Pandya Store|Episode Discussion #82|Samajhna aur Na Samajhna - Page 13

Originally posted by: milkcakejamun

Yes!!! Where is Pandya Store?!?! What is happening to the business? What is happening to the customers!?!?

Now that ShiVi are separated, I want to see an awkward scene where Raavi goes to the store and reads out a list of supplies, and just as you mentioned, Shiva gives her everything + her favorite chocolate bar since he knows she's probably hurt by everything

The store can give us so many wonderful scenes! I don’t want to see them staring at the moon 😆 it’s high time the lead makes its comeback 😆

Originally posted by: Pixiepadhi

Today was one of those episodes Which I watched without forwarding ❤️

It kind of brought out the characters for me.one of the sensible episodes.❤️

1)the Dev ,shiva and gombi scene.

The way shiva expressed his insecurities.he admits he did a mistake,said some things out of anger but he had no such thing in his mind about raavi.but, he is not willing to apologise as he feels what happened is the best for raavi

"Uska yahaan se chale jaana hi thk hai "

Gombi as usual doesn't get his deep seated insecurities. They are married, they are husband and wife and they should just love and respect each other.thats the rule!

I liked the way how shiva said dev to stay out of the matter. Dev misjudged Shiva's hurt as jealousy and he clarified.he is not jealous.he is hurt that he can't keep her happy.he is hurt that she smiles with others but never with him.

"Dekh dev, yeh mera aur raavi ka koi bachpan ka jhagda nahi hai jo tu aake suljha lega.hamare beech Jo kuch bhi hai woh hum dekh lenge"

Shiva seems determined this time.no dhara or gombi can influence his decisions.

2)the conflict of the pandya women.

Rishita explains to dhara to let her children grow and not interfere in their lives.let them be independent, let them make their own decisions.

Dhara said she can't let them be and see their tears.in all this she defended shiva as well.

"Kabhi kabhi insaan galat baat keh deta hai.iska matlab yeh nahi ki insaan hi galat hai.aur Mera shiva galat nahi hai"

Dhara can't leave herself out of her children's matter, can she? She goes anyways.Suman said the same.

" Bahut ziddi hai woh."

Rishita is biased towards raavi. So suman calls out this behaviour.

They both had the same argument as we often have in this forums.

Thappad maarna galat hai.

Character par sawaal uthana galat hai.

" Raavi ko ghar aana chahiye, par dhara bhabi ya gharwalon ke efforts se nahi, shiva ki kosishon se."

Suman calls her one sided judgement.why only shiva's efforts?

Rishita is determined to prove her point to both saas and maha saas.krish laughs at her.everything in the house goes according to them, forget the men of the house, even the material objects move according to their will.

But piddi bhabi is determined this time.😎

3) shiva can't stay in his room 💔

He sees the shirt which raavi gave him while packing and remembers her.

He trie to sleep in the aangan, but he couldn't.

Raavi can't sleep either

The balcony scene ❤️

The way they looked at the moon and then lookwd at each other 😍

The way Shiva's hand rises to stop her when she turns.💔

Their expressions 👏👏

5)anita is back to her own selfish motives.🤕🤕

Raavi will not go back to shiva.dhara reaches out to raavi.

I liked that how every mistake made by one character is called out by another.this was one of the finest episodes of PS for me in a long time.

Everyone is wrong somewhere, but have their heart in the right place.

And the build up gives me a feeling that this time it would be shivi making their decisions for themselves and not the family.

@bold- they're actually reflecting different audience opinions and giving proper rebuttals. Kal tak, whoever was judging Shiva harshly is now more empathetic. On the other hand, you can also see Dhara's reasoning for interfering however much I don't want it. Its nice when the episode is filled with good conversations instead of one-sided gyaan and bhashan

Originally posted by: Raingoddess

Great analysis 👏

@Bold I think this is one of the reasons why I’m enjoying the track. All the characters are heavily flawed at this point but they also bring up same very sensible points. Where one fails, another shines. It has a very wholesome feel. I also found it a bit realistic because in my family when big fights happen, one person makes sense and then a few minutes later, that same person says something and you wanna bang your head on the wall 😆 in the end, everyone makes sense and at the same time no one does 😆 I find the different opinions and explanations given by the various characters quite interesting. I actually look forward to see who matches my opinion the most in the each episode. It’s certainly one of the better tracks since the haveli days.

Me too.❤️

Everyone is making sense, and at the same time not.its an interesting track for sure.i want to see how it goes.what finally makes shivi reconcile.

Originally posted by: Shadow_kira

@bold- they're actually reflecting different audience opinions and giving proper rebuttals. Kal tak, whoever was judging Shiva harshly is now more empathetic. On the other hand, you can also see Dhara's reasoning for interfering however much I don't want it. Its nice when the episode is filled with good conversations instead of one-sided gyaan and bhashan

I felt the same too.

