23rd Nov - Happy Family......Yeah Right !!! ..

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Posted: 7 years ago

How Infuriating was Yesterday's Episode ... Arghh..😡

Shaira is one spoilt Brat , there is serious question in my mind against her Upbringing . I understood her plight when suddenly her Family Family Image was broken by Arrival of Imaan , but I am sorry you just don't cruelly go and Insult that Person and make him feel like an Outsider .

She is Pampered , ill mannered and lacks basic Empathy or better to say Humanity . Wants everything as per wish and anything against her will I'll go to psycho level to get that .

But I do'nt blame her , It's all Naaz and Salim's Upbringing and major fault lies with Naaz . Naaz saying "Shaira kahan hoti hain , Tumhe Hamesha pata hota hain"...Like Seriously ..?? . Just because You have a Family Relatiive to look after her you forget all your Parental Responsibilities ?? You can't even keep a Track of her ?? She comes Late Always..!! Is at the Police Station at Night and you are Ok with this ..??? Naaz failed in bringing up her Daughter .

Like Ayaan mentioned .."Why are you not Strict with Shaira as you are with me "...Ahh because Naaz was one heck of Irresponsible Mother .

And yes Parent will always be Parent .

Salim are FAILED in installing values in Shaira , in his quest to keep her Happy/Pampered Always ..He forgot to be teach her Values.

And In all this , What fault is Imaan at ?? The indirect Insult , the indirect comparison that Shaira made of his with Salim ...Fine Your Chachu was at a phone call away but What fault is of Imaan in this . It's your Chachu and Mother who are coward enough not let know Imaan about the Arrangement that was there when he was MIA . They are not capable enough to take up the responsibility and face the Reality .

How long are Salim and Nazz gonna continue with this Hide and Seek . I am sorry just make up your Mind and let know the Guy the Truth . He getting to know the Truth is Zillion times better then him going through the Insults hurled at him by his own Daughter for whom he probably might have prayed for her better life , to see her Glimpse when he was Prisoned .

And Naaz and Salim just stood there and let Shaira insult Imaan ... Argghhh.

You pamper her , let her have her own ways , but you cant Control her ...And also what kind of Upbringing it is , when Kid is not even listening to her Mother or her so called Father ?? ...Where is teh basic Respect of the Relationship Dude ...

You want Happy Family ...fine have it but please first let know Imaan the Truth .

This so called Happy Family showed such Ugly face ...Imaan looked nothing but an Outsider there .

I don't care if Naaz goes back to Imaan or not , Infact I seriously even doubt now If She loves him or not . Her Silence yesterday when her daughter was insulting Imaan makes me feel , She takes being with Imaan just as her Responsibility because He happens to be her Husband . If you Love and Want Salim then please own up the Trusth and let Imaan know about it and have your One Big Happy Family ...

Because Imaan seriously doesn't deserve such Treatment ...

I am soo Pissed Off with yesterday's Episode ...😡

Edited by RollingStones - 7 years ago

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Chit15

@Chit15

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Posted: 7 years ago

You perfectly described what I was thinking

What Shaira did yesterday shows that she is heartless she is most selfish person

I was shocked when Naaz and Salim were standing silently and listening her crap. They should have at least stopped her because they know what Imaan has gone through but I think so they also want their old life

I really felt bad for Imaan

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sp108

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Posted: 7 years ago

Shaira was supremely disappointing. She is so selfish. I mean even an outsider can understand what Imaan went through. All this girl cares about is that her life should be good. How can one be so self-centered. Terrible upbringing by Salim and Naaz.

I felt very bad for Imaan yesterday. All that kept him going for these tumultous years was the memory of his family. That this family never remembered him and that it now doesn't need him and the fact that Shaira is leaving no stone unturned to make him feel an outsider hurts like hell.

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Pr1yanka

@Pr1yanka

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Posted: 7 years ago

Totally agree...someone needs to bring Shaira's sense of entitlement down...this is not a toy she is demanding n she is not a kid...

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rithika2015

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Posted: 7 years ago

i agree with every point which u mentioned in the post..

shaira is such a spoilt brat. though she was not attached to her father but she doesnt even have sympathy towards his suffering.. ayaan is lot better in this matter he has sympathy for his father's pain and even recognises his efforts and behaves well with him.

he is a lot matured than shaira..

i dont know how did naaz and salim bring their kids up without telling them about their father. i mean when a father is away the mother usually keeps telling about the tales related with their father and creates an underlying love for them especially when father is loving person like Iman. shaira might have spent atleast 1 yr with her father and though she might not remember them her mother if has quoted them to her she would have known how loving her father was with her and I seriously see that missing here..

actually it should be ayaan who should behave so coldly with Iman as he doesnt have any relation with his father except blood relation but he is alot better and understanding than shaira.

I seriously felt very very bad for Imaan. he was not in a position to ask anything and is not even at fault for what his daughter was blaming him for. In a moment he was made to feel like an outsider and naaz rather than comforting him was feeling sad for shaira and was crying sitting beside her.

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peeyara

@peeyara

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Posted: 7 years ago

Asmi will post after watching...yet to watch but going by ur post, its gonna be super sad epi :(

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Raveena

@Loveforlife

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Posted: 7 years ago

I don't completely blame Shaira Asmi. By this i don't mean what she did was right. Of course as a bystander her behaviour looks completely obnoxious and wild. But if i delves inside I can see a broken child. A little child who lost a father... and at the same time lost her mother too who was probably more vested in trying to find the wearabouts of her husband.. in her formative years she probably only came across people talking about where Imaan had disappeared to. And when everyone was broken Salim stood in front of her as a father figure. Salim became more important to Shaira that her mother and Imaan ceased to exist. Imaan was probably presumed to be dead by this time... and as families generally do... they moved on. From Shaira's behaviour I can see she has always been angry with Naz. Why? Maybe she got neglected as a child, with Naz worried about Imaan plus the birth of her second child. Therefore Salim is everything for Shaira.. Not Naz, Not Imaan but Salim was Shairas saviour. Naz is not a bad mother, we can see this from Ayaan's upbringing. Ayaan asks her why can you be strict with Shaira like you are with me? It's not like Naz cannot.. But over the years Shaira has become Salim's daughter more than Naz's daughter.

