don't want to be in the eye of gossip like Meher and Abeer. What a way girl. πŸ˜†πŸ˜†

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: shruthiravi

Yesterday once again the feminist in me flared up. Because Abeer was that dirty yesterday. When a concerned Nissar tells him he should not do things to give wind to office gossip, he does exactly that. He was so happy to know that the office is thinking Meher is falling for his charms. Like the old hindi movies. Guy can stalk a girl and girl is supposed to fall for him. Reason guy loves her. A girl has no right to say " no" to such love. Really. First Abeer need to behave himself. What all dirty games he played with Meher yesterday. First with words and then nudging and pushing. It is better for Abeer to remember Meher is not his property. She is not his wife, but his ex-wife and he has no right over her life. He literally insulted Meher in the party.

These kinds of things irritate me too.I mean I was shocked when abeer was happy hearibg that the office is gossiping about him and meher,seriously dude she was your wife way back and you should not let poeple talk about her in such ways or atleast about yourself.I would not say he was dirty but his actions oroves that he wants to embaress meher infront of poeple,Whatever happened in thier past but abeer's actions cannot be justified,speacially the dance in the precape

I liked Nissar. Like a genuine concerned friend he warned Abeer. That shows irrespective of being Abeer's friend he is Meher's friend too. And Abeer's ego simply couldn't take that.
I like nissar he is one of my fav. Characters in the show,he is simple and sensible,he does not have that male ego in him,he geuinely cares about meher and I like the way he always advices abeer to be in his limits or not do something which would harm meher's image,Nissar is a true friend
But the interesting and funny part of yesterday was Rati. This girl appears simple, but she is shrewd πŸ˜†πŸ˜†πŸ˜†. The way she told Nissar people are gossiping about Abeer and Meher. It was so good. She herself is not confident when Nissar is around her emotions wont show up. So to hide those she tells she don't want to be in the eye of gossip like Meher and Abeer. What a way girl. πŸ˜†πŸ˜†
I like her character,but her lack of confidence infront of nissar is a bit too much🀣.But all in all she is nice

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Totally agree with you
Seriously bang on post

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Posted: 9 years ago
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I love reading your reviews! They are sensible and insightful πŸ˜ƒ
I totally agree with what you said about Abheer. His batadmeezi is getting on
my nerves😑 I wish his parents slap him once and try to install some manners
in him, they way he is behaving with meher is utterly disgusting. I just wish he is shown a
mirror before it is too late, he will regret it a lot later.


Nissar is one of my favourite characters on the show, he is a nice guy who is showing
genuine concern for Meher 😊

I sort of like Rati, she is a but shy but I like the fact that she is not gossiping about
MehBeer like others...
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Posted: 9 years ago
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😊shruti,
i couldn't even rewatch yesterday's episode either,abeer is not in his senses.and y'day epi showed his main problem:he HAS NOT accepted their divorce,emotionally and psychologically,for him,meher is still his wife:from addressing her to nissar as 'ur bhabhi' to all that nudging and pushing and his determination to dance with her..on top of that,he's too much drunk,like his mom said,the past 8 years made him a total drunkard.

and poor meher is bound by her professional ties to all these weird situations.and she had to drink all those glasses of beer/wine[and i was afraid if she'd become talli again like in the past,glad that she didn't.]abeer has no idea how much meher is getting hurt by his antics,he doesn't even care.
[she should give him a tight slap in private at least.]
hope nissar continues to be a good friend to both meher and abeer.riti is quite sensible.but she becomes little carefree and shy when it comes to nissar.

shruti,all these things make me wonder,why abeer never tried to find out where meher was in the past 8 years,seeing his behaviour now,its not tough to guess that he can't detach himself from meher,so WHY he never visited her house?or her?or was it bcoz he had no clue where meher was in the past 8 years??

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Posted: 9 years ago
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To me it seems like Abeer sees this as a chance to embarrass Meher in front of everybody to the extent that she will probably leave the channel on her own which is what he wants at the moment πŸ€”
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Great post! I agree that Abeer's behaviour was quite disgusting in yesterday's episode. He seems to have espoused the philosophy, "offense is the best defense," as it's pretty clear by now that his devil-may-care attitude is all a cover to hide his tender, broken heart. I think he's trying too hard to be like his dad, cold and ruthless, when it's clear that's not who he is and that is what makes him so deeply unhappy. I guess he had a brief chance when he was with Meher to be himself and was happy then but the way they separated appears to have left him feeling like he was wrong to trust anyone, and that everything was a power-thing for Meher. That's why he is trying to beat her at what he thinks is her own game by constantly manipulating and blackmailing her, using the secret of their past as leverage.
But why do I suspect this is all leading to a major blow for Abeer? He believes he is winning all the petty battles and that is making him cocky but in truth he has no idea how deep Meher's emotional maturity runs. She may be affected by his antics on a day-to-day basis but also seems to have made peace much better with their break-up. The way I read her, she knows she loves him and is not running away from that fact (unlike Abeer himself) but she also seems to have a rock-solid reason why they can't be together, why love was not enough. We are yet to discover what the major reason for their break-up was, but seeing the way Abeer treats her when he is insecure/unhappy, it's not hard to imagine where the cracks started. Being a highly intelligent, mature and independent woman, I can't imagine her tolerating this kind of torture day in and day out, no matter how much she loved him. In the end, Abeer is only feeling cocky because Meher chooses to remain silent and take the high road. It won't take much for him to crumble to pieces!

I loved the way Nissar was trying to look out for both his friends. He is such a great foil to Abeer, the calm friend who tries to stop Abeer's impulses because he can foresee his regret. Their friendship is a treat to watch! I also loved how artless forthcoming Rati is with Nissar. She may look mousey and stay quiet, but clearly she observes everything! πŸ˜‰
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Agree with u. Abeer is being so immature. He is irritating me now.πŸ₯±
I like Nissar's concern but I m afraid is Nissar still in love with Meher? It might create a problem in future.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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@Asha Negi Fan yes Nissar I had said in earlier review. He is not a show stopper, but then once you know him, you will like him
@ratna Abeer didn't to try to see where Meher was in past 8 years because of his ego. He became a drunkard, but went ahead in his career. Alchohol was his way of showing he had got over Meher. Just because he couldn't face the pain, he took refuge in alchohol. His way of escapism and showing the world divorce has done nothing to him.
Now also he is doing the same. It is he who has not got over the divorce, but he wants to show to the world Meher is affected in his presence. Though Meher has not gotten over him, she doesn't wear her heart on the sleeve and know how to handle herself in the professional environment.
@shyams his idea is to disgrace Meher in front of the society. To tell the world Meher is a crap lady not the qualified CEO she looks or acts.
@Saman this guy needs a big shocker and that too at the earliest. Else he will destroy himself as well as others who are really concerned about him and that includes Meher.
@arial I am not sure Nissar loves Meher or not. But he is genuine in every way. Even if he loves her I don't think he is going to go crossing any boundary to have affair with her, neither Meher looks that type. Only issue can be Abeer seeing Nissar's concern can accuse him of having an affair with Meher which can deeply hurt and affect Nissar a lot and their friendship too. Seeing Abeer's ways I wont be surprised to tarnish Meher he might use this way also
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Yeah Abeer was kind of mean.
But I get the feeling that he feels Meher betrayed him somehow. Wasn't there some story with Meher getting 10cr from his father? Maybe Abeer was made to believe that Meher only married him for money and was paid off by his father?
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