It was as if all the different views that we have while discussing the episodes was compiled and put together today.❤️

Originally posted by: deeps07

I have no idea dear. Dhara might probably faint due to the shock she gets after her shiva rejects her haath jodke bheek mangna to not divorce..🤪

Lolll kuch bhi ho sakta hai 😆

My only hope it's that divorce sequence happens after this blackmailing because that would mean Shivi told her to get lost instead of giving in 😆 I want to see Dhara ke plans flop hote hua. Its hilariously fun 😆

True..the show is having the right flow now..❤️

Originally posted by: majoni03

I want them to elope and start living separately😆.. imagine maami screaming junglee shiva mere phool si bacchi ko bhaga le gaya🤣.

I know it won't happen but hope atleast kuch episodes ke liye he sahi but aisa ho.

Originally posted by: Shadow_kira

Lolll kuch bhi ho sakta hai 😆

My only hope it's that divorce sequence happens after this blackmailing because that would mean Shivi told her to get lost instead of giving in 😆 I want to see Dhara ke plans flop hote hua. Its hilariously fun 😆

I too get that sadistic pleasure😆..just like shiva told dev to stay away frm his and ravis matter..

It irritates me to hell hearing dhara saying mera shiva mera shiva..mera bacha I am still OK.. but mera shiva. .I dnt knw my own logic..but I still dnt like it..😆

Originally posted by: Raingoddess

Alright, so this might be an unpopular opinion but I really liked the way Shiva explained why he acted the way he did (doesn’t excuse this behavior) and why he feels it’s best for Raavi and him to go their separate ways.

My favorite dialogue was when he mentions the lack of spark and light in her eyes. Tbh, it’s something I have noticed and commented on before as well. And yes, Shiva’s own behavior is partially responsible but even in her scenes with Dev, you can see the light in her eyes. There is a certain spark when she speaks to Dev.

I honestly don’t blame Shiva for misreading her feelings. Truth be told, I don’t fully understand her feelings. Does she like him? Does she “jheelo” him because he’s her husband and she loves/respects Pandya family? Does she hate him? It’s all really confusing. I don’t know if it’s lazy writing or they are intentionally giving us mixed signals. If it’s the latter, then it makes complete sense as to why Shiva feels it’s best for them to move on (not to mention the toxicity present in their relationship currently). I would be pretty upset if they conveniently show that she loves him at the end of this track. Cuz so far, there is zero indication that she has such strong feelings for him.

Aside from the balcony scene (I really didn’t like it because of the sudden neighbor idea and the moon but the song was on point), I enjoyed the episode and if I keep low expectations, then I have to say this track is better than the last few tracks combined. I can always find one character or another who voices my own opinion (although all of them are pendulums these days). Today, it was Rishita and Shiva.

And of course, my heart jumped at the childhood reference. I don’t know why the cvs play with my feelings when it comes to this 🤣 I kid you not, just one reference to their childhood and it becomes a green episode for me 🤣

Also, I love that Shiva clarified that his reaction was not out of pure jealousy and that Dev should back off when it comes to ShiVi. They can handle their own relationship. If only Dhara would back off as well.

That one scene between the three bros has a lot happening. I really liked it. I also loved the scene where Shiva refuse to stay in the room without Raavi. It was subtle and heartbreaking. I wish they would stick to such subtle moments. They are way more effective when compared to loud drama.

Anyway let’s see how the week wraps up. I have been a little less active on the EDT because I know most people are not liking the current track. I find it a bit easier to enjoy it this way but I do love reading everyone’s views at the end of the day 🤗 This isn’t the ShiVi I fell for but I have made peace. Will enjoy what I can while the show is on air. Won’t stop complaining/thinking of potential scenes that won’t happen 😆 No matter what, this show does hold a special place in my heart ❤️

Sphere Origins shows have a strong undercurrent of childhood fixation and issues. The way they are going with Shiva Raavi seems to be loosely inspired by Kesar Gulaal adult scenes from their show called Gulaal.

The childhood fixation aspect has a very subtle undertone. Trust me; after this chaos was over in the Gulaal show, the male lead realised that he grew up loving the female lead secretly, and he didn't know until he started evaluating.

I like how Shiva wants to be loved; Raavi wants to be respected!

Both are ziddi!

There are certain individuals who are known as Pyaar ka Bhukha- that category of people don't care about anything more in this world apart from being loved with fierce consumption.

I have been there done that! Compromise waigarah words used to make me mad too.

I think PS is conflicted because it pulls a variety of audience sentiments together.

They have a recipe for all age groups, and that's why there will be days where one or the other set of audience will agonised.

🐯

My typing is disjointed as I can't type much right now.

Originally posted by: Transference

I can't type much yet.

But I think I liked the episode because of the wonderful generational viewpoints. Also, I liked how Shivi are missing each other. They need to grow.

It was a very wholesome episode. There are days when PS is terrible but today isn't one of them.

Also, I don't think Gaumbi was out of character too.

He is the same Gaumbi who was saying to Dev- Pyaar ho jayega.

Dhara-Gaumbi was born out of comfort and respect. He views every relationship from his lens.

The moment he heard Dev. He blasted. Dhara and Gaumbi have the habit of superficial band-aids.

I am thrilled with the episode. It was as if I was watching a meaningful one.

Agreed piu ❤️❤️

I loved today's episode.a meaningful and wholesome one after soo long.