Originally posted by: Kadu13
Yea basit in that role would be a lot better, but wat can we do. It a Pakistani drama. That won’t happen.
You know, I can’t get a read on nimra’s cousin. One episode, I feel like he is creepy n the next desperate. Now in the last episode it felt like he was a nice n caring person.
I still hope nimra stays single builds a better life n moves on.
I ffwd the scenes with the cousin and the dad. 😂 was so bored of watching their scenes. maybe they are also in shiza mould. one moment crazy and next moment making moon eyes at basit. hahahha....
so I was thinking about your earlier comment that no one would think samreen was madly in love with rohaan before her marriage. so both these sisters suffer from a serious bout of insecurity and a lack of confidence. they do not like themselves and are not content with life. these type of people will push everyone away because then they get to see themselves as victims and get to be in power. so basically they self-sabotage all relationships. do we see shiza and samreen have any friends beside themselves? they just feed off each other's negativity. rohaan and shimza are not strangers and yet these two see conspiracies everywhere.
for both sisters, if they are not the centre of attention and their every whim is not being catered to, they feel slighted and angry and have meltdowns. basically over nothing. this way, they tilt the power to themselves. for them, love makes them vulnerable and a position of being railroaded over. so therefore, they have to break the other person down in order to feel strong. however, once they have pushed the other person into a corner, they are still unhappy because the other person is not responding the way they thought they expected -- with love or begging them for attention/affection. so it is a type of vicious cycle which can only be broken when the other person gives a nice whack or calls a halt to their nonsense. in a previous episode, samreen was gloating that rohaan felt bad with her silence -- that is what she wanted. it then makes her feel powerful, important and loved. she doesn't see his pain or his feelings. it is always about her and what she feels and what she thinks.
I really feel that samreen's marriage has to break in order for samreen to realize her mistake and same with shiza. both of them need to end up alone in order to realize that you can't keep pushing people away and still expect them to stay. both of them will not realize the importance of treating people with dignity and respect unless they are rejected completely. right now, everyone caters to their nonsense and puts up with it and they have gotten away with their stupidity for years. therefore, they think that it is right that the world rotates around them. so they need a bitter reality check.
as for nimra, I really hope she stays single and has the confidence to live on her own. I think it would be entertaining if rohaan and samreen move out and nimra ends up moving into shimza's house to give her company. that would change things up and also shimza would get a chance to see why rohaan respects nimra.
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