Rudra completed Shivangi's Karva Chauth Vrat!? - Page 6

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Posted: 7 years ago
#51

Originally posted by: krystal_watz

You can express your disgust all you want, that's called "freedom of speech". You can counter opinions and disagree, but you cannot question someone's choices. You cannot ask somebody to justify why they like something. You cannot demand 'proof' that they are truly a fan. That's what I meant to say.

You can say, "RoShiv are idiotic and forced together".

You cannot say, "How come you like RoShiv?" or, "You sound like you're guilty of liking RoShiv more".


You can ask those questions when the person pretends to be a fan and contradicts the same claim because it's called cheating a fangroup while pretending to be one of them just so you can diss the couple.

For example:

If a person pretends to be your friend but only so he/she can diss something you love. You have full right to question the pretense. That's what Rein was saying.
Edited by slippery_chilka - 7 years ago
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Posted: 7 years ago
#52

Originally posted by: krystal_watz

You can express your disgust all you want, that's called "freedom of speech". You can counter opinions and disagree, but you cannot question someone's choices. You cannot ask somebody to justify why they like something. You cannot demand 'proof' that they are truly a fan. That's what I meant to say.

You can say, 'RoShiv are idiotic and forced together".

You cannot say, "How come you like RoShiv?" or, "You sound like you're guilty of liking RoShiv more".

I am not asking how come she likes Roshiv or how come she likes DraShiv. I asked her why has she made a post where she contradicting herself over liking DraShiv. Now I didn't know there were rules here preventing us from asking a user clarification over what they have written. I have not questioned her choices I questioned her contradicting post. In other words I have given her an opportunity to clarify herself. I have not said "oh look your post is so and so so you are probably not a draShiv fan " I asked "Why do you sound so dissapointed?I thought you liked DraShiv?? Oh wait, I forgot you like Roshiv too and a bit much more than DraShiv. Because that's what this post seem to make it look like. Who cares if it applies to naag or naagins the fact is the vrat and KC scene has been rendered useless."
I questioned her dissapointment not her choice of couple as I have clearly mentioned that she likes both of them nowhere have I written that she has to stick to only one couple or none! I don't even know why I have bothered to explain this.
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Posted: 7 years ago
#53

Originally posted by: Rein123

Through my earlier post I was asking for a clarification from mages over her naag naagin rules application comment. If that seems like an imposition then I guess everything I write would seem like an imposition. I am not arguing with you nor do I want to but right now I'm just making myself clear here over my response to mages. Of course its an open forum where you can discuss your POV but you have to agree that when there are disagreement there are bound to be clashes. The best solution in this case would be to ignore it to your best possible ability only if you can other wise we know what to expect here.

I didn't mean anyone by this i'm just talking in general way and i know all this things so just chill
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Posted: 7 years ago
#54

Originally posted by: slippery_chilka



You can ask those questions when the person pretends to be a fan and contradicts the same claim because it's called cheating a fangroup while pretending to be one of them just so you can diss the couple.

For example:

If a person pretends to be your friend but only so he/she can diss something you love. You have full right to question the pretense. That's what Rein was saying.



What Rein said, amounted to "Give me proof that you like DraShiv". She basically all but said, "You claim to like DraShiv but you're a liar". That's what my objection was towards. I'm new to these dynamics as I previously mentioned somewhere else.

There might be a few people who pretend to be fans in order to diss the couple, but there are lots of others who might genuinely like both couples or one couple slightly more than the others. This attitude might be applied towards them as well, which would be disconcerting.
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Posted: 7 years ago
#55

Originally posted by: krystal_watz



What Rein said, amounted to "Give me proof that you like DraShiv". She basically all but said, "You claim to like DraShiv but you're a liar". That's what my objection was towards. I'm new to these dynamics as I previously mentioned somewhere else.

There might be a few people who pretend to be fans in order to diss the couple, but there are lots of others who might genuinely like both couples or one couple slightly more than the others. This attitude might be applied towards them as well, which would be disconcerting.

@bold that is your opinion only and what I said didn't really mean give me proof that your a drashiv fan so kindly refrain from putting words in my mouth specially those which I have never said or written. I have already explained myself in the previous response where for the final time I am going to write in this post once again that I didn't question her couple of choice rather her contracticting post and asked why has she written it? That's a different thing she doesn't want to answer. Also there is no rule here preventing me from asking the same. And moreover I know mages from another forum where we agreed to a lot of things, however that doesn't mean we'll agree over everything! And yes when someone you know claims to like something and then later say stuff that seem to contradict the same claim questions are bound to arise but then this is just between me and her so kindly stay out of this.
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Posted: 7 years ago
#56
this happened in Saturday or today epis? 😕
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Posted: 7 years ago
#57

Originally posted by: krystal_watz



What Rein said, amounted to "Give me proof that you like DraShiv". She basically all but said, "You claim to like DraShiv but you're a liar". That's what my objection was towards. I'm new to these dynamics as I previously mentioned somewhere else.

There might be a few people who pretend to be fans in order to diss the couple, but there are lots of others who might genuinely like both couples or one couple slightly more than the others. This attitude might be applied towards them as well, which would be disconcerting.


No she didn't. She has explained it in her post. You perceived it as such but that doesn't necessarily mean it's true.
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Posted: 7 years ago
#58
Huhhh what about rocky? I hope he survives the accident, im not a fan of rudra n shivangi at all.. their relation luks more like a bro-sis lol
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Posted: 7 years ago
#59
LOL! When people start trying to diss a couple by saying they are like bro-sis. You know the insecurity and fear is real. 😃
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Posted: 7 years ago
#60

Originally posted by: Rein123


@bold that is your opinion only and what I said didn't really mean give me proof that your a drashiv fan so kindly refrain from putting words in my mouth specially those which I have never said or written. I have already explained myself in the previous response where for the final time I am going to write in this post once again that I didn't question her couple of choice rather her contracticting post and asked why has she written it? That's a different thing she doesn't want to answer. Also there is no rule here preventing me from asking the same. And moreover I know mages from another forum where we agreed to a lot of things, however that doesn't mean we'll agree over everything! And yes when someone you know claims to like something and then later say stuff that seem to contradict the same claim questions are bound to arise but then this is just between me and her so kindly stay out of this.



I have this wiring in me to react strongly to what I perceive as bullying. But if it's truly not what your intention was, then it's fine I guess.
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