In search of Rudra in Baba - Page 12

Originally posted by: Rein123

@vinnas you posting the rules here was obviously a waste of time and effort as these ppl who claim to be mature, sensible and have a tuning to defend fellow members being harassed in this forum (but turn a blind eye if its a member of a rival fangroup) had already admitted and declared that they never cared and never will care about the rules as long as they are able to bring another fangroup down, however when other groups do the same to them and give them a taste of their own medicine they cry whine bark and growl foul and then call the other group member hypocrites? So what exactly can you do about them? NOTHING! Don't even bother trying to show a blind person the difference between the spectrum and a single color as you did when clarifying that the Rudra and baba POV was yours alone and not rest of the drashiv fans. This thread by the TM itself is a violation of the rules but who cares anyways? Yeah as one of the member from their own fanbase pointed out that this is an attack to the entire drashiv fanbase why? Because they tried to brand a view not all of us share as ours, and I myself had clarified on your thread about my doubts regarding the same and why I felt otherwise but the TM intentionally seems to have ignored that! If anyone tried to brand a view that I don't agree with or share as my own then yes I have a big problem with that because to me its the same as getting slandered! So chandu let this one go since its a waste of time anyways and I'm sure you don't wanna waste anymore of your time giving these ppl anymore attention than they deserve either.

Originally posted by: Miss_Random

Just let them bark, as i said before they dont hav an end to their nonsense!! One goes n the other will come, they hav nothing better to do loll... n the reason is clear, theres nothing left for them in the show so they r trying to ruin every topic with their stupid talks lol.. but who cares, their talks wont ever change anything in the show n it doesnt bother anyone at all, i wonder why they think that everyone is desperate to go in discussion with them loll...

First i thought they got offended coz i mistakenly attacked their fangroup where as there was only 1 person who assumed baba to be rudra (even though i know many others were desperate too for this to happen but now they r claiming that no one did that expect of one person lol. I dont hav a problem with their opinion but i found it funny n desperate that some r searching for their rudra in baba lolll, what the... )

but no this is not the case, they not only got offended,, they hav a problem, which they cant ever change, NOT ABLE TO ACCEPT NEGATIVE OPINIONS OR BASHING OF THEIR IDOLS OR EVEN A SINGLE ATTACK AT THEIR OPINION, where as they do the same all the time!!! Damnnn... so just leave them as they r

They theirselves know what they hav been doing in every topic since sooo long now but they r not mature enough to admit so I will say, just let them bark, they dont need ur company as they hav 2/3 more persons who can giv then the same company, as they r on the same level lol

Originally posted by: slippery_chilka

Sigh...you still don't get it, do you? I expected more since you tend to read every post minutely and remember it all. Such expectation, much disappointment. Let me explain one more time. You specified ONE members IQ, not the groups because SHE came up with the speculation that you found so offending as to insult her. Why in the world would I get insulted as a group? Unless your "context" was that as one of our group member came up with the speculation, the whole group's IQ is admirable?

Yeah, even in the garb of snark, it's still name calling. Just like murder is murder, what ever the motive.

LOL, this is funny..I already answered this..every post of yours even though you keep trying to play it off like you are amused and I am the angry one. 😆

Oh second thought, I feel uncomfortable sharing my email with someone of your disposition..so how about you upload it on any free media and PM me the link to download? 😃 Thanks.

Originally posted by: krystal_watz

There you go again, still at it. 😆

I spoke about one member's IQ, and that member was a part of your group. You and that member were together fighting the TM as 'DraShiv' fans. When I mocked her, she was operating in this thread as a group member, not as an individual.

Orite, let me dumb it down for you a bit. Miss_Random mocked you as a group, so you came to defend yourselves as a group. While this inter-group tussle was going on, I entered and mocked one of your group. Since you perceive me as a RoShiv fan, you took my comments to be an attack on your group along with Miss_random. (since you were fighting in this thread as a group). You were already fighting one RoShiv fan, so my comments aggravated the situation for you AS A GROUP. You replied angrily to me to express solidarity with your friend. Now please don't ask me what 'solidarity' means. Feel free to consult the dictionary. 😆

Bold: And I'm succeeding with each such 'try' that I have, which is infuriating for you. You come off as exasperated and angry with each comment you make. You even admitted your exasperation in a comment. 😛

And nope honey, sarcastic comments are not the same as outright name-calling. There's a difference; although I don't expect you to appreciate it.

