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rithika2015

@rithika2015

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Posted: 7 years ago

she was pestering her mom to take a decision and now finally naz has decided to stay with Imaan for whatever the reason may be. May be she decided to stay with him owing the past love and bond they shared with each other or owing to the pain he had to go thru these 17 years and she doesnt want to increase it more bu causing a heart break. what ever be the reason she decided to stay with Imaan.

and salim is completely ok with it and he even mentioned that if Iman was in his place he would have given up naz for salim very happily and so he is doing the same he even asked naz to move on with her decision..

Iman on the other side was making every move to get his kids love he even spoke to them so clearly that he was sorry for his absence though it was not his mistake and even said that he doesnt want to take their salim chachu's place but he wanna create his own place..

the fact that naz brought shaira with her was to make her very clear about her decision and she cant pester her more and so that she wont hurt Iman more..but this girl doesnt seem to realise that..

her mom made her decision, her chachu accepted that whole heartedly, her dad want to give him a different place and mentioned he wont take their chachu's place who is a fatherly figure to them even after so many efforts she is still being indifferent to iman is something unbearable to me.. she wanted salim in her life as a father and that doesnt mean he will be father only if he is married to her mom. he can be a father even without that relation like how he was till today. why is she hell bent on getting naz and salim together?

till now she might be upset with the feeling that Iman may take her chachu's place in their lives but iman himself cleared it and said that he cant and will never take that place.still this girl keeps hurting and insulting him for the past happenings which were in his hands..

now isnt it wrong if shaira does something to hurt Iman or to get naz and salim togther. doesnt her mom has the right to chose her life just like she has the right to chose the people iin her life..

finally after seeing her reaction in the precap all i want to say though i dont want to say is shaira is perfect example of over pampered spoilt brat who just want her life and people in her life be according to her terms and cant adjust or accept anything against that.

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Posted: 7 years ago

I totally agree with you.. Initially she was a realistic character... According to her age she doesnt know how complicated relations can be, and what tough decisions one has to take to maintain certain relationship... But she is around 18 yrs i suppose... 18 yrs means she is an adult officially... And at this age she shud be atleast knowing how to talk to her father who has returned after bearing 17 yrs of torture... Atleast for humanity sake she can talk normally to him... She is just an over pampered girl who when she loves someone she gives her 100% and never allow anyone else to take his place, this was mentioned by salim in earlier episodes.. its her mentality... She always say, sacrifising something for someone is not her cup of tea... A point u mentioned abt precap is she will do something to hurt imaan even more is bcoz she is now all broken, she desperately needs her chachu as her abbu god knows why, she can still get his love... May be she wanted a complete family.. She dont want to call him as chachu, she wanted to call him as abbu... Now she all broken bcoz of Naz's decision, she has now lost controlled over herself and cannot think rationally... So in that process she will hurt imaan... About that last line u said that she wants ppl according to her wish and her terms... This we shud not blame her, her age shud be blamed... She is not that much mature to easily digest all this complications...Bcoz looking at her lifestyle I dont think she had done any struggle in her life, she had got whatever she wanted.. and hence she is not habitual to all this struggle... Like for eg take father's love.. even if imaan was not there her chachu took care of both children and was a fatherly figure for her, so she never felt something is missing... The only option I find here is, she shud be given some space... She needs to be alone for sometime to think and digest what's happening.. and shud accept it... I know for character and thinking like her its very difficult but she shud accept it now... Her mom's happiness shud also be a matter of concern for her rather than only hers...

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TheMachine

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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: rithika2015

.. she wanted salim in her life as a father and that doesnt mean he will be father only if he is married to her mom. he can be a father even without that relation like how he was till today. why is she hell bent on getting naz and salim together?

Agree completely with this. Shaira needs to respect her mom's decision. That being said, if she values Salim and sees him as a father figure, she should try to keep him in her life. Why should she stop interacting with him? Just because Imaan is there, it doesn't mean she has to cut all her ties with Salim. Salim and Naz don't have to be married in order for Shaira to have a relationship with him.

While I understand that Salim is heartbroken because Naz chose Imaan, I wish he wouldn't run away from Shaira. Like, he should say that your mother picked Imaan and you should respect that. But I will still always be there for you, like I have been. It's being implied that Salim is going to disappear completely from everyone's lives just because Naz didn't choose to marry him, and that doesn't make sense.

And Shaira wants to get Salim and Naz together because she knows that they love each other. She thinks it would make them happy. And she wants to see them happy and everyone together as a family. But I guess she should realize that if her mom made her choice, she can't change it. All she can do is manage her own relationships with people, and that's what she should focus on.

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