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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: loveleen12

Honestly speaking it sometimes seems as if Meher and Abeer haven't even matured sometimes. Not all ex-partners need to have a bitter relationship. Sure they realized that they weren't made to be with each other, but surely they both know that neither Meher nor Abeer is completely evil. They aren't even cordial with each other, that I think was the problem. They both are so egoistic that they don't want to understand what the other person's life is devoid of nor do they want to express the lacking to the other.

i do agree with that😳
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Posted: 9 years ago
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You do make a very good and valid point ! and these lines are on point !


The submissive nature of his mother in his parent's relation have given Abeer a superiority complex and he might have expected the same submissiveness from Meher which she might have been unwilling to give. Hence cracks came in their relation.

But without knowing the exact reason for their divorce, I can't really blame it on either of the mothers. Just because both the women, and by that I mean Abeer's and Meher's mothers, tolerated the men in their lives, doesn't mean that it affected Meher's and Abeer's relationship in a massive scale, but I do agree with you, it might have affected them slightly! Both the fathers seem looney and highly opinionated and used to getting their way too ! so you never know !
so you can't really say for sure cause I still think Abeer and Meher are not together because of Kuber, I know but it's just a weird hunch !
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Posted: 9 years ago
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@steph I told one of the fault lines and it is not intentional. Unconsciously we children do take some part of our parent's relations to our relations also, because that is what we see naa.
If someone had guided them, or understood the fault lines they can be corrected. And when oil is poured over such crack lines by people like Abeer's father or Meher's bua crack widen.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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bang on post even i feel somehow it is the mothers fault

coz parents are the ones who become pillars for their children when needed
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Posted: 9 years ago
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very interesting analysis @shruthi! I agree with your points, those could very well be contributing factors to Meher and Abeer's failed marriage! There are many reasons a couple's relationship doesn't work out and ends in divorce, and I hope the writers of the show have considered this and thought about the deep and realistic reasons as you have.

based on your analysis and the some of the other posts on this thread, looks like Meher and Abeer both have more growing up to do before they're able to have a functional romantic relationship with each other and I can only hope the writers write this well. I hope they show us some amazing character development that deals with the issues of why they didn't work out 8 years ago and why or how they would work out now. I want them to make it realistic and make us believe that yes Meher and Abeer have both changed and this is how they've changed, what they've changed from, and why they've changed, and this is why they will work out this time.

I also agree with what you said about timing. We're assuming they got married straight out of college, and at that time there are plenty of reasons as to why their personalities clashed, etc. They were young, they were probably trying to figure our their own lives and career paths as well. And it just didn't work out, but time changes people, and I'm excited to see those changes (even though it looks like Abeer hasn't changed at all lol. Maybe when his immaturity dies down a bit? Although I do think Abeer's behaviour is like this because he didn't get closure from this relationship, like he said to Sasha he left her in 2 mins, but him lashing out at Meher like this clearly says he didn't get the closure he needed but that's for another post lol)

anyways, great post!
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Posted: 9 years ago
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@insane love I also hope they show realistic development in the characters. I mean the journey has to be shown well. But this is where most Hindi TV shows fail also due to TRP pressure. They starts showing something to please TRP aunites 😭
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: shruthiravi

@insane love I also hope they show realistic development in the characters. I mean the journey has to be shown well. But this is where most Hindi TV shows fail also due to TRP pressure. They starts showing something to please TRP aunites 😭



😭 I really hope not! But the show's only just begun so the writers could fall into the trp pressure at any time T___T that would be such a huge waste of a good story and good characters... we can only hope the writers and producers stick to their story and TRPs remain decent to good.
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