Unintentional mistake- Abeer's guilt trip

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Unintentional mistake. That was what today's epi for me. Life is full of them. And today Abeer got the shock of his life. That too from the person he detests most. Meher really scored a point yesterday when she reminded him of Elton sir.
But what I loved was what happened after that. Abeer as described by Meher runs away from responsibility. Really. The man we saw yesterday had no running away. He pines through memory every second. Goes to visit sir's wife. Unable to meet her eye to eye writes a letter and comes back. There was pain all along. Guilt for not being there for the man who spotted the talent in him, who encouraged him and who made him who he is.
And I would say Meher too conducted herself properly when he came back after the guilt trip. She just stood by. She just allowed him to speak whatever he wanted to. How perfectly she understood Abeer in that scene when she silently listened to his " Thank you"
And Abeer for once he has sobered up. Though it is initial days it is time he starts thinking about Meher's action. He calls her opportunist, a woman who should not be trusted. Really. Why such a woman should take care of the person who was responsible for her ex-Husband's success. Why should she offer respect to that man, especially when Abeer berates her so much. Why?. That why should start in his head, only then he might be able to realize what exactly went wrong.
Actually yesterday epi showed contrasting actions from both of them, against the perceived personality of their better half.

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Posted: 9 years ago
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I completely agree with you , it is time for Abeer to understand why Meher did that an get into the understanding ! I hope he does!
Loved your post btw 🤗
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Shruti,finally ur review,was checking the forum page from morning.

Ya,meher finally scored a point when she reminded abeer of Elton sir.but abeer is exactly how meher described him,unable to face the situation, he ran away leaving a letter. If things were different and he had meher by his side,he would not have.
Abeers dad and mehers bua are of the same mould.the studio scene and meher watching him expressing his torment through music was a poignant scene.she wants to reach out to him,but the walls that they made btw them are not fragile,but it has chances of melting down.meher indeed took the first step unknowingly though, towards mending their broken relation a cup of coffee (seriously,I thought it was not meher LOL.)
He is fidgety, nervous while expressing his gratitude, and meher remains silent throughout the conversation.
The slow version of mere nishaan song is gud.as the member arya suggested yesterday, when they show mehers POV,a female version of the song would be apt.in yesterday's episode, we got to see the soft side of the arrogant abeer.
PRECAP:after an emotional episode, we get a HILARIOUS precap.abeer getting all frantic and panicky inside the stuck lift while meher chuckles away(meher has a beautiful smile,but she smiles rarely.)
Yesterday in my reply,I mentioned somebody needs to lock mehbeer in a room,chalo lift hi sahi.the lift mechanic can take his own time to come, hai na??

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Posted: 9 years ago
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wow! what an awesome review of the episode,..

Haven't watched the episode yet...read the WU.. but I can say that ,

Their entangled relationship has various shades .. but one thing is clear that their love for each other is still alive .. 😳 .

will edit my comment after watching the episode ..
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Posted: 9 years ago
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No Ratna you cant call his leaving a letter and going running away. Sometimes there are things you cant tell face to face. But then owning up the mistake, he clearly does that in the letter means he can own up things. Maybe not the way Meher has expected or the society expects. But then the good for nothing tag from his dad from childhood would have dent his self confidence. I mean when you are bombarded always with such negativity, your ego would grow, not willing to accept any mistake even if it is genuine. Because you feel if you accept mistake you are agreeing to your parent's view of good for nothing.
Deprived life of Meher along with her trust deficit due to her father and good for nothing tag by Abeer's father I would say have moulded their personalities which has played a significant role in their break up.
Parents marital relation plays an important role in a child's life, so does parent's trust. Here if you look marital life at both homes were not pleasant. Meher's father left his mother and Abeer's father berates his mother in front of son. She is the cause of Abeer's poor performance in school. No wonder Abeer has also got a shade of that, putting blame on Meher for all the problems.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: shruthiravi

No Ratna you cant call his leaving a letter and going running away. Sometimes there are things you cant tell face to face. But then owning up the mistake, he clearly does that in the letter means he can own up things. Maybe not the way Meher has expected or the society expects. But then the good for nothing tag from his dad from childhood would have dent his self confidence. I mean when you are bombarded always with such negativity, your ego would grow, not willing to accept any mistake even if it is genuine. Because you feel if you accept mistake you are agreeing to your parent's view of good for nothing.

Deprived life of Meher along with her trust deficit due to her father and good for nothing tag by Abeer's father I would say have moulded their personalities which has played a significant role in their break up.
Parents marital relation plays an important role in a child's life, so does parent's trust. Here if you look marital life at both homes were not pleasant. Meher's father left his mother and Abeer's father berates his mother in front of son. She is the cause of Abeer's poor performance in school. No wonder Abeer has also got a shade of that, putting blame on Meher for all the problems.

Thanks for replying but no shruti,I didn't call his leaving a letter and going 'running away',what I meant is acc to meher,he's running away.I don't find him a coward as such,leaving a letter is no running away people have different ways of expressing things.
But u are right about both influenced by their parents' marriage,abeer has inherited his dad's trait of blaming his wife for anything and everything and since meher has seen her mom silently tolerating her father,she refuses to be anything like that and counters blames and fights for her point,something which abeer is not used to seeing in his house.this conflict might have been utilised to break their marriage by abeer's dad in all probabilities.
PS:how did u find the precap??
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Precap look hilarious. 😆
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Meher probably brought the point in about Elton sir in a spiteful way. But Abeer's reactions to the news show how disappointed he is with himself. And added to that how Mrs D'Souza had no complaints in what she said and was just glad that Abeer made it there atleast then ... all that must have made Abeer feel all the more guilty. And as expected Abeer lets out all his emotions through his music.

Despite all the ill-will between Meher and Abeer, its nice to see Meher offer Abeer the coffee and later Abeer going and thanking Meher for what she did for Elton sir.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Awesome review and I completely agree with you . Can't wait for today's episode though, precap looks hilarious!
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Great post guys. I absolutely loved yesterdays episode. Felt Abeers pain when he was at the grave. Awesome precap tho after the sad episode. Looking forward today!!
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