Pandya Store | Episode Discussion #191 - Page 87

Originally posted by: Yahvi

I'm getting what you are trying to say & true it's making Raavi's character look more strong & her love for Shiva is shining more..

Actually the thing is writers don't know how to execute & end tracks.. Last track had all the potential for Shiva to realize Raavi's innocence, her love, especially his love for her & longing for her.. In shivi story they have shown things from Raavi's perspective only is what I feel.. She hated him, she tried to make things work for the sake of it, she started liking, her jealousy, her conflicted feelings, her love, her fear of losing her love & then being so in love that for her being his mattered only, wedding track had so much potential but they lost it in bhabhi drama.. In that too it looked like Shiva was only concerned about bhabhi's betrayal.. Writers never gave anything from Shiva's side to Raavi.. If it was in only this track then I would have understood but it's in every track.. They never show anything from Shiva's side towards Raavi.. I don't know the reason behind it but it's causing disconnect from their pairing

That's true..seriously going wrong in terms of shivi story..

Somewhere there should be a balance between a couple..one must not be too giving at all the times..and neither should one be all consuming always..

shiva 2.0 and 3.0 were an all consuming man who just never valued the ravi who had been a giver since she realised shiva did not abandon her in the khandar..love happened much later.. but since the khandar shiva mattered to her..this marrg was accepted by her..

Whereas shiva went through a lot of twists and turns..he always had a voice of just even when he hated ravi as badly as mami.. during their marrg when he plainly hated her..he stood for her on the day of marrg regardless of his feelings for her..he knew his responsibilities.. never hurt her or taunted her for her broken love.. he neither ignored her like she didn't exist for him....there was a bond between them that had been developed since childhood which never wavered even after their marrg..but that lasted until he started questioning his worth..his insecurity destabilised his confidence on their bond..he lost faith in it.. it was a beautiful track..only if they had a proper ending..(idiots..I will never forgive the writers for bringing disha nonsense and mute shiva as the ending for this insecurity track )..Anyways..then began the acknowledgement of love..he understood he has feelings for her..but his bond was still not back to that of trust and knowing..so when ravi was in a questionable situation , shiva easily found that as an excuse to justify his insecurity..he couldn't believe there is any reason she would love him for who he is...and hence shiva 3.0 took our peace of mind for the ivf track..another disastrous writing...now somehow they did good with ravis growth..her trust never wavered since khandar..I have always wondered what makes her think she is lucky to have him..that she is so proud to be in love with him..I think its the very fact from him standing up for her regardless of his feelings at the time of marrg..him never fighting for himself when she insulted and accused him about the kidnapping kaandh ...him unknowingly making her a part of his life and heart even though he is the same person who hated the very essence of her and her family..its something she values..his actions hatred madness everything goes to blind eyes after that...she only sees him for what shiva is..not what shiva does...now shiva 4.0 has come out of his insecurity.. he realises ravis heart is as pure as anything..he feels her love..he acknowledges it..he doesn't know how to revert it all back..how to makeup with her strength..he cares for her..needs her..ready to fight with her..but never letting her leave him..( he fought with her for supporting rishitha when rishitha was leaving ..but when he saw her loosening the gadbandhan knot, he made it clear that he won't let her leave like rishitha)..it looks like he is the only one lucky in that relationship where as ravi had always had to give in this relation..its true until now...but wait for it..she will get her due too..she will be blessed with all the respect and love she deserves from shiva ..shiva is not at all a perfect guy..a very imperfect one..he is taking a lot of time too..but I think he is currently on the right path..he will be there for her when she needs him..

PS.. sorry for this very loooong reply..I dnt knw..I was out the whole day..and suddenly I became all philosophical towards shiva..😆..I can't believe I just justified the man I was ready to put into jail just a track back..

Originally posted by: deeps07

That's true..seriously going wrong in terms of shivi story..

Somewhere there should be a balance between a couple..one must not be too giving at all the times..and neither should one be all consuming always..

shiva 2.0 and 3.0 were an all consuming man who just never valued the ravi who had been a giver since she realised shiva did not abandon her in the khandar..love happened much later.. but since the khandar shiva mattered to her..this marrg was accepted by her..

