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Posted: 7 years ago
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shaira's behaviour yesterday was so uncivilised...such a brat...whether she connect with imaan or anyone is another point...but even before imaan's entry , salim took shaira from police station at late night for rule breaking...that too..as it was shown..she has been detained 3 times before...in same police station...and salim so casually took her home and once did'nt scold her or show her right way...and as far as i think ...shaira loves salim only because he dances to her tunes...he pampers her...always please her ..dis has become her habit now...she wants what she thinks...she should get get it...dis is her behaviour...imaan is only a catalyst to bring out her rude self...
naz and salim have spoiled this girl...
loving a person immensely and spoiling is different...she has serious personality issues...dis has nothing to do with imaan...if der was another person standing against her wish ..she will do the same thing...

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Posted: 7 years ago
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That's a different way of explaining Shaira's behavior. It's an interesting approach and she is spoiled, but I think the issue lies largely in the parenting, as you said. I would call it permissive style on Salim's end. Judging by his character, he probably feels some kind of guilt of being his brother's wife's lover, and that Shaira had to grow up without her real father. Like over-compensation. Naaz isn't okay with Shaira's behavior; she just struggles to keep her under control.

I agree that Shaira's character is pretty rude and very immature, but I think she actually loves Salim as a father, not just because he lets her do whatever she wants. I think there is genuine attachment there. So her lashing out like this is her way of defending herself and her family, at least the way she's known it, for 17 years.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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I think Shaira truly loves Salim and that's why all those preemptive strikes from her side to save her 'perfect family' but yes, I do think Salim and Naz have been too lenient with her. Even Ayaan thinks that and voiced it out to Naz but she ignored him.
Multiple visits to the police station at the age of 18 and no signs of improving wouldn't go too well with my uncle or anyone who cares for me to be honest. This lenient attitude is exactly why Shaira had the audacity to pull out what she did yesterday because she knew no major action would be taken against her and she was right. Nazneen and Saleem didn't even admonish her and in fact in her drunken stupor she went about insulting Imaan - and still no squeak from from Naz and Saleem!
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