Ok I admit I was over emotional during yesterday's episode and I guess I the feminist inside of me couldn't help it. 😆
So I said yesterday that Mohsin has really been unjust and authoritative with the way he has brought up his daughters, and I think his way of trying to control his daughter's life in such a way is really very wrong.
I still very much stick to my words and thoughts, but I noticed that I was speaking from my point of view. I didn't keep in mind that from Mohsin's point of view, he doesn't see it as wrong.
It's his way of being a protective father and trying to protect his daughters. He thinks the rules he created for them will keep them from getting hurt or taken advantage of, as well as it would forbid an Imran-Ayna scenario from happening with them.
So it's not like Mohsin thinks he's wrong and he's putting these rules just to torture his daughters. Yes to many of us, we see it as wrong because you can't basically control every little thing in your child's life and prohibit them from having a social life, because you fear that they will get hurt, and that's your way of protecting them.
But then each person's point of view and each person's idea of showing love and protection is different.
I actually have hope that Mohsin can start realizing that his way is not the right way, and he would slowly start changing his ideas. I think Ayna has already succeeded in changing some things about Mohsin and I think most of us agree that the Mohsin now is much better than the Mohsin in the previous episodes of the show.
Sure he is still making mistakes, but at least we see him regretting it and confessing to himself that his act was wrong. That's a first step in his improvement, then hopefully he will start confessing his mistake to the person he hurt automatically and apologizing, and then last step when he actually would stop himself from creating a mistake by thinking about what he's going to say before he actually says it.
It's really not easy to change the ideas of someone like Mohsin and I think Ayna has handled Mohsin all these years with a lot of patience and care. I believe she can still succeed in making Mohsin change his way of showing his love towards the people he cares about.
Regarding my thoughts on Afaaq and Tabi. I still think Tabi shouldn't get married to him. I mean why should a girl like Tabi get married to someone like Afaaq? Like it's not even fair.
I surely don't see any resemblance and they don't remind me of MoNa in any way.
Ayna had her reasons for marrying Mohsin, and Mohsin isn't a selfish person and he surely isn't a liar. He chose to marry Ayna for his kids, so Mohsin can be anything but selfish. Nor did he marry Ayna for money, like what Afaaq's intention is in getting married to Tabi.
I really really hope that Mohsin will be the one to break Tabi and Afaaq's rishta when he figures out that he has gotten his daughter engaged to a useless and selfish jerk. This would be the perfect way for Mohsin to show his love to his daughters and we all would know how happy and proud of him Ayna (as well as us) would be.
Edited by Ishq-Dua - 7 years ago
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