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Posted: 2 years ago

Originally posted by: Shadow_kira


Agreed 💯 Raavi's words have been her biggest weapon.


I was just refering to how in the Mandir kaand, she was particularly vicious when she called him janwar...tu koi ladki deserve nahi karta 💔


Even before marriage, if Shiva talked rudely with her and manhandled her, Raavi got back at him with her words. So if Shiva can apologize for all of those fights, Raavi should too.

Taali dono haatho se bajti hai.

Exactly. They both made mistakes.. So both should apologize..

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Posted: 2 years ago

Originally posted by: Kfof

I dont want Raavi to say "sorry". I mean as we have seen she can easily apologise to someone. I want she do something else instead of saying sorry so she can show that what she said in the past and now are different.

For Shiva to apaologise is very big thing, as in the past, he could not say sorry like kangan kaand. So this was a very good progree us parallel.

I want the same for Raavi as not to say sorry but do something to apologise.

Yes, and to be completely honest, she's agreed that she's wrong with most of her mistakes in front of the whole family in various situations. She's just never apologised to Shiva because there was ego, then she didn't get why she should because they were breaking up anyway, and also because he never admitted to being wrong to her.

So more than just a sorry the way Shiva said it, I would want her to either sit and explain things to him, what was going on in her mind, or her to apologise through actions then reinforce it with the words. Otherwise for Raavi, it would fall short....

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Posted: 2 years ago

Originally posted by: peacenfun

Idea achchha hai, hope the writers are listening🤪



Because Shy Pandya will not initiate anything on his own. Hoping Raavi will 😉
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Posted: 2 years ago

Originally posted by: Kfof

I dont want Raavi to say "sorry". I mean as we have seen she can easily apologise to someone. I want she do something else instead of saying sorry so she can show that what she said in the past and now are different.

For Shiva to apaologise is very big thing, as in the past, he could not say sorry like kangan kaand. So this was a very good progree us parallel.

I want the same for Raavi as not to say sorry but do something to apologise.

To be fair, she has already done that:

During conversation with Anita on Diwali 'mera type badal gaya hai ab mujhe ab rough, rowdy ladke pasand aane lage hai'

To Shiva 'ab mujhe tel-masale ke baas nahi aati kyunki tere saath rehkar aadat padh chuki hai'

To Maami 'ye divorce meri life ka sabse bada failure hai main usko bata nahi payi ki uski banna chahti hun usko apna banana chahti hun'

To Shiva after packing & hiding his new clothes under the bed 'tu na unique piece hai, tujhe badalne ki zarirat nahi tere liye log apna taste badalte hai'

To her friends in college 'agar tum Shiva ke baare mein aise baat karoge toh main tumse kabhi baat nahi karungi'

I mean there have been many incidences where her regret, apology, helplessness have been expressed, its just that she needs to say it formally like Shiva did to show that she acknowledges & is regretful of the pain & hurt she has caused💔

P.S.- just my pov

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Posted: 2 years ago

Originally posted by: Kfof

I dont want Raavi to say "sorry". I mean as we have seen she can easily apologise to someone. I want she do something else instead of saying sorry so she can show that what she said in the past and now are different.

For Shiva to apaologise is very big thing, as in the past, he could not say sorry like kangan kaand. So this was a very good progree us parallel.

I want the same for Raavi as not to say sorry but do something to apologise.


If there's no explicit sorry, that's fine. The problem is that she's never realized that her name-calling has been hurtful. She's regretted the slap...but no thought on the name calling.

I think part of the reason is also how easily Shiva calls himself these names....Raavi probably doesn't see it as a big deal. But we've all seen how that was the root of his insecurities. So if they're really wanting to work on their relationship, Raavi's realisation is also important.

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Posted: 2 years ago

Raavi ke liye bhi difficult hoga coz she thinks what all she did was in retaliation, name-calling, slap

She thinks that shiva starts the fights every time & she just gives him back but she did cross the line many times too💔

so I want to see her realising & acknowledging this

Shiva is doing everything he can now, I want Raavi to do her part now, ofcourse after this sorry game that she wants to play with him😉

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Posted: 2 years ago

Originally posted by: peacenfun

toh shiva ko aage badhna nahi aata☺️ hayee so cute🤪

On a serious note, its instances like these where I miss GauRa, like Gombi made Rishita understand Raavi's pain & her pov during haveli track & Dhara made Raavi understand that she needs to accept her reality in shiv mandir 👏 GauRa has so much potential to be that mature couple, to guide & anchor the younger ones, thats why I mentioned earlier that they need to take inspiration from hum saath saath hai ke Mohnish-Tabu😔

Gombi could have guided Shiva so well on how to proceed in his love life❤️

They really need to work on building the bro-bond like they have done with the bahus😎


Honestly, I really don't think Gaura have been good mentors to Shivi

To the girl who'd committed suicide a few days ago, Dhara physically threatened her to get along with her enemy turned husband

To the guy who was drowning in his insecurities, Gaumbi's first reaction was to hit him with chappal


So I'm glad that Shivi are growing in their relationship without Gaura.

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Posted: 2 years ago

I dont think loan kaand is gonna be a big deal if by the reel we saw a tall wall built already lol on top yesterdays bts we saw the party pics so alls well in pandya land lol

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