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Dazzler

Posted: 14 years ago

#61

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

Karen why is it that for archu these excuses r given that other people can decide if they accept or no ..............its upto Dharmu to decide whether he will accept or no , its upto Shravni to decide whether she shud come back from the station or no ...................yes indeed they have options but does this absolve Archu from her hypocrisy that she made false promises to a girl and never mentioned the fact that she wud aLWAYS hang around butting in her life ..............or the fact that cleverly she decided to give resignation letter on a personal platform ..Dharmeshs home ?

Was it really so simple as that ?That she felt MORALLY resonsible since the rumors were related to her and she is resigning ?Then how come she didnt resign before Manav was sacked ? How come she didnt resign in the office the moment Prakash was sacked ?

Her entire behaviour is clearly a strategy to put pressure on a hard nut like Dharmesh to crack into taking Manav back .

If Manav fought prakash on personal level so be it but I cannot help agreeing with Dharmesh that since it was in company premises , since it was NOT in self defence but due to pure passion and anger from HIS Side , by ignoring options like complaining to management etc , Manav desrves being sacked . No company will allow this .

Regarding Manav I have made a post .Read it , have given my reasons here .

Kools I did say she was wrong in handing in her resignation at the dinner. Of course they all have choices. I wont feel bad if Dharmesh fires her but what i see as correct is her reason for defending Manav which is, you fired him because he defended my character. Now to clear my conscience, I will resign. She did not do that to benefit herself, she is actually jeopardising herself as she is the sole breadwinner in her family. How can she be called manipulative. Shravani's manipulation is for her own personal gain. Archana is not, should she be fired she will loose income.

Kool we will never ever see eye to eye when you compare Archana and Shravani. They are poles apart (for me)

I have given my response on Manav.

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SaffyFlower

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Dazzler

Posted: 14 years ago

#62

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

Totally disagreed . It is INdian men who demand and demand from bahus side to fill coffers of their son and settle him for life and hence the hunt for RICH bahus . Indian society is completely for sharing the riches of the bahu .

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I have seen hundreds of cases where the husband , like a son , manages wealth of rich father in law when wife is an only child . Literary books in Bengali literature etc r often based on this social system .

Also disagree - Have highlited -only those who r ok with taking dowry - agreed there are tons who take dowry,but those who r against dowry,will not accept a penny that benefits them,most do not mind their children or wife enjoyin the FIL's riches as gifts

Manav is not the kind who will take dowry,v clear from his character.He wud not have taken a flat or car if the Ks had offered it either.Archu's jewellery for him,was her own wealth only

And moving into a flat totally which is above their own standard of living completely - no way.

And KoolDi,ur post makes it seem as if Manav wants sachu to go to govt marathi school and wear shabby clothes.That is not true - he will NOT deny the child benefiting from its grandpa,good school,a/c in the house,books,toys,education fund,property etc. but Manav refuses it for himself to benefit.He is not even tellin his parents to say no,bcos he knows that if Shravni had married sachin ,savita wud have happily done exactly this.He will also not object if Shravni got clothes and car etc for herself.after she was travellin by car from her dad to go meet her cousin etc.

Edited by SaffyFlower - 14 years ago

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star_wars

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Dazzler

Posted: 14 years ago

#63

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

Karen forget about Girish dont think so literally coz Girish is given prolonged absences by CVS maybe due to inaccesibility of the actor .Once they sent him to the States .Now they arent showing him at all . They will show in conversation that Girish was coming and going all along . Just see how they didnt show Vandu visiting Manav .

No Kool, I wont forget about him because it is his money we are talking about.

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koolsadhu1000

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Stunner

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Posted: 14 years ago

#64

Gm theres a difference . . When she gave Ajit a chance Ajit had met her , apologised , SAVED her instead of standing and watching her being hauled off as a prostitute , she had sEEN the difference after Ajits personal honest confession of Gods whiplash . . She had met Manju since her return from Banglore and manju had not changed .Instead , Manju had worsened . She was nasty , bitter to her from DAY ONE .She had shown open jealousy of her success and new job .Archna had tried to placate her and had clearly seen MANJU HADNT CHANGED . . Ajit was helped as he had repented and helping him was in a way helping Vandu . . But why did she support her foolish mom in going to help Manju when clearly Manju hadnt changed ? She cud read Shravnis mind that day and she cudnt read Manjus sudden welcoming of Sulochna is it ? . This is not about her being nice and giving chance to all on a positive level at all .It is Archu who has constantly shielded Manju .Archu and Sulo . For instance she fired Rasika but defended Savita saying Savitas abuse was no abuse at all . . Wel ok , I too am for the firing scene but I hope Manju throws her hypocrisy about certain things in her face too . The negative characters r used for this purpose . . I never liked Archu when she was weak .But Archu is using her new found strength for not so good purposes .unfair purposes . The resignation and this flirting with Manav is a prme example of it .

