Usually, I'm not much interested in Zara - Hassan track. But, today, after much thought through the show, I want to say one thing for Zara- STUPID GIRL!
Before Hassan gets any counselling, Zara needs counselling on behaviour traits of domestic violence. And her mother is absolutely right, hand once risen, will keep on being raised. And Zara knows that this wasn't his first go on "accidentally" hitting her. There was that hospital slapping episode too. Just because she didn't bleed back then, doesn't discount him into believing that it wasn't a slap.
This time she's going back into that abusive relationship, she's making sure that Hassan will be more rigid about her not leaving him. This can be a longer lock-up, or a stay away from work, or any other mental manipulation including cutting her off connectivity to her parents and safe people. Going back into the abusive relationship is one of the most stupidest things girls do in the name of love or giving chance to marriage.
Rahi baat Zara ki daadi ki, toh one thing I want to make it very clear and I stand by it, grandparents should be a guiding force for their children as to how to raise their kids, but it should be limited to guiding and not forcing. One should never force parents into telling how to parent, unless something really inhuman is happening. And here Zara is not even a kid, keeping on hammering the thought that independent girls like her don't make homes, is such a low key thought, and Zara's father should be as firm as his wife is. I'm a sister of a doctor, who's independent and everything, she compromises many a times to make her marriage work, but that doesn't mean we've sent our piece of our heart to be physically hurt by her husband or in laws. That's not how daughters and risen.
Coming to Hassan's Grandmother, I think she has no thoughts for somebody else's girl. First of all, knowing his anger issues, she shouldn't have got him married in the first place. If she wanted to give him a married chance, she should have pre informed Zara and her parents that he's on an anger side. And if nothing, seeing his psychotic behaviour so many times with Zara, she shouldn't have come pleading for Zara to return because Hassan is crying. Does Zara's life have no value? What if the next time something happens and he pushes her down the balcony or on the stairs or something else? What is the guarantee he won't repeat? He himself told that he promised before and broke his promise, how could she go begging for Zara to come back just on a promise?
In a whole, I feel, even if Zara wanted to give Hassan a chance is on the condition of him meeting a psychiatrist (even if she doesn't tells the details to her parents), and as and when she sees improvement in him, she could get back then. Going back just yet is a strict no-no for me. Period!
She seems like a little girl, who just want people to like her 
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