I am so in love with Veer’s character! His love for Bani is divine and magical.
I love the fact that he is unlike most male leads on television these days. The ones who think hurting their female counterparts is love. The ones who are angry all the time, who shout and break bangles of their soulmate’s. The ones who stand quietly when their family members insult their lady love. The ones who can’t handle their emotions and become “ruthless” , thereby torturing the female leads mentally and physically in the name of revenge.
I see the shallowness of those kind of male leads on ITV even more when I witness the rawness and purity in Veer’s love for Bani. That is how a husband should treat his wife. That is how a man protects his woman. That is how you love - unconditionally and fully.
With Veer’s character, the makers are also giving the right message to the audience. Aspire to have a husband who loves you like him. Who treats you respectfully and will protect you to the ends of the earth. Not someone who pushes you around in the name of love and scares the hell out of you in the name of love. Because that isn’t love. Revenge isn’t love. Anger isn’t love. Hurting someone physically or emotionally isn’t love.
True love is like Veer’s. It is accepting, forgiving and boundless. Veer will never take revenge from Bani like typical male leads of ITV. She can hurt him, kill him but he is incapable of that hatred towards her. He will never turn away when she needs help or comfort. He can’t ever reject her and hurt her. He will just love her, whoever she is and whatever she wants to be. That is the beauty of his love.
This love is a strength, not a weakness of Veer’s. There may come a time when Veer’s love grows to such proportions that he does not need Bani around to sustain it. He will be willing to let her go if she wants to and still love her deeply. He will not need her to love him back or stay in his home. He will be happy knowing that she is safe wherever she is.
There is power in this kind of love. A kind of freedom. You don’t have to put up a mask, hide behind anger and threats to push the feelings back. As Veer says, jo hai woh hai. He is powerful because of this love. It does not make him a doormat. He is free to express this love because it’s not dependent on Bani feeling the same for him. She can hate him, hurt him never want to see him. But he will continue loving her without needing her to love him back. There is dignity in that love.
There is a divinity in Veer that far surpasses any other character’s on the show. Makers can maintain the grey shades and beautiful brain he has. But they should never toy with his love for Bani. That love should remain pure and a constant throughout the series.
I don’t need to see a vengeful male lead with hatred and revenge in his heart again. That is not exciting at all for me. Seeing Veer and his unwavering love is thrilling enough for me to continue watching the show to the end. That is all I need ❤️
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