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Posted: 7 years ago

#11

In many families, a man gets married to his wife s sister after her demise. But, when when it happens with the wife?? Some approve of it, some disapprove. Everyone doesnt think alike and it's perfectly fine for some to agree and some to disagree.

I feel it's ok as Saleem has supported her through thick n thin. Of course she is in no economic crisis. Yet, he was there to lend her a shoulder to vent out her anger, frustration, pain and angst. Also, he had been a father figure to her kids. He has always been there for her. So, she thought she can find a companion in him.

Saleem had known all along that his brother was not dead and there was a faint chance of him comin back. Yet, he fathered the kids and neither did he force Naz for marriage nor manipulate kids into making her agree.

He was just there for her. All the way.

And now, he feels Naz shud b wit Iman for he knows Naz had always loved him and that aft 17 yrs of hell, Iman s heaven is his wife's n kids. He understands his brother s plight and need.

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Posted: 7 years ago

#12

I've watched only one episode so far, so basing my views on that only.

I think what Naz said about being a pendulum is so bang on. Even if she wants to, there's nothing to chose from. They're both equally her past and future. One is her husband whom she loves, the other is the father of her kids who's been her support for the past 17 years. How can she control love? How can anyone control who they fall for? Her husband hasn't been absent for 17 days, weeks or months. 17 years is a freaking long time to spend alone and so far, I've felt Salim is a pretty selfless person. If the daughter wouldn't have insisted the talk, he'd probably never force it upon Naz.

None of them are wrong, but it's going to be one nice ride seeing the dynamics play out in their lives!

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Glittersnow

@Glittersnow

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Posted: 7 years ago

#13

saleem has always been in love with naz..may be even before she was imaan's wife...and imaan's absence made his desire stronger..and
saleem did not do any selflessness...he was just being with the woman he loves and her kids..
but nazneen may have fallen in love with saleem in the due course..don't blame her ..but still the way this relationship goes..it's not gud...
and just to.add...the way shaira especially brought up is not so cool...she is detained at police station 3 times at late night ..she is only 18..but she does'nt care ..it's pampering..why does not salim scold her or warn her..its not a petty issue...and shaira is rudye and spoiled..
and ayyan though underage smokes..how cool is dat...why does'nt saleem concentrate on these..if he is really a father figure and a gentleman..
saleem clearly is not what he shows...he has clear alter ego

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sehar mehrotra

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Posted: 7 years ago

#14

I beg to differ. For Naz and Saleem it took them 17 years to get over Imaan and form a relationship. It didn't just happen overnight and it wasnt a fling either. It took them a lot of time to fall in love, for a friendship to bloom into love.

I personally don't blame them. Imaan was presumed dead for 17 long years. And Saleem was there for her all the time...plus he seems like a genuinely nice guy who cares about her and her kids. He loves them as his own.

As much as it'd be hard for Imaan and I really don't want a heartbreak for him. But this is the reality now.

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megha sharma

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Posted: 7 years ago

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I don't think it's wrong for Naz & Saleem to get together as they have really been each other's support system for the last 17 years but the problem here is shaira's self centred attitude . Inman is make by efforts to get to know his kids & she is too cold towards him . In that scenario Ayan had behaved responsibly & shown maturity even though he is younger then her . Iman is in for a heart break & I seriously feel that it should be Naaz who should tell him the truth & that too soon as sharia kind of looks like an impulsive person who can literally tell iman about Saleem & Naz & that will hurt iman more . I wish they show some empathy in shaira too regarding her father as she just keeps on rolling eyes only when he is there . Saleem I felt was in love with Naz but couldn't confess & she got married to iman . Nobody is at fault here but the circumstances .

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