As I had said earlier teenagers... they think the world revolves round them. They want things to happen their way and asap. Even a sound upbring cannot guarantee a sound teen thus age is such. Shaira cannot think of a family of which Salim is not part. She doesn't hate Imaan, only she doesn't want to lose Salim. She wants things the way they were.. and she will hurt herself if that will help her case.. teen logic there.

As a child Shaira did not understand why Imaan was not there.. she only understood that Salim was there for her. And when children draw conclusions many times there is no regards to logic or reason. Where Imaan was for 17 years is of no consequence here, only his absence is of consequence. An I always say that What you experience as a child carve your beliefs, thoughts and behaviour as an adult. Shaira lost a father once.. she doesn't want to lose a father again.

Yes Nas and Salim should have spoken to Imaan before. But human mind is not programmed to do the correct thing always. They screwed up big time.. but again for them the whole equation is such that what is right and what is wrong has become blurred.

Nas or Salim speaking up yesterday wouldn't have helped things.. rather complicated them more.. Shaira was drunk and angry.

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-Vishakha-

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Posted: 7 years ago

@loveforlife superb post. Completely agree.

Honestly I understand why Shaira has such upbringing.

As parents we always give more attention freedom Nd pampering to that child whom we think is more weak or has faced some kinda hardships in life , whose life is more tough.

Here is same case with shaira.

We can see Ayan upbringing is good becoz maybe Naz Nd Salim were little strict with him, Imaan left before he was born so it was little easy for him to accept the situation and consider Salim as his dad. Naz Nd Salim wouldn't have faced much problem.

But with shaira her dad Imaan left for war then went missing. She has gone through all these phases and somewhere aware of all happenings since childhood. So her life was more tough emotionally.

And as I said maybe that's why she is more pampered. As she already seen some bad things in life and her parents as in Naz and Salim wanted to give a normal life, so they pampered her more.

Now again after iman return her life has lost balance. Her fears are coming back.

That's why we all love this show ..We can understand every characters PoV . U feel bad for every character. That's the beauty😃

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peeyara

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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: Loveforlife
I don't completely blame Shaira Asmi. By this i don't mean what she did was right. Of course as a bystander her behaviour looks completely obnoxious and wild. But if i delves inside I can see a broken child. A little child who lost a father... and at the same time lost her mother too who was probably more vested in trying to find the wearabouts of her husband.. in her formative years she probably only came across people talking about where Imaan had disappeared to. And when everyone was broken Salim stood in front of her as a father figure. Salim became more important to Shaira that her mother and Imaan ceased to exist. Imaan was probably presumed to be dead by this time... and as families generally do... they moved on. From Shaira's behaviour I can see she has always been angry with Naz. Why? Maybe she got neglected as a child, with Naz worried about Imaan plus the birth of her second child. Therefore Salim is everything for Shaira.. Not Naz, Not Imaan but Salim was Shairas saviour. Naz is not a bad mother, we can see this from Ayaan's upbringing. Ayaan asks her why can you be strict with Shaira like you are with me? It's not like Naz cannot.. But over the years Shaira has become Salim's daughter more than Naz's daughter.
As I had said earlier teenagers... they think the world revolves round them. They want things to happen their way and asap. Even a sound upbring cannot guarantee a sound teen thus age is such. Shaira cannot think of a family of which Salim is not part. She doesn't hate Imaan, only she doesn't want to lose Salim. She wants things the way they were.. and she will hurt herself if that will help her case.. teen logic there.

As a child Shaira did not understand why Imaan was not there.. she only understood that Salim was there for her. And when children draw conclusions many times there is no regards to logic or reason. Where Imaan was for 17 years is of no consequence here, only his absence is of consequence. An I always say that What you experience as a child carve your beliefs, thoughts and behaviour as an adult. Shaira lost a father once.. she doesn't want to lose a father again.

Yes Nas and Salim should have spoken to Imaan before. But human mind is not programmed to do the correct thing always. They screwed up big time.. but again for them the whole equation is such that what is right and what is wrong has become blurred.

Nas or Salim speaking up yesterday wouldn't have helped things.. rather complicated them more.. Shaira was drunk and angry.

Rav I agree with you

The problem with Shaira is she has lost her family all of a sudden and she is not liking it

she had a dream family and its broken and Salin-Naz not taking any step is annoying her more and making her take the charge of situation

And u r great Ravs ⭐️ i never thought about her disturbed childhood which wud have made her the way she is...childhood leaves lasting impression on mind...Salim means the world to her and she will not trade him for any thing or anyone

only solution I see to this problem is: Salim-Naz talking it out and coming to conclusions. If they want to be together, they should atleast confide it within themselves and make shaira understand that they will speak to Iman at right time. The reason for salim avoiding them is, he assumed Naz wants to be with Iman but Naz have never said that . TALKING is the only way out

All I want from shaira is little Empathy for Iman, he is trying to make equation with her and she can atleast give him one chance bhale hi aabu na bole, but kam az kam dost toh banne ka mauka de

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Posted: 7 years ago

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@Rav :

That was some Calmed and insightful reply , as compared to the ranting that we have been doing since yest night . 😆

I'll reply to your post , give me some time.

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