Originally posted by: Pixierocks
Shiva is always shown to be working more than his brothers. Be it in the store or even during the Haveli days where he was carrying sacks even after having an accident at the khandar.he is shown to work even in his wedding day when the mba topper is playing catch catch with a ball and gombi is talking about retirement in his early 30s.
Raavi is always shown to be in the kitchen most of the times. In a lot of her scenes she is shown as doing mundane chores like kapde sukhana, bartan dhona. During the jeera kaand after they return home or when she comes back to take care of dhara or even after that.
Sometimes i wonder,is it intentional on the part of the writers? in many families where Someone ( usually the eldest) is put on a pedestal and appreciated by the society, family and their sacrifices validated the young ones efforts go unnoticed. The new DILs are always compared with the old one who is supposedly perfect.
Just a thought that crossed my mind. What do you guys think? It can't be a co incidence that shiva and raavi are shown as working In most of the scenes.
It seems intentional to me.. Earlier this used to annoy me when Raavi was working alone & nobody would help her but later I realized that it looks deliberate.. Shiva & Raavi are too individuals who always put their loved ones before them.. Both of them never think about themselves & that's why family take them for granted.. Their efforts are not counted..
I remember my one of the favorite quote from little woman about my Beth
"There are many Beth’s in the world, shy and quiet, sitting in corners till needed, and living for others so cheerfully that no one sees the sacrifices till the little cricket on the hearth stops chirping, and the sweet, sunshiny presence vanishes, leaving silence and shadow behind.”
Both Shiva & Raavi are like that.. I hope they show, shivi leaving this house & family value them, like they should.
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