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So you might be wondering why Sartaj is falling for Indira, while Harleen has been waiting for him so long.
Basically the problem here is psychology. For Sartaj or for any man he needs a woman to love not a Goddess to rever.
The equation is different for Iman and Sartaj. For Iman, Naz waiting is nothing much. Because he has lived with Naz, before he went to Kargil war they had an adorable daughter also and Naz was pregnant second time. So Naz living with the symbol of his love, his kids is much more an acceptable scenario or rather it might be something a mother does. Many woman doesn't want second marriage because they are not sure how it affects their children. So Naz is normal not Devi or Goddess.
But Harleen has not lived a day with Sartaj. I mean their marriage is not even consummated. Now this lady made his home her own and has been living there as their bahu, bhabi etc.. waiting for him is not something normal. To be frank it is quite abnormal 😃. Because she has gone beyond human emotions and has become a Devi. She is so sure, capable, can handle everything. There is no vulnerability Sartaj sees about Harleen which a man prefers to see. I mean they love that.
Indira on the other hand is the quintessential abla nari, a normal girl. Abused girl and she couldn't do anything. Today she tried reaching the mango, she couldn't take. So Sartaj feels like his ego bolstered helping such a woman. A man's ego needs to be pampered a bit. Atleast during the initial days of the marriage till he understands you.
That's why Imaan has no issues of a working, financially independent wife as he had lived with her. While Sartaj has issues because he has not lived with her. He cannot bring out the normal romantic feelings towards a Goddess or Devi Harleen has become, while it comes naturally with a normal girl Indira is. For Sartaj she is a normal girl
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