Whereas shiva went through a lot of twists and turns..he always had a voice of just even when he hated ravi as badly as mami.. during their marrg when he plainly hated her..he stood for her on the day of marrg regardless of his feelings for her..he knew his responsibilities.. never hurt her or taunted her for her broken love.. he neither ignored her like she didn't exist for him....there was a bond between them that had been developed since childhood which never wavered even after their marrg..but that lasted until he started questioning his worth..his insecurity destabilised his confidence on their bond..he lost faith in it.. it was a beautiful track..only if they had a proper ending..(idiots..I will never forgive the writers for bringing disha nonsense and mute shiva as the ending for this insecurity track )..Anyways..then began the acknowledgement of love..he understood he has feelings for her..but his bond was still not back to that of trust and knowing..so when ravi was in a questionable situation , shiva easily found that as an excuse to justify his insecurity..he couldn't believe there is any reason she would love him for who he is...and hence shiva 3.0 took our peace of mind for the ivf track..another disastrous writing...now somehow they did good with ravis growth..her trust never wavered since khandar..I have always wondered what makes her think she is lucky to have him..that she is so proud to be in love with him..I think its the very fact from him standing up for her regardless of his feelings at the time of marrg..him never fighting for himself when she insulted and accused him about the kidnapping kaandh ...him unknowingly making her a part of his life and heart even though he is the same person who hated the very essence of her and her family..its something she values..his actions hatred madness everything goes to blind eyes after that...she only sees him for what shiva is..not what shiva does...now shiva 4.0 has come out of his insecurity.. he realises ravis heart is as pure as anything..he feels her love..he acknowledges it..he doesn't know how to revert it all back..how to makeup with her strength..he cares for her..needs her..ready to fight with her..but never letting her leave him..( he fought with her for supporting rishitha when rishitha was leaving ..but when he saw her loosening the gadbandhan knot, he made it clear that he won't let her leave like rishitha)..it looks like he is the only one lucky in that relationship where as ravi had always had to give in this relation..its true until now...but wait for it..she will get her due too..she will be blessed with all the respect and love she deserves from shiva ..shiva is not at all a perfect guy..a very imperfect one..he is taking a lot of time too..but I think he is currently on the right path..he will be there for her when she needs him..

PS.. sorry for this very loooong reply..I dnt knw..I was out the whole day..and suddenly I became all physiological towards shiva..😆..I can't believe I just justified the man I was ready to put into jail just a track back..

Bold just PS things humei b track k sath flip marna padta hai aur ye toh phir b apna (aur Raavi ka) Shiva hai woh b 4.0 wala jo abhi tak toh sahi jaa rha hai . So koi nahi chalta hai 😆

Rest I second your thoughts. Very well explained.❤️

Originally posted by: mpks1

SBB segment

Apparently everybody missed BhabiMa on the sets

Akshay missed her the most but Shiny said he is not there now when she returned.

Akshay also likes to go to the same places where Shiny and husband Lavesh visit, after they are done with their trip Itna bhi maska lagana zaroori hai kya?
Shiny asked Mohit and he said, “mein khud nahhi thaa, mein kya miss karoonga” 😆

Thank God, I did not miss her 😆 infact I was looking forward to more episodes without her 😆

They also talked about Akshay’s newborn, how cute she is, SBB asked for a picture but Shiny refused and it has to come from the parents and she cannot share.

Kinshuk was scared that he is going to be written off the show with this accident track and Dhara will be wesring a white saree😆

Nothing much about the track- except Gaumbi has had an accident and he needs to be on bed rest for a week.

https://youtu.be/DNFA7b7609A

Why do everyone makkhan maaro her so much.. I mean it's seriously looks weird & then they find it funny that people think shiny's husband has some investment in the show.. Actually people are very decent in saying that.. In any other job if anyone has that much influence & people do that much buttering (irrespective of gender) people say many weird things..

Why was kinshuk scared about his role in the show ?? .

Does he also realise how.he has been.wasted in the show and may not be needed all together

Originally posted by: deeps07

That's true..seriously going wrong in terms of shivi story..

Somewhere there should be a balance between a couple..one must not be too giving at all the times..and neither should one be all consuming always..

shiva 2.0 and 3.0 were an all consuming man who just never valued the ravi who had been a giver since she realised shiva did not abandon her in the khandar..love happened much later.. but since the khandar shiva mattered to her..this marrg was accepted by her..