P.S.I STILL didn't receive any answers.

Originally posted by: slippery_chilka

Oh dear, now I am hyper too. I am displaying way too many emotions through a computer screen. Such talent. 😃 And ask me yourself. The answer is. I never claimed to have high standards of ethics. I have also made my transparency pretty apparent. I say it as I see it and even speak against my friends when I disagree with them. I confronted you not just because you insulted a specific member or a group as you insist on claiming, but because you first claimed to be wanting tolerance and taking the high road when in a disagreement but doing so otherwise. Your comment was a direct contradiction of what you claimed you believe in and that showed your double standard. Which I pointed out.

Originally posted by: slippery_chilka

Yeah there's a saying by Mark Twain about arguing that applies here. 😉

👍🏼 At least we got some laugh out of it. 🤣

Originally posted by: slippery_chilka

Double sigh. So you are saying when you mocked one person's IQ for her speculation, it was perceived by me to be actually applied to the whole group, since she is a member of our group and we were arguing here as a group and hence I was offended and became so angry I confronted you over it? Even though you quoted that one person and replied to her and questioned HER IQ specifically which I quoted and repeatedly mentioned her as "Her, She, A member" while questioning you over your double standards? Bahahaha! That is an A class assumption. 👏 Oh no, no, I am not going to ask you to explain anything to me. I am actually in awe of your deduction and your dumb-ed down explanation. I had no idea anyone, especially a person so well read could draw such enlightening conclusions over one persons' speculations and a defence of that person. Wow. 👏 Now I want to bow down to your IQ. You are just so brilliant.

Oh certainly, exasperation = anger too. Another brilliant deduction. How do you do it?! Just wow! ⭐️

And nope honey, no matter how sarcastic..name calling is name calling. Just like how assault is an assault no matter how jokingly one hits a person.

I have given you the answers..you are unable to grasp it. 😉

Originally posted by: krystal_watz

You have some serious problems with comprehension, I see.

Well, Robert Bruce never gave up, so I'll be brave and take one final try.

Yes, I mocked ONLY a single member. True. But, my mocking came at a time when you were fighting as a group on this thread. You were already angry at Miss_random for mocking DraShiv fans as a whole, and when I entered into the fray, my words added insult to injury of the whole group; regardless of how many people I addressed my posts to.

Lemme give you an example.

I and a bunch of other Indians were having a heated argument with Pakistanis on a forum. We were arguing on issues such as economy, relative growth, religious intolerance etc. One of the Indians made a remark on Pakistani dictators which was erroneous factually.

That error was seized upon by some of the Pakistanis and they began making fun of my friend. Mind you. Only THAT person, not the others. But in that heated moment, all of us started defending that person and abusing them angrily, only out of a sense of group pride against 'adversaries'. And beacuse we had to gain the upper hand somehow.

THIS is what I'm referring to. In a hostile environment, when one group is fighting against another collective entity, any attack on an individual from the group is taken as an attack on the whole group. It comes from a desire to upstage the opponents as a whole. And in this thread, I was one of 'the opponents' for you. This is one of the basic facts of 'conflict psychology'.

So, NO. You DID NOT perceive my IQ comment to be for all of you individually, but you took it as an affront to the DraShiv group's pride as a whole.

This is why I asked you to read up on at least NCERT textbook-level Psychology, so you can gain a better understanding of this and can make an educated counter to my argument. But no avail.

Anyway, I'm done. Cannot be bothered to repeat the same thing ad nauseam over and over again; especially when the audience is so obtuse. 😆

P.S. 'exasperation'--- A feeling of intense irritation or annoyance. Which is what you started to have when you simply couldn't 'get to me' despite your repeated attempts. 😛

Originally posted by: vinnas

Tia by mentioning the disagreement n speaking against friends 😛 u reminded me our first intro post long ago. n I bet u don't remember it 😉 we grandly disagree with each other n I want to continue with it 😆 but just leave it there itself 😉 😃 ..

Originally posted by: vinnas

yes 😃 it's our usual way 😉 🤣 ...