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Posted: 9 years ago
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Well yesterday's epi for me was cup of mistakes. I mean it was fine for Kuber Malhotra to praise the girl who broke his record. But it was not fine on his part to compare her with his son. Abeer's dad berated him publicly to the core yesterday. Whether in speech indicating he is good for nothing having everything, while Meher without having much have achieved a lot.
Our society's hypocrisy on placing too much importance on marks was to be seen yesterday. yes marks are needed. But marks alone don't help you survive in the world. Life skills are also needed. It was humiliating scene when Kuber mentions his son's marks in front of Meher. Parents when the child don't meet their expectation don't leave a stone unturned to hurt them in every possible manner and tell them indirectly you are useless and didn't meet my expectation.
Ok now from Kuber Malhotra's mistake to Abeer's mistake. It was his dad who hurt him, not Meher. Meher had nothing to do in baap-beta ka fight. Poor girl inadvertently ended up landing in the middle. To take his ire on his father Abeer has decided to target Meher. And humiliate her by spiking her drink.
He couldn't stand up to his father and question him, he doesn't have the courage to throw away the seat his dad bought for him and go and pursue his passion for music on his own, but targets the easy prey to satisfy his ego.
For him it is Meher's mistake to score that much marks, not his dad's mistake to humiliate him. Abeer do have a super inflated ego and it is very clear from yesterday's epi.

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Bang on post shruti
Totally agree with you
It's mistake of his dad, but according to abheer's point of view meher is responsible for his insult, so now he made a big mistake
Poor girl Meher
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Posted: 9 years ago
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😊exactly shruti,abeer's dad's reaction and taunting abeer was quite typical and expected.

but abeer doesn't have the courage to face his dad rather drags poor meher into this.this might have happened at the time of their marriage too,maybe.

but why do u think meher stormed into the studio like that when his show was ending??was she offended due to abeer mentioning this incident??
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Exactly!! Very apt point dear 😳
Through these fbs , we can clearly see what type of man abeer is. He was so naive and impulsive and inflicted all his pain to someone else(meher).
There are so many people he could have punished for his fate but he chose meher!! Why so?? 😲
And its probably meher who brought a change in him,in FBs he looks calmed and happy with her,may be thinking that his misconceptions about her were fake but after leaving her everything is back to case 1. The college abeer has not changed at all, he still is looking for that comfort and care he's been looking for but unfortunately he cant trust meher again due to some reasons!!
Meher is more serious and adult than abeer while abeer enjoys life and thats what brought equilibrium to their relationship.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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@ratna the storming would be because he is gonna explain what happened after that spiked drink. Meher simply couldn't take it as it might have been humiliating at that point also.
People like Abeer just forget that just like them another people also have image. Meher was a studious girl. She had no intention to go to party or parties doesn't interest her. So to do something in a party which the poor girl wont normally do, how bad she will feel. And this man is bringing back those bad memories to her once again.
That drinking cola showed Meher's naivety, small town girl's little knowledge on the ways of city life.
@anael yes Meher would have been the person who bought some change in him, but everything about him might not have changed. Once married he might have gone back to pointing fingers at her for everything that went wrong with him. Maybe Abeer's dad used Meher in business discussion while berating him again that his DIL is doing what his son should be doing. Anything could have happened.
I wont say Abeer has not changed. He has changed. He owns up accountability in Elton Sir's case. But then for a man like Abeer it will be a slow process. Accepting his own mistakes.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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i agree with u. I too dont like his father comparing him with a studious Meher.
most parents do that yaar
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Hey yep I agreed with u he shouldn't insult Abeer Infront of everyone n say all this he is just urghhh most of parents do this n made their an child jelly when they should make them understand with love also his father mistake but now naughty Abeer taking revenge from Meher that's hehehe awhh poor Meher but now I m eager what gonna happen...😛
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: _celestial_

i agree with u. I too dont like his father comparing him with a studious Meher.

most parents do that yaar

@ bold

I hate it 🤢
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