Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000
That's just stupidity. Sabina didn't deserve the man VV became at the end, but she loved him and wanted him, and the world was offering him to her on a silver platter. Why should she deny it? I'm perfectly happy with Sabina's character, it's VV and D that annoy me to no end.
Coz she was NOT a flawed character . Her mother had a murky past but Sabina was a very strong woman and so i expected it . There was no weakness in Sabina . The two characters I found unflawed till the last minute butchering started were Charu and Sabina .
Whenever I saw Sabina , the word that came to my mind was STRENGTH . Whenever I saw Charu , the word that came to my mind was PEACE . Whenever I saw Devki The word that came to my mind was INNOCENCE .
People criticised Sabina for walking away without telling Vaibhav after the blackmail . I don't . That was HER decision to make . She weighed things in her mind and decided that all this was simply not worth it .
She was the one who returned from the mandap , seeing the press and all the guests and the fact that the marraige had taken place . Why did she not go with Baa up at that time only ? What do 7 rounds around the holy fire done some minutes ago really mean if LOVE was the criteria of all decisions like it was shown in the end ? Even then she knew that Vaibhav still loved her , Baa had told her that . But at that time Devki was NOT in love with him . Sabina wud have done the girl an infinite favor although the press wud have had a field day and IMV wud have been enraged . The press having a field day was no big deal to Sabina ...she was used to it , her bread butter was only such .
But she chose to accept this foolish Vaibhav AFTER knowing that Devki had fallen in love with him ...a fact for which even SHE was responsible as she had not spoken up on time ...a fact which would NEVER have occured if the 3 month stay would not have happened . At THAT point the situation had been ...Vaibhav was still in love with HER , Devki was not yet in love with him , Sabina herself STILL loved Vaibhav . AND to top it she had shown the guts to come TILL THE MANDAP . So much mess cud have been avoided .
But seeing the PHERAS had taken place she RESPECTED MARRAIGE and went back . It was not fear of the press that she gave precedence , nor LOVE that she gave priority but MARRAIGE as an institution .
Well What changed later that she accepted Vaibhav ? In fact now she ALONE was privy to the fact that Devki had fallen in love with Vaibhav as she had read that card . And NOW she chose to come back ? When in some part SHE was responsible for this happening asshe had NOT spoken up at the mandap and allowed this girl to go ahead and EXPECT things like Oh Vaibhav will come around and we can have a chance ?
Not just that , Sabina knew that Devki loved him unselfishly , WITHOUT EXPECTING IT BACK .
She knew that Devki unselfishly let him go .
The institution of marraige that she respected and returned from the mandap , it had grown now as one in the couple had fallen in love .
So why return NOW ?
The power to slap Vaibhav [ and I mean a real hard one } was only in Sabina's hands . Who SAYS I want u ? What r u doing standing on my doorstep professing LOVE when ur married ? Have u given Devki a thought or her grandfather who placed such trust in u ? I cannot RESPECT a man who simply accepts the unselfish sacrifices of his wife and runs to his past flame professing LOVE ! There r things in life MUCH more important than so called LOVE ! My mom's reputation was one thing , and so is Devki ! GO BACK from where u came . And if u STILL persist that you will NEVER be able to love Devki etc etc , I don't care , I know this much , I AM NEVER HAVING U BACK .
This was what I had wished that strong woman to do . To remain with her dignity intact and give Vaibhav the lesson of his life .
She was never a flawed character or a weak one . The CVS butchered her when
She did not consider Vicky Oberoi's wife's feelings and involved him in those stupid lies
When she fled from there without even meeting Devki who took care of her health ...that was basic courtesy . She instead went to meet Baa . It was not Baa who had brought her there , it was Devki and she had taken care of her health .U owe a person something in life when the person takes care of ur health .
When she accepted Vaibhav inspite of knowing Devki's feelings and returned when once she had walked away , thinking so logically and with such mental strength . The real answer shud have been THINGS HAVE CHANGED NOW .
I wud have respected her immensely then . She really was not the type who practical in a common sort of way ...the type who when things r handed on a platter , think it is really stupid to refuse them and grab them .Sabina was practical , yes , but in a rather uncommon kind of way .
I wud personally have loved to see Vaibhav being left alone ...Sabina refusing him and Devki walking off with IMV's coin in her hand .
But That kind of ending NO SERIIAL in India will show .😆 So I wud have preferred him coming back to Devki , chastised like HELL . Devki would have accepted him and soothed him .
Had Devki met Sabina , Sabinas answer should have been ,Its really not in ur boundary to tell ME if I should accept V now . I am not accepting him for MY reasons . This might surprise u , but There it is .
Never got to see this .
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