Pandya Store|Episode Discussion #227 - Page 11

Originally posted by: deeps07

I would rather say Ravi should just get out if this shithole of being Heeras wife..Arnav or no Arnav, she is a great human to survive herself..

Raavi*

Lol🤣

Originally posted by: Mountains_Lakes

True. They are true. But real working women and (men) too manage to work through those problems. Shiva never said she's not allowed to work.

But she should have had professional boundaries. Similar to how Shiva should had boundaries and how wrong he was to have that durdasha near him last year. Amongst many other things.

Shiva used disha to take out feelings from raavi it was much worse than whatever professional boundaries raavi has crossed

I didn't even bother I was like Shiva is different he is twisted so are his ways and the all is fair in love and war and I closed my eyes but turns out Shiva is just like any weak man and there is nothing special about him

And about the wrong doings of raavi the assassination started much before that , motel accusations . Raavi was dropped off late , hid her injury , didn't tell him about job etc etc happened after he accused her and then refused to apologise you know what it showed ? Ki mein sorry bolke ehsaan karraha tha tum deserve tu karti nahi thi because I still think there is something going on between you two. Had he apologized properly and then raavi would have continued with these violations of professional boundaries maybe I would have given benefit of doubt to shiva

People are so easily forgetting that before this accusation there was already an accusation which was never properly addressed actually addressed in the worst way!

When you call out mistakes of raavi it's like telling raavi oh why didn't she quit her job jab ek baar shakk hua tha , ek baar bhi shakk kyn hua aur hua tu aise mohalle ke saamne zaleel karna zaroori tha?

Raavi said mujhe Arnav ke pass jaana because Arnav was the certified person to deal with this

Wasn't he ?

Mature thing to do actually

When raavi told Shiva to study did she say chalo mein tumko padhaaongi no she looked for a teacher and that too female and a very pretty one and told Shiva to go there

Common sense ki baat hai

Woah! What just happened in the EDT!!

I left last night at page 145 in the previous EDT and we are already in page 13 in the next one?

Achanak se itne saare activity kahan se aaya? Jo bhi ho lage raho!

At this time, I am more worried about child abuse, child neglect and child endangerment shown in this series. Its just appalling. Atleast adults can defend themselves or fight, go their separate ways but what will a child do? Where will he go? Also ITV would rather show the abuse than a solution which is not there, no child services, no foster care. Heck a person like Shweta is not even sent to jail. If child abuse cannot send a person to jail, don’t know what they are waiting for, murder of the child??😕

Originally posted by: Anushka_31

Raavi*

Lol🤣

Thanks for correcting my spelling..i sometimes miss checking the spellings while typing..🤪

Originally posted by: mpks1

Woah! What just happened in the EDT!!

I left last night at page 145 in the previous EDT and we are already in page 13 in the next one?

Achanak se itne saare activity kahan se aaya? Jo bhi ho lage raho!

At this time, I am more worried about child abuse, child neglect and child endangerment shown in this series. Its just appalling. Atleast adults can defend themselves or fight, go their separate ways but what will a child do? Where will he go? Also ITV would rather show the abuse than a solution which is not there, no child services, foster care. Heck a person like Shweta is not even sent to jail. If child abuse cannot send a person to jail, don’t know what they are waiting for, murder of the child??😕

What else do you expect from this PH who called all the chidl actors during 2nd wave of covid when the set in itself had become a hotspot of covid

Its the parents fault anyway..

Originally posted by: deeps07

Yes..he took her to that lodge..that makes him stupid..his mistake..not a criminal to be never trusted..and maybe ravi too shouldnt have gone with him..but she didnt know what kind of place she will be taken to..that she will need more men to support..

I wrote abt her reason to go to Arnav after the shop molestation attack..why wouldnt she..isnt he the official that can help him..and lets be honest..shiva was not saying lets find him to settle matter..he wanted to fight and she didnt want him to fight and get jailed..she is already too much harassed to go thru that too..its obvious..people heard her stop shiva..call bail buddhi..but never wanted to hear her say the reason..but she did say that too..that he will increase the problem with his hot-headed behaviour..and its a fact..krish had already given that creep..she wanted the root cause of all her troubles to be cleared. And its Arnav who can help her in that..just to make shiva feel.good, she cant keep pampering him by giving in to everything he does in his impulsiveness..seeking help from an official over ur spouse for a crime happened on the wife doesnt make the wife wrong..if anything shiva should have done was support her..be with her..rather than sulk seeing her with that guy..