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koolsadhu1000

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Posted: 14 years ago

#65

Originally posted by: star_wars

No Kool, I wont forget about him because it is his money we are talking about.

Didnt understand .I said forget coz its obviously not shown by creatives for time purpose . They show in talks or flashback .

And whats the money point ?Didnt get u .

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koolsadhu1000

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Stunner

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Posted: 14 years ago

#66

Originally posted by: gaurimisha
Kool,u posted on Manav which looked more like a post on Shravani.😆

Oh well,they r nt exactly husband n wife.And if manav is pushing something down her throat,why the hell is she tolerating!!!!

Leave girl,if u hav any brains.Why bother with a cold fish like Manav!!!!!

U guys have a wonderful excuse for any nonsense Archu and Manav do .Why is Shravni accepting ?

Then how come u guys say poor Manav Poor Archu ?they too got what they ACCEPTED , no one forced it down their throats .

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Tanyaz

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Posted: 14 years ago

#67

I don't think he will stop Shravani or sachin to go to the big flat if they really want to go . Shravani is the baby's only living parent .

It is her right to decide which school he goes to ..if she has resources she can use them and it will be the right thing to do .

But what manav will not do is move into the flat himself ....

It will be emotionaly draining for him as he feels unattatched to Shravani and her family ....he will be very uncomfortabel and he too has a right to say No to something that makes him so uncomfortable ...

This marriage ( that has not even happened ) to him was not the regular marriage ..It was only about him taking care of Shravani and her baby ...that's it . There was no love or anything emotional involved ever ...

If Shravani can take care of herself and take zimmedari of herself and her baby better than manav can ( I am sure she can ) then Manav should not have any objection...

I don't think he is even interested in marrying her ...He is only interested in taking care of her and her baby . If he wanted legal guardianship of sachu then he would have been shown going to Girish when Shravani told savita in a threatening tone that ' get me married if you want me happy ' .

She is the one who is interested in looking like his wife , marrying him ....she too has her reasons ...

But if someone is not interested in your love , your feelings , your wealth , your life style ....then just let him be ..

Time to move on .....

And this has nothing to do with Archana ...this is just between maanv and Shravani .

Edited by Tanyaz - 14 years ago

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star_wars

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Dazzler

Posted: 14 years ago

#68

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

Totally disagreed . It is INdian men who demand and demand from bahus side to fill coffers of their son and settle him for life and hence the hunt for RICH bahus . Indian society is completely for sharing the riches of the bahu .

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I have seen hundreds of cases where the husband , like a son , manages wealth of rich father in law when wife is an only child . Literary books in Bengali literature etc r often based on this social system .

Agree with you. Even though it is a fact I know many families that do not pressure their bahu families for dowry Back to PR, Manav never accepted dowry. He always blasts him step-mom for demanding jewellery from Archana's family. I remember many times how Savita greed put Archana's family in tension. Manav himself bought some piece of jewellery she wanted and when she found out, she abused Archana. That I admire him for.

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Tanyaz

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Posted: 14 years ago

#69

I think savita will become greedy again like before . Just like she brainwashed Shravani against Archu , Shravani will probably brain wash Savita and make her greedy again ...

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star_wars

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Dazzler

Posted: 14 years ago

#70

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

Didnt understand .I said forget coz its obviously not shown by creatives for time purpose . They show in talks or flashback .

And whats the money point ?Didnt get u .

I was just saying that Shravani's dad is rich, it is her dad who is buying this grand flat and car. It is his money that she wants to use.

Well seeing that we are talking about flashbacks, I wont be surprised if Shibu shows us Girish visiting tomorrow in flashbacks😡 😆😆

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