Whereas shiva went through a lot of twists and turns..he always had a voice of just even when he hated ravi as badly as mami.. during their marrg when he plainly hated her..he stood for her on the day of marrg regardless of his feelings for her..he knew his responsibilities.. never hurt her or taunted her for her broken love.. he neither ignored her like she didn't exist for him....there was a bond between them that had been developed since childhood which never wavered even after their marrg..but that lasted until he started questioning his worth..his insecurity destabilised his confidence on their bond..he lost faith in it.. it was a beautiful track..only if they had a proper ending..(idiots..I will never forgive the writers for bringing disha nonsense and mute shiva as the ending for this insecurity track )..Anyways..then began the acknowledgement of love..he understood he has feelings for her..but his bond was still not back to that of trust and knowing..so when ravi was in a questionable situation , shiva easily found that as an excuse to justify his insecurity..he couldn't believe there is any reason she would love him for who he is...and hence shiva 3.0 took our peace of mind for the ivf track..another disastrous writing...now somehow they did good with ravis growth..her trust never wavered since khandar..I have always wondered what makes her think she is lucky to have him..that she is so proud to be in love with him..I think its the very fact from him standing up for her regardless of his feelings at the time of marrg..him never fighting for himself when she insulted and accused him about the kidnapping kaandh ...him unknowingly making her a part of his life and heart even though he is the same person who hated the very essence of her and her family..its something she values..his actions hatred madness everything goes to blind eyes after that...she only sees him for what shiva is..not what shiva does...now shiva 4.0 has come out of his insecurity.. he realises ravis heart is as pure as anything..he feels her love..he acknowledges it..he doesn't know how to revert it all back..how to makeup with her strength..he cares for her..needs her..ready to fight with her..but never letting her leave him..( he fought with her for supporting rishitha when rishitha was leaving ..but when he saw her loosening the gadbandhan knot, he made it clear that he won't let her leave like rishitha)..it looks like he is the only one lucky in that relationship where as ravi had always had to give in this relation..its true until now...but wait for it..she will get her due too..she will be blessed with all the respect and love she deserves from shiva ..shiva is not at all a perfect guy..a very imperfect one..he is taking a lot of time too..but I think he is currently on the right path..he will be there for her when she needs him..

PS.. sorry for this very loooong reply..I dnt knw..I was out the whole day..and suddenly I became all philosophical towards shiva..😆..I can't believe I just justified the man I was ready to put into jail just a track back..

Thanks for this reply Deep❤... I was actually losing interest bcz to me it looked like very one sided relationship.. I still can't forgive Shiva for Shiva 3.0 as I'm not as forgiving as Raavi but maybe you are right, maybe one day Raavi too will get her share of love & respect too.. I hope it's not too late & this show & I stick around to see that

Thank you so much for this❤️

Originally posted by: .Sunrise.

Why was kinshuk scared about his role in the show ?? .

Does he also realise how.he has been.wasted in the show and may not be needed all together

Was this the punishment for being avanger behind her back😆

✨ ka badla😆

https://www.instagram.com/p/Ccstpj4Pr8n/?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=

Looks like Shiva won the competition

Originally posted by: majoni03

https://www.instagram.com/p/Ccstpj4Pr8n/?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=

So shivaa won the competition? I hope next week has lots of shivi scenes

Originally posted by: mpks1

SBB segment

Apparently everybody missed BhabiMa on the sets

Akshay missed her the most but Shiny said he is not there now when she returned.

Akshay also likes to go to the same places where Shiny and husband Lavesh visit, after they are done with their trip Itna bhi maska lagana zaroori hai kya?
Shiny asked Mohit and he said, “mein khud nahhi thaa, mein kya miss karoonga” 😆

Thank God, I did not miss her 😆 infact I was looking forward to more episodes without her 😆

They also talked about Akshay’s newborn, how cute she is, SBB asked for a picture but Shiny refused and it has to come from the parents and she cannot share.

Kinshuk was scared that he is going to be written off the show with this accident track and Dhara will be wesring a white saree😆

Nothing much about the track- except Gaumbi has had an accident and he needs to be on bed rest for a week.

https://youtu.be/DNFA7b7609A

🤑

This is the reason I asked her post iconic - in true Gujju kaaki fashion; ‘Ben, ketla ma padyo’!
in same way want to ask for ‘missing you costars’- ketla ma pataya?

Poor KM😂 he lives under real khauf & endures all from do do do to sr unlimited scenes.
no wonder he acts better w Anita and brothers scenes.

This Leadben was off for a week & acting as if she visited Mars or moon or something!

Whole segment about i me myself: say hail to me!

Show ka toh no interest. Chaotic Character Bhabhi is.

Originally posted by: Pixierocks

So shivaa won the competition? I hope next week has lots of shivi scenes

I want Rishita to participate in the competition now. Maja aayega😈