Yeah that whole day she got harassed by the creep there was a fight she didnt want shiva to know coz he would be upset and when he did find out he wanted to go fight the store manager who already took the creep guys side. She called him a hothead which he is and he has called himself that so whats the shock just another excuse to bash her when he insults her by calling her gaderi which is more offensive. Then she chose to go to arnav coz the root cause of the issue was the hacking so what is wrong in that. Shiv as usual got mad and told krish to not marry lol then later he realized he should talk to her but then instead of calling her he followed her and instead of calling her in the motel he got all mad heart broken did his crying drama and then humiliated her in front of all. Raavi asked him right there and then why didnt he tell her he was there he could have helped and he was all shocked silent lol She might have made the mistake of not informing anyone but she did pause to think about it but time was of the essence. Also suppose the hacker lived in some respectable neighborhood or office building would that have been better and permission for raavi to go been granted by some lol Also who says the police would have helped in time or caught the guy? First time raavi saved herself without shiva but some just find faults in her not looking at the trauma she suffered but only at the supposed wrongs shiva was done for lol she didnt insult him she just told him to backoff and went to get help from the guy looking for the hacker and all this happened in one day but for shiva his wife get harassed and is seen going to a hotel room but he jumps to the most disgusting conclusion and instead of asking her inside in private he makes a public spectacle of her once again.

Originally posted by: manny136

No she has done super shady things and posted regarding alice and then promptly deletes them. One time alice posted a reel from star parivaar game show with the cast on shinys bday and kd wasnt there and she got so mad so when she saw kd was eating dinner with is cousins she actually posted pics of that and said how glad she is he with with the right people. This is a fact. The one time there was visarjan at akshays house and all got mad alice was there and no one saw kd again she bashed that and then when segment came she was all gaga over the fact kd was there all forgotten that she was mad alice might have gone alone to akshays house and how dare she do that.

Please don't defend her if she has done these kinds of super shady things and then pretends she never has. She has even bashed alice for liking her new look in her initial intv post leap then again she deletes them its her MO.

Sbka fangirling diff hota hai.. whenever she got upset she posts things but others never supported her in that ulta we told her only ki it's not right...it's just for that time being unko kuch achaa nhi lgta she posts that as a upset fan later on deletes tht....

Also Akshay ke visarjan ke time pr unhone kuch nhi kha tha she was the only one at that time who told it's ok and maybe kanwar is there, she didn't tweeted anything at that time baaki time ka i m agreeing, but it's the same way when kanwar was at shiny's place during Diwali u people bashed him but later on alice bhi thi wha lolsss...akshat visarjan pr only few certified haters were spreading venom...so exaggerate krke mt bolo

She didn't bashed Alice for liking new looks she may said tht alice is only supporting this new look so what can we say...raavi ckt pr suit nhi ho rha puraani wali raavi chaiye n all her words can be harsh but definitely she is not a hater of Alice

Originally posted by: mpks1

Woah! What just happened in the EDT!!

I left last night at page 145 in the previous EDT and we are already in page 13 in the next one?

Achanak se itne saare activity kahan se aaya? Jo bhi ho lage raho!

At this time, I am more worried about child abuse, child neglect and child endangerment shown in this series. Its just appalling. Atleast adults can defend themselves or fight, go their separate ways but what will a child do? Where will he go? Also ITV would rather show the abuse than a solution which is not there, no child services, foster care. Heck a person like Shweta is not even sent to jail. If child abuse cannot send a person to jail, don’t know what they are waiting for, murder of the child??😕

True Prema. I slept at pg 143 and got up to see nee EDT with 23 pages. 😁😁😁😁.

Jadoo hsi Bashing ka

Originally posted by: manny136

Ok im gonna be saying something very harsh here and its not directed at anyone in particular so don't get all upset. When ppl say raavi made mistakes and this is why shiva reacted like this its starts up this slippery slope thinking that she deserved to be CA by him due to her friendship with another guy. But this isn't the first time he has insinuated this about her and another guy it has happened several time even before the boss guy came into the picture once it was her college pals, then some male model etc and after the motel fiasco he didnt learn his lesson and still kept on suspecting her and then he crossed the line. Raavi said is right he should know what his wife is capable of heck even as just knowing her since childhood he should know what kind of person she is.

Now coming to the serious point when some say she made all these mistakes and made him suspicious and some even say she deserved it due to her actions there is this line crossing in thinking which comes to the same accusations ppl make when a woman is harassed, assaulted, abused, or r**ed. These are the same kind of things one hears when some start victim blaming and questioning the character of the victim. Not saying this is what they think but its starting to come in line with the same kind of thinking and its been disturbing me that some can equate raavis mistakes to what shiva did which is so horrible for a husband to do to his wife and try to trivialize it with excuses like she also did this or she made him question her. Its kind of the same things real life victims are faced with when ppl rather defend the culprit or be bashed. It really bothered me coz this kind of thinking is a disservice to people who regardless of gender have suffered something horrible and they are accused of deserving it. Raavi might be a fictional character but reactions to her humiliation from some have been borderline disturbing to me.

I don't know anyone here is saying or insinuating that Raavi deserved that. She did not. The words Shiva said to her should be condemned. Yesterday's scene was needed.

But the issue here is that here the onus if this whole mess and the status of their relationship is falling only in Shiva. And the few times that I visit here, it's literally everyone here accusing Shiva for everything. The picture it paints is that Shiva has 99-100% fault and Raavi has nothing to do with it. There's lack of balanced views.

And agreed if you feel both should part ways. In real life, that's what should happen. But in fictional ITV world, I want them to realize and grow together. Shiva should I ow how wrong he was. And it is never acceptable. But Raavi should too realize her the reality of their relationship is where it is because she has some